I can NOT believe the audacity of this WOMAN!

This is a Facebook conversation handled through a Status I read on her profile. I have been monitoring all day.

My New Ex
no sleep , no appetite, tears that can't stop flowing and heart problems . bad romance * lady gaga*
2 hours ago via Facebook for BlackBerry

Friend1
u like drama huh girl
about an hour ago

My New Ex
Nope just a broken heart
about an hour ago

Friend1
aww, wat happened now.................
44 minutes ago

My New Ex
Waiting For someone to fight for love but I was set free so
7 minutes ago

What kind of sick game is this??!

This is the same kind of mumbo jumbo, mixed signal bullcrap that I always get.
"I wanted it, you were supposed to know" blah blah blah!

I agree with this person..

Friend1
u like drama huh girl
about an hour ago

😄

Honey you are way too young for this BS, NEXT

Do yourself a favor, stop monitoring her FB, you will drive yourself completely bonkers, she don't know what she wants because if she did she would want what she had, she let it go you gave her what she wanted, she would not RESPECT you if you sat there and begged, nagged and tried to convince her to stay, you showed self respect, self restraint and THAT IS IMMENSELY ATTRACTIVE to a woman, if you had wussed out and begged she would be somewhere smiling and telling herself she did the right thing letting such an unattractive soft man go, she would say yeah he's nice but there is no CHEMISTRY no FIRE between us, HER EMBERS ARE NOW BURNING SO NOW SHE'S HEARTBROKEN, LET HER STAY THAT WAY FOR AWHILE and while your at it go have fun, flirt, smile as though everything is just fine with you, beware when women try to pull you into drama, that is not attractive, let her moan and groan, she needs it to feel attraction and feel a bond with you, she will be begging you back in no time LOL, so I wouldn't worry too much about it. It seems it was pretty one sided anyway.

It's obvious, it's normal .. all people know what it is except the Virgo. The Virgo thinks it's a sick game .. to everyone else, it is what is necessary to make the other (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( feel ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) loved.



You've read all these messages in here on the Virgo board, haven't you? Didn't you ever stop to ask yourself what it all means? And why there are so many people saying the same thing?



A person NEEDS ...... N.E.E.D.S ........ to be made to feel special, and this is done by fighting for the one you love, going above and beyond, out of your way, to bend over backwards to PROVE your love for the other ... to walk to the end of the earth, to walk through fire, to jump off the edge of a cliff ..

.. to die for it ...



A Virgo does not understand passion .. I have maintained this for the 4 years I have been a member here. What she wants is for you to show that you are passionate about making sure that she knows that you would endure anything for her to be the love of your life .. because this is what a person needs to feel loved.


Instead .. a Virgo will set them free feeling unloved, unwanted ... congratulations, you're just like the rest ... a robot.

Posted by tiki33
Honey you are way too young for this BS, NEXT

Do yourself a favor, stop monitoring her FB, you will drive yourself completely bonkers, she don't know what she wants because if she did she would want what she had, she let it go you gave her what she wanted, she would not RESPECT you if you sat there and begged, nagged and tried to convince her to stay, you showed self respect, self restraint and THAT IS IMMENSELY ATTRACTIVE to a woman, if you had wussed out and begged she would be somewhere smiling and telling herself she did the right thing letting such an unattractive soft man go, she would say yeah he's nice but there is no CHEMISTRY no FIRE between us, HER EMBERS ARE NOW BURNING SO NOW SHE'S HEARTBROKEN, LET HER STAY THAT WAY FOR AWHILE and while your at it go have fun, flirt, smile as though everything is just fine with you, beware when women try to pull you into drama, that is not attractive, let her moan and groan, she needs it to feel attraction and feel a bond with you, she will be begging you back in no time LOL, so I wouldn't worry too much about it. It seems it was pretty one sided anyway.

Agreed. You will drive yourself completely insane trying to catch her words and actions for scrutiny.

Posted by P-Angel

Instead .. a Virgo will set them free feeling unloved, unwanted ... congratulations, you're just like the rest ... a robot.

