How to tell if a Virgo guy DOESN'T like you. (Page 2)

I went through something like that as well but mine situation was worse
I'm a Pisces and the guy I'm in love with is a virgo.I grew up having feelings for girls.i know it might sounds weird but i always had butterflies for girls but i had a few guys i was attracted to but there was nothing there.most pisces r clingy but I'm not i'm very distance i stay away from my crush if i really really liked them i avoid them but not completely.i sometimes have the courage to talk to him.i also have the Virgo moon so i act across from a virgo and pisces.i'm very emotion but i hide it,very picky and clean/organized,very critical but also loving.when I'm very depressed i usely draw my self in and avoid everyone.

ok the situation with the guy.
when i moved to new town i was 14.there was this guy i saw looking at me a few times in class but i didn't pay to much attention to it.one of his friends who had a crush on me always teased me and alway cought him starring.he came up to one day and said (name) wants to rape you. i said what and roled my eyes.usly guys i was attracted to were guys who r shy,have eather have long hair or curly hair,red heads,freckles or wore black.well i figured out that boy who was staring at me couple of times was the one cody was talking about(the one who teases me).well the boy who i cought starring at me a few times.I saw wut he really looks like.he had every look i'm atrtacted to.red curly afro hair, pale skin,freckles and wears black.i was attracted to him a little but i didn't have a crush on him cus i wasn't sure if he likes the same stuff i liked.that same day i got home and took my dog for a walk.he comes up the same street i was walking on but from a different direction.he was wearing shades with this almost creepy smile on his face watching me.as i walked passed him i said i know you and his smile got bigger but he didn't say anything.
then i found out he into clowns and skulls and likes mattelica.i love mattelica but don't came to much for skulls.i have an obsession over clowns and angels.specially angels with curly hair.
i told one of my friends i liked him.he found out.i notice him starring at me more.

he stuck up for me when cody was bothering me.i never had anyone do that for me.
the school year was almost over and i was sitting with my friends.he comes up comes he someone at my table.he talks to him then looks at me.i was so embarrassed i put my hands over my face and said don't look at me.he smiled then left.

I never have liked anyone so much before

summer past and highschool started.


He began to act very different around me.he would constantly stare at me.i was to nervous to talk to him.when ever i was near him i would see staring at me from the corner of his eyes and have a smirk on his face.
i found out by a friend of mine that hes been rejected alot.i knew the girls he had a crush on most of them won't talk to him 1 i saw making out with his brother.i became close friend with one of his buddys i had no clue he was friends with him at 1st.i would talk to him about my crush all the time.but i never could tell my crush i liked him.there was few times i talked to him but he would studder alot.he would smile as i walk up to him but he act like I know i he knows i'm walking up.when i would as him something he would studder,look at me then look at the floor.when he was wearing a hoodie i sware he was figating with his fingers.
but i didn't get why i he told his friends he hated me.
i been to his house twice.he let me in those times.i would talk to him a few times but i would get to shy to stay there so i would leave.i would studder but not as much as he would.
there was this guy who was asking me out since the begining of the year.there were other guys asking me out but i said no.well this one guy.he was fat and everything i could n't stand.i went out with him anyways cus he tried harder then the other guys.but he was way to clingy and gave me no air.he was freaking me out.I LIKE SPACE AND TIME!
well i was hanging out with him and my crushes friends.my crush stopped talking and looked at me and my ex bf tne he left the table.

i heard alot of rumors about my crush that wasn't true.i'm very stubborn and its hard for me to listen to other people about something or someone until it sinks in.i dated my ex for a week and dumped him cus he freaked me out.
then whe nthere was 3 months left of school i was so confused cus the rumors i heard and wut my crushes friend told me.
one of them told me he can't stand me another i talked to out of no where brought him up and said he has a huge crush on me but is very shy.then he never talked to me again.well i started an argument with my crush online.i said alot of mean things to him more then wut he said to me.when i'm nice to someone i really care about i can only be nice to them for so long if i don't get the niceness back i snap.

The next day i saw him.he kept trying not to look at me and looked as he was about to cry but keeping his tears in.i was just standing then ignoring him laughing with my friend.we were talking about something but i can't remember wut it was but i kept keeping my distance from him.then a week past.my crush acted like nothing happened.he would still stare at me.if i was near him he look at me but not stare and there was no more smile.when i was around him and his friend he came up with joke.i yelled at him and called him an awful name.he stopped smiling.

then i was talking to his ex.she told my crush that we talked.he told me online to leave his friends alone.
then my sister got angry told him off.she really got to him.he never spoke to me again.if i was anywhere around him he would act like i wasn't there.

i relized i really hurt this boy and he did have crush on me but was still at a young age so he was immature.
i kept thinking that he didn't like me but my sister notice the way he loooked at me and said he likes me.


well before the year was over my freind who was also my crushes friend made me apologizes him.when i went up to him he looked at me and his smile went to a frown.i told him how sorry i was but he just looked at the ground and didn't say anthing.


then i moved.

i no longer live in that state.this memory still haunts me today. i still can't get over him.i love him.i never had felt so much pain for anyone before.



I know now don't believe that virgo r not emotional.they are but that hide it very well.

and if they stare at u that must mean that like you.
i know i will see him again

Going to try an make this short as I can. Met Virgo man online. We chatted a couple of times and I liked him before we met. Well you know what I mean, great conversations. We met for a drink. He was riding his Harley with a friend and I met both. It went great. He came back to my house, but no sex. Just kissing and cuddling. His touch was sweet and there was chemistry for sure. He certainly said and acted in a way a man does when interested. He left the next day with his daughter for a family Thanksgiving trip. He called me the next day which I was surprised about but I missed call. Just wanted to say hello and to have a great day. That was Sunday. He came back Wednesday, so that night I text to say hello and if he was back. He said yes, going to movie with daughter. So left it. I did text the next day to say Happy Thanksgiving. He text back. Then I did the silly drunk calling at night, but nothing mushy. Just he told me he didn't like texting and I asked about his trip. Nothing, so the next night on some dating advice from friends, they said call just say "sorry about babbling the night before and if you have time this weekend and want to hang let me know." So nothing. I have had so many head games from guys that I am confused. I was married a long time then in a few relationships and now back out here again. SO yes I make mistakes. I emailed him Sunday and just said I wanted to get to know him and see where it goes and not sure where he was at. Calling two days after we hang and then kind of ignoring me. On Tuesday he did text and say that he wasn't ignoring just lots going on and he would call. He did call Wednesday and opened up to me about stuff with his youngest daughter that he said he normally doesn't tell people. So I felt he was trusting me as person, as guys don't do that. So Friday he text me what I was up to, but it ended up that we didn't get together. He has kids and me too. I called him when I got home a few times and he answered every time but that was that. I sent him a sexy picture the next day, nothing bad, but sexy. He of course says the wants to come over but he did send me a text before I sent photo asking if I had my kids that night. So he ended up coming over and it was sweet. He is always freezing when he gets off his motorcycle so I made him hot cocoa and he is just so sweet to me. I think he is very gun shy as he has had women in his life that have been awful. He constantly asks me if I am going t