I'm a Scorpio. I'm nervous because I've seen him once or twice before and each time I was kinda, in his words "dolled up". I wore red lipstick, my hair luscious and curly, jeans, boyfriend bottom down and heels (the norm for me 😛). I was pretty comfortable but it seemed to take him aback a little maybe? Lol May have been a bit much for him to take in? I mean, he complimented my beauty A LOT; not to mention, it didn't keep him from making out with me at all but suggested next time I lose the lipstick & "tone it down a bit". I wasn't offended or anything, I found it cute (he was very careful with his words - "I wouldn't want anyone else to get caught in your web with me.") I've read a couple places where it's said Virgos are typically into the natural look and all that jazz but I want to stay true to myself but not scare him off or anything... Any suggestions?!
How to dress on a First date with Virgo?
then stay true to yourself if it scares him you wearing lipstick what more if you let him see your " REAL FLAWS" ?.... don't be controlled this early. You cant change a person just because you want to. Its stupid as fuck. Dress what you like to wear if he get turns off by that then he isnt the guy you can stay a long time with.

I don't want to sound melodramatic because you are in the early stages and it sounds like he is trying to be cute about it
BUT...
DON'T feed his neurosis. It has nothing to do with you. It is HIS issue.
I am being blunt because I dated a Virgo man for a long time on and off dealing with this kind of criticism..about everything. My body, my clothes, my life, everything he could find to criticize and control he would eventually and it hurt me to the core. Because it is a neurosis on his part and the bottom line is that he could not face himself and his own issues. You have to understand that if he is trying to tell you what you should wear, or make you feel bad about what you wear, you need to stand your ground and do not let him control you. You are not his paper doll to play with. Otherwise you are in for a clusterfuck of massive proportions. What he secretly wants is a bad ass bitch that can tell him what to do so he can crawl in to his hole of self reflection. It is up to you if you want to take this problem on as a Scorpio. Use your power.
In other words, wear whatever you want. And stand your ground. That's my advice. 🙂
BUT...
DON'T feed his neurosis. It has nothing to do with you. It is HIS issue.
I am being blunt because I dated a Virgo man for a long time on and off dealing with this kind of criticism..about everything. My body, my clothes, my life, everything he could find to criticize and control he would eventually and it hurt me to the core. Because it is a neurosis on his part and the bottom line is that he could not face himself and his own issues. You have to understand that if he is trying to tell you what you should wear, or make you feel bad about what you wear, you need to stand your ground and do not let him control you. You are not his paper doll to play with. Otherwise you are in for a clusterfuck of massive proportions. What he secretly wants is a bad ass bitch that can tell him what to do so he can crawl in to his hole of self reflection. It is up to you if you want to take this problem on as a Scorpio. Use your power.
In other words, wear whatever you want. And stand your ground. That's my advice. 🙂

dress your own dress style , and about his suggestion: he's worried about kissing you with this red lipstick
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