Why thank you.

I have fought enough in this relationship... everytime we had a problem, her solution was "break up".
So I've done my dues, many many times.

Posted by tiki33
she don't know what she wants because if she did she would want what she had

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My sentiments exactly

Does no one else find this exhaustively appalling?

I agree with P but at the same time, I would not put myself in that low position of proving yourself especially since she has a long list of why it can't work out, apparently she doesn't feel your good enough, you will find yourself doing proving BS through out the whole entire relationship off and on.....love is give and take, it has to have balance, you can fight for her but if she play you dirty and act as though it means absolutely nothing I would delete her from existence...my point being just make sure she is not toying with you, playing mental head games, fire signs tend to do that, they need plenty of mental stimulation and can be very selfish to boot.

If you want her fight for her but if you don't believe in why she let the relationship go best to move on....

to be honest, I would walk, women aren't all that attracted to ass kissers, most of the proving stuff is la la fantasy that most women fantasize about, but it's not realistic. The moment you kiss her tail and beg her back her attraction level will fall to zero and she will reject you again, maybe not immediately but at some point she will.

Posted by DyTryin

As I said in another thread...

But, one thing I learned: You can drive yourself nuts with questions that can never be answered satisfactorily. It is better to accept that some things defy reason, and not all problems can be solved -- even by a Virgo!

A break-up can bruise your self-confidence, especially in your ability to select someone compatible, if you allow it to become Your Failure.

Try to learn from the experience, move on as best you can, and apply what you've learned to your next relationship.

- - - - -

Big Picture: This is not about your lack of passion, but about basic incompatibility.

Absolutely agree! Dy is right, incompatible....best to learn and move on...you will only be miserable with this particular girl

Strong position...position yourself right you won't have to ask her back she will come back to you and then the power shifts and you can decide if you want her back...be strong Cajun

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by P-Angel

Instead .. a Virgo will set them free feeling unloved, unwanted ... congratulations, you're just like the rest ... a robot.

Why thank you.

I have fought enough in this relationship... everytime we had a problem, her solution was "break up".
So I've done my dues, many many times.

Posted by tiki33
she don't know what she wants because if she did she would want what she had

My sentiments exactly

Does no one else find this exhaustively appalling?

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And what is it that she had? You would believe that she should want (((what))) she has, while what she has is a person who doesn't believe in providing his woman with the passion necessary to feel secure in the relationship.

Have you ever heard of my expression that I call Thaters? A Thater is a person who acknowledges "that" something is present, without going further into it, to find out what that is. To mean ..


.. if what you are is that in which is not good for her, then how can she be satisfied in wanting what she has?


You don't see that, do you? No !!! You think she should just be thankful and want what she has while only looking at That she has something, without looking at What she has.


And yes, I've always found Thaters to be appalling.

You Virgos could always make yourselves some Stepford wives .. they won't care that you don't want to express your love for them.

Seavixen made some valid points, I want to add to that and say her self esteem may not be all that great if she needs to hear you profess your undying devotion, if she was that unhappy because you were not professing your love in 101 ways every other week then she may not be able to fully appreciate you as you are, women with lose self esteem are never happy because her happiness stems from outside sources and because she needs constant validation she will exhaust and frustrate the hell out of you because no matter how much you show you love her, say you love her it's never good enough, never ending bottom less pit...run

sorry typo...I said lose self esteem...I meant to say LOW self esteem

Come on Cajun...

Ever heard of this essay before..?

Theory: everything is clear, but nothing works;
Practice: everything works, but nothing is clear;

Sometimes theory meets practice: nothing works and nothing is clear.

You??ve been too busy studying about relationships and astrological theories trying to manoeuvre in between (what is good, what is not) stuff and now you get caught in the same trap like everyone else with all your wisdom and knowledge.

Do you know how many years and what kind of circumstances/forces are needed to create a single, perfectly round and smooth bright white pearl from a single sand corn inside of an oyster?

