How often do you think of your exes?

I have been wondering if it is a Virgo memory thing or a Mecury in Libra thing with me.

I think of them a lot and miss them a lot too. Much like a Libra who, from my observations, have great difficulty letting go of exes.
Having Virgo memory means I remember all the intimate times easily and in great detail.

maybe it's just your Virgo mind, that memorized everything....

CS- You're almost starting to sound like a Cancer! LOL!
Each person we come in contact with makes us who we are today. The Virguy I know said I reminded him of his girlfriend back in college and that was a while ago. Virguys do have great memories and it will serve you well in all sorts of instances in the future.

Nope out of sight out of mind on to next one cue music on to the next one on to next one lol. poor thing hAving libra mercury must suck mine is in virgo.

not sure what my my virguy friend's mercury is but he's always thinking about some ex anytime he's single

constantly idealizing them

I just remember them, as examples but nothing more...sorry dude. I actually never had any thoughts of wanting to go back or even the feeling of missing them because I always find myself falling back into the core of my soul and then as reason hits my on the head passion slowly hits me like a soccer kick...BAM! HEAVY METAL! Also, I have an aries moon so that usually leads me to shake my head from those flowery rose glasses quickly, but I am a human, and i do miss the intimacy from long-term relationships like anyone else (who cared for it).

Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
maybe it's just your Virgo mind, that memorized everything....

Heehee, maybe.

Posted by virgoking
Nope out of sight out of mind on to next one cue music on to the next one on to next one lol. poor thing hAving libra mercury must suck mine is in virgo.

🙂
You dog youuuu lol

Posted by Jason2213

My own virgo memory tends to remember painful, regretful, guilty memories. Now that sucks.

It can get pretty tough.

Posted by Crabcakes
Virguys do have great memories and it will serve you well in all sorts of instances in the future.

Haha, my chart is pretty dry. It's on fire actually.

Posted by cancergem
not sure what my my virguy friend's mercury is but he's always thinking about some ex anytime he's single

It would be nice if you could find out sweetie pie.

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
I just remember them, as examples but nothing more...sorry dude. I actually never had any thoughts of wanting to go back or even the feeling of missing them because I always find myself falling back into the core of my soul and then as reason hits my on the head passion slowly hits me like a soccer kick...BAM! HEAVY METAL! Also, I have an aries moon so that usually leads me to shake my head from those flowery rose glasses quickly, but I am a human, and i do miss the intimacy from long-term relationships like anyone else (who cared for it).

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Haahahaha!
HOT AND HEAVY!!!!

so the results are in....... he has a virgo in mercury.

he does have venus in leo, which i know all three of us share. i know i have a tendency to think, and in my particular case right now, to go back to an ex.

Posted by cancergem
so the results are in....... he has a virgo in mercury.

Fascinating, virgoking is the guy to talk to then.

he does have venus in leo, which i know all three of us share. i know i have a tendency to think, and in my particular case right now, to go back to an ex.

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Eeewww, I can't imagine doing that 😛

I don't think of my exes at all. I barely remember some of their names if years has passed without talking to them. Only recently I thought of one since he's bought me a ticket to Hawaii to see him next month but other than that, I gotta keep it moving. I have Sun, Mercury, Venus,and Mars in Virgo.

I'll always remember my exes in some way, but less and less as time goes by. Unless I have remained friends with them, they don't usually impact my life any more after a certain point, and I have just moved on. Unless the ex really had some sort of impact on me, whether positive or negative, then he'll still pop up more often than most. I only really think about one of mine, but only because I wonder where he disappeared to.

Posted by msInternationalTease
I don't think of my exes at all. I barely remember some of their names if years has passed without talking to them. Only recently I thought of one since he's bought me a ticket to Hawaii to see him next month but other than that, I gotta keep it moving. I have Sun, Mercury, Venus,and Mars in Virgo.

hey twin i guess its not just me we both have the same chart so i believe u i wonder were this comes from.

When I'm over my exes I'm over it.
I think the break up process for me is so thorough and draining that it wipes
them completely from my system.
I'm still friends with my Sag ex and wouldn't trade the experience for anything
but I don't have any desire to go back.
I even used to wish I could have those feelings for him again because of how
intense they were.
I relate more to what V.King Jason and Ms IT posted.

How often do you think of your exes?


never

Posted by virgoking

Posted by msInternationalTease
I don't think of my exes at all. I barely remember some of their names if years has passed without talking to them. Only recently I thought of one since he's bought me a ticket to Hawaii to see him next month but other than that, I gotta keep it moving. I have Sun, Mercury, Venus,and Mars in Virgo.

hey twin i guess its not just me we both have the same chart so i believe u i wonder were this comes from.

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Maybe with mars/venus in virgo, we know the reality of the relationship like the reason for the break up.

Occasionally, then I squash that fast. There's a reason they are ex's.

Posted by moon_eyes
I do not think that Virgos typically think like that, Other signs do like Cancers which has been mentioned already. It may just be your personal trait CS.

Certainly seems so.

Nice to have you posting again 🙂

Yay Moon_eyes is back 🙂

When I think of my ex's its only to try to put them in chronological order. im usually thinking about who im currently obsessed with....

never... cant even remember there names...

never. it's interesting seeing as how they used to be important to me and now they're basically nothing.

Posted by wgamador
My Virgo memory is a curse.
I mean, I remember every thing....smells, sounds, colors, clothes...
Its kind of sad, really.

Same here man.... saaaaame here....

I remember everything too. Back to the first girl I dated. I remember their faces when they smiled at me, conversations word for word, what she wore to homecoming, the smell of her favorite perfume... everything. I don't think about it often and when I do it is just fond memories. I don't sulk or get stuck in the memories. Well, not after I get over the break up anyway. Right after a break up I think about them all the time. It fades though and they become just a memory.