I've been reading about signs to look for if a Virgo man does like you, but what about the signs that he doesn't? If it isn't obvious, I'm a Cancer girl having problems with a Virgo crush. We work together and just started "talking" a month ago. It was me who gave my number to him, and he text me. He initiated the texting for 4 days straight after that, but then that was it. It was me doing all the initiating. He hates talking on the phone btw, so all we do is text. He hardly says anything through the text that can keep a conversation going so it's akward when I'm typing these long paragraphs and all he has to respond with is two words! I told him how I felt about him which was only that I do like him, and I asked him what he thought about me and he said he liked me a little but didn't know too well. I've been feeling as though he's been playing head games with me, he acts cold towards me at work. Sometimes I feel as though I don't even exist, yet I get the "Virgo stare" if that's what you want to call it. I told him how I feel like he doesn't talk to me or doesn't want me around and I don't want to look stupid talking to someone who isn't interested in me the same way I'm interested in them. He said I don't look stupid, I'm not bothering him, and he doesn't play head games with people because he thinks they are stupid. He says this yet I feel the exact opposite. I've gave him plenty of opportunity to say "Hey, go away". People think Cancers are clingy, I feel that is the exact opposite. If you tell me to go away, I'll be gone so fast you'd wonder if I was actually there. I told him I feel as though he's stringing me along, knowing that I like him. If he's trying to protect my feelings, don't because I appreciate honesty to someone protecting my feelings. Every time and I mean everytime I ask him to hang out, it's always something. I've been asking him to hang out since the first day I started talking to him, that's actually what my note said when I gave him my phone number. I said "I'd like to hang out sometime, if you want..here's my phone number". When I ask, first it's "Umm not sure. I work a lot, I'm busy, I have plans later, etc" I asked him if he wanted to hang out on Halloween and he said he wasn't sure, so I said think about it and I'd get back to him. So when I did, he said he thought about it but he's really busy that entire day. So finally the first time he says we're going to hang out, he bails! He doesn't call to tell me things changed!