There is nothing wrong with neither of you, it is circumstances forcing you two to both THINK and RE-THINK about your future, desire, goals etc. you are too young to draw a conclusion about specific type of human from specific type of star sign because of differences in ideals.

Think as if nothing happened and focus on something that you??ve never done it before. Start with it and stay sharp.

This will pass too??_??_??_??_.

Posted by Qbone
Come on Cajun...

Ever heard of this essay before..?

Theory: everything is clear, but nothing works;
Practice: everything works, but nothing is clear;

Sometimes theory meets practice: nothing works and nothing is clear.

You??ve been too busy studying about relationships and astrological theories trying to manoeuvre in between (what is good, what is not) stuff and now you get caught in the same trap like everyone else with all your wisdom and knowledge.

Do you know how many years and what kind of circumstances/forces are needed to create a single, perfectly round and smooth bright white pearl from a single sand corn inside of an oyster?

There is nothing wrong with neither of you, it is circumstances forcing you two to both THINK and RE-THINK about your future, desire, goals etc. you are too young to draw a conclusion about specific type of human from specific type of star sign because of differences in ideals.

Think as if nothing happened and focus on something that you??ve never done it before. Start with it and stay sharp.

This will pass too??_??_??_??_.

+1

Just leave her alone and grieve in private.

Posted by P-Angel

And what is it that she had? You would believe that she should want (((what))) she has, while what she has is a person who doesn't believe in providing his woman with the passion necessary to feel secure in the relationship.

I really don't understand how you can outright state I "can not provide her passion".
Really? What do you base that one?

Have you ever heard of my expression that I call Thaters? A Thater is a person who acknowledges "that" something is present, without going further into it, to find out what that is. To mean ..


.. if what you are is that in which is not good for her, then how can she be satisfied in wanting what she has?

Not sure I understand here. But I am fairly confident I am, in fact, good for her.

You don't see that, do you? No !!! You think she should just be thankful and want what she has while only looking at That she has something, without looking at What she has.

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You obviously don't think much of me... so I won't bother to argue this.

Posted by seavixen
She NEEDS to know you care and want to be with her still- IF YOU STILL DO. If you don't, then you don't.

She does know. We both spoke about how much we love each other and how we will always love each other after I was informed of the break up.

Posted by Qbone


There is nothing wrong with neither of you, it is circumstances forcing you two to both THINK and RE-THINK about your future, desire, goals etc. you are too young to draw a conclusion about specific type of human from specific type of star sign because of differences in ideals.

Sigh... this condescension does not bode well for me...

Posted by Sagittarius89
Just leave her alone and grieve in private.

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I am leaving her alone, grieving? Definitely not.

Posted by moon_eyes
O wow thats nuts.! What an odd situation to put yourself into( her breaking up with you and then writing all that)
Cajun sweety just listen to P you have no passion or anything you suck. Yea freakin right!!!!!!

Obviously your ex needs attention and any attention she can get even if she has to fabricate things.
Dont pay attention and heal your heart. If you are constantly surrounded by her action sand make yourself surround yourself you will never get stronger from this.

Thankies... 😄

"Lady hes obviously not bothering her. That ^^ Is a really really cold comment." Shut the fuck up

Stupid cancer

if you aren't willing to "fight for it" the way she wants you to, you shouldn't be willing to waste your time checking her facebook status. don't do that.

Cast!!! Thanks for having half a brain🙂

Posted by normalisboring

Emotional drama is not attractive to anyone with a right mind, not just guys. If she ended things to see what your reaction would be or to see whether you truly care, then she'd do other sh** to get a rise out of you. Eventually, she'd cheat when you don't give her the reaction she needs.

She found chemistry with some other guy, she'd claim and blah blah blah.

Don't make any excuses for emotionally immature people.

Funny thing is, if she did, that would be the second time she cheated on me.

"Sagitarius89 wow youre a grown up woman. *claps hands* No I am not idiot. I'm 19!

No I didn't cause I'm 19

I don't even know lol

Posted by P-Angel
It's obvious, it's normal .. all people know what it is except the Virgo. The Virgo thinks it's a sick game .. to everyone else, it is what is necessary to make the other (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( feel ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) loved.



You've read all these messages in here on the Virgo board, haven't you? Didn't you ever stop to ask yourself what it all means? And why there are so many people saying the same thing?



A person NEEDS ...... N.E.E.D.S ........ to be made to feel special, and this is done by fighting for the one you love, going above and beyond, out of your way, to bend over backwards to PROVE your love for the other ... to walk to the end of the earth, to walk through fire, to jump off the edge of a cliff ..

.. to die for it ...



A Virgo does not understand passion .. I have maintained this for the 4 years I have been a member here. What she wants is for you to show that you are passionate about making sure that she knows that you would endure anything for her to be the love of your life .. because this is what a person needs to feel loved.


Instead .. a Virgo will set them free feeling unloved, unwanted ... congratulations, you're just like the rest ... a robot.

I couldn't agree more.



and cajun.. she wants you to crawl at her feet.
is she THE love of your life? your everything? when she detaches you chase!

I'm not a man to chase. Virgos are naive, if you tell us you want something, we will believe you.

On that note, I just found out, P-Angel was right.

This isn't something you should do with a Virgo man, so be warned.

Posted by P-Angel
It's obvious, it's normal .. all people know what it is except the Virgo. The Virgo thinks it's a sick game .. to everyone else, it is what is necessary to make the other (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( feel ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) loved.



You've read all these messages in here on the Virgo board, haven't you? Didn't you ever stop to ask yourself what it all means? And why there are so many people saying the same thing?



A person NEEDS ...... N.E.E.D.S ........ to be made to feel special, and this is done by fighting for the one you love, going above and beyond, out of your way, to bend over backwards to PROVE your love for the other ... to walk to the end of the earth, to walk through fire, to jump off the edge of a cliff ..

.. to die for it ...



A Virgo does not understand passion .. I have maintained this for the 4 years I have been a member here. What she wants is for you to show that you are passionate about making sure that she knows that you would endure anything for her to be the love of your life .. because this is what a person needs to feel loved.


Instead .. a Virgo will set them free feeling unloved, unwanted ... congratulations, you're just like the rest ... a robot.

Dang, I am a Virgo and this is truth.

"I'm not a man to chase. Virgos are naive, if you tell us you want something, we will believe you.

Yeah we dont read between the lines that well.

Posted by normalisboring
You break up with me then expect me to fight for your love? Because you're worth it? Because there aren't like a million other girls somewhere out there?

WTF? Are some girls really this stupid?

no. the girls who feel special and unique are the ones who don't ever play games. they get bored and walk away and don't miss you. they'll use you and cheat on you and leave you for somebody who gives them more.

the girls who play games are the ones who don't think they're special. they know they're just another girl. but they want to find that one guy out there who thinks they are special, irreplaceable.

one guy made me feel that way, and once he hooked me, i would've done anything for him. anything. but i've said enough already about the fish.

virgos like that kind of girl too. then they bitch and whine when they get cheated on and left. oh well. if you don't want it, stop chasing it.

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Posted by normalisboring

Emotional drama is not attractive to anyone with a right mind, not just guys. If she ended things to see what your reaction would be or to see whether you truly care, then she'd do other sh** to get a rise out of you. Eventually, she'd cheat when you don't give her the reaction she needs.

She found chemistry with some other guy, she'd claim and blah blah blah.

Don't make any excuses for emotionally immature people.

Funny thing is, if she did, that would be the second time she cheated on me.

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So she cheats on you once, breaks up with you before she tells you about how lousy you are...wow what a winner you chose Cajun..If you don't like feeling cuckold and emasculated and sucked of all human life run, I also agree with normalisboring, there a million other girls out there, why want one that is insecure and asking you to make an ass out of yourself.

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Posted by seavixen
She NEEDS to know you care and want to be with her still- IF YOU STILL DO. If you don't, then you don't.

She does know. We both spoke about how much we love each other and how we will always love each other after I was informed of the break up.

Posted by Sagittarius89
Just leave her alone and grieve in private.

I am leaving her alone, grieving? Definitely not.

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Just an observation here, but these two statements made by you seem somewhat contradictory to me. If you spoke of how much you love one another AND you truly DO love her, than how can you NOT grieve for such a loss? Just a question and a matter of individual choice and action, but would love to hear your take on this.

Posted by normalisboring
That doesn't make a lot of sense to me. What i gathered is that the girl's who feel special or unique and have a strong sense of self will get bored and leave?

While the psychos will play games and test childishly till they find someone willing to make them feel special? And then when they feel special, THEY to will get bored and leave?

So really what is there to gain from either type of woman besides sex then, if they predominantly fall into these two types?

Flip the table for a second, would YOU want to be with a guy who fits either kind of description?

Both girl to me seem selfish. The difference is one is insecure, the other has way too much ego.

None of are remotely human.

okay, so you are apparently an aquarian, yes? i've dated more aquas than any other sign. they don't get me. i don't get them. the only aqua i get along with is my aunt, and even we wouldn't get along if we had to be around each other a bunch. totally different motivations.

but basically...i'm pretty fucking human. and i know for a fact that if a guy makes me feel good, he'll have me wrapped around his finger for as long as he wants me there. and i also know for a fact that i wouldn't get bored and leave. i'd spend forever kissing his ass to make sure he didn't leave. duh.

and i'm not a psycho. i don't play games or test guys. if they don't like me, they don't like me. i'll walk away. when i was younger and less experienced, i'd walk away and hope that the guys would "chase" me and "fight" for me, because part of me thought they liked me and part of me thought they didn't, and i really wanted the first part to be right. that didn't make me a psycho. that made me confused. now that i'm older, jerks can't play mindgames with me anymore. well, they probably can, but it's a lot harder and i'm a lot quicker to throw in the towel.

i wouldn't want a guy who fits either of your twisted versions of my descriptions, but if it were my original versions, um yeah i totally would. if i met a guy whose emotional drug of choice was the same one i'm able to provide, i'd be pretty fucking happy. i'd be set for life and constantly worshipped. why wouldn't i want that? (i realize some people don't like that, but i do) the first type, of course, i'd never ever want. i wouldn't want one as a friend either. (most aquas fit that category, though)

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

I am leaving her alone, grieving? Definitely not.

Just an observation here, but these two statements made by you seem somewhat contradictory to me. If you spoke of how much you love one another AND you truly DO love her, than how can you NOT grieve for such a loss? Just a question and a matter of individual choice and action, but would love to hear your take on this.

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I'm a Virgo, head first, heart after.

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

I am leaving her alone, grieving? Definitely not.

Just an observation here, but these two statements made by you seem somewhat contradictory to me. If you spoke of how much you love one another AND you truly DO love her, than how can you NOT grieve for such a loss? Just a question and a matter of individual choice and action, but would love to hear your take on this.

I'm a Virgo, head first, heart after.

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Me too. 😄

Posted by Cajunspirit

I'm a Virgo, head first, heart after.

Thanks for your answer. Possibly another insightful tid-bit of information that may support the incompatibility between the two of you. Especially in regard to your different style s of love. As a fire sign, we tend to lead with our hearts not our heads. Not to say that we do not use our heads in making decisions where matters of the heart are concerned because I definitely think we do, just not as a precursor to all emotion. Honestly, most fire signs I know may react impulsively on our emotions but we always follow up with intellect. However, I do think that sometimes our level of compassion for matters of the heart supersede our thought processes.

I'm sure your Sag girl is reacting from the heart right now because she is hurt (not saying unjustly so)and is hoping to incite a riot of emotion from you. Most likely, she doesn't quite understand how you work either and has difficulty understanding you and your emotional process because it doesn't operate the same way hers does. I was with an earth sign for 16 years and let me tell you, the only time that I truly felt LOVED by him was when things were falling apart. That was when he became emotionally vulnerable and would actually pour things out from inside him that I didn't realize existed. I always kinda felt like I had to "shake things up" in order to feel his level of commitment. Sad, but true.

The chorus from the song "Shake the Sugar Tree" by Pam Tillis says it all:

I've got to raise some commotion
Before you show me
Some real emotion

So, maybe you should try another earth sign—? 🙂

Psh. Love life. Live with passion. Shout at the moon. Laugh at everything.

Shots, anyone? 😛

Posted by MasterYoda
lmao @ Beergo..
that dude cracks me up..

You got a sick mind MasterYoda. 😛

Clean your head, YOU MUST. 😄



nah... I like the way you are. *High Five* *Very Nicee* 🙂

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Thanks for your answer. Possibly another insightful tid-bit of information that may support the incompatibility between the two of you.

I'm not compatible with anyone. After having read and analysed the Marriage rates report based on Horoscope sign in the UK and Wales I realised compatibility is bullcrap.

Scorpios, possibly one of the highest "recommended partnerships" for Virgo men was DEAD LAST.

Especially in regard to your different style s of love. As a fire sign, we tend to lead with our hearts not our heads. Not to say that we do not use our heads in making decisions where matters of the heart are concerned because I definitely think we do, just not as a precursor to all emotion.

We both already acknowledged this, it's not really an issue.

I was with an earth sign for 16 years and let me tell you, the only time that I truly felt LOVED by him was when things were falling apart. That was when he became emotionally vulnerable and would actually pour things out from inside him that I didn't realize existed. I always kinda felt like I had to "shake things up" in order to feel his level of commitment. Sad, but true.

I have learned to articulate my emotions in this relationship very well.
What more do I need?

So, maybe you should try another earth sign—? 🙂

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Not going to be interested in that for a long time.

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Thanks for your answer. Possibly another insightful tid-bit of information that may support the incompatibility between the two of you.

I'm not compatible with anyone. After having read and analysed the Marriage rates report based on Horoscope sign in the UK and Wales I realised compatibility is bullcrap.

Scorpios, possibly one of the highest "recommended partnerships" for Virgo men was DEAD LAST.

Especially in regard to your different style s of love. As a fire sign, we tend to lead with our hearts not our heads. Not to say that we do not use our heads in making decisions where matters of the heart are concerned because I definitely think we do, just not as a precursor to all emotion.

We both already acknowledged this, it's not really an issue.

I was with an earth sign for 16 years and let me tell you, the only time that I truly felt LOVED by him was when things were falling apart. That was when he became emotionally vulnerable and would actually pour things out from inside him that I didn't realize existed. I always kinda felt like I had to "shake things up" in order to feel his level of commitment. Sad, but true.

I have learned to articulate my emotions in this relationship very well.
What more do I need?

So, maybe you should try another earth sign—? 🙂

Not going to be interested in that for a long time.

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man damn homie virgos are dead last in marriage geez well i kinda understand cuz i wont be getting married but virgos dead last is that a sign for virgos hahahahaha lmfao

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

man damn homie virgos are dead last in marriage geez well i kinda understand cuz i wont be getting married but virgos dead last is that a sign for virgos hahahahaha lmfao

Scorpios marry the least of twelve. Sag is 11th.

Virgos are above the middle at 5th.

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Posted by P-Angel

And what is it that she had? You would believe that she should want (((what))) she has, while what she has is a person who doesn't believe in providing his woman with the passion necessary to feel secure in the relationship.

I really don't understand how you can outright state I "can not provide her passion".
Really? What do you base that one?

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I base that on her being turned away rather than fought for, as she would wish.

Don't confuse what I say as my feelings, Cajun, or my opinion ... I'm telling you how I interpret her feelings according to her actions.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((She))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) is upset because you don't FIGHT to keep her, so she is comprehending that you lack the compassion necessary for her.

Unfortunately, this is how most people view Virgo.

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by P-Angel

And what is it that she had? You would believe that she should want (((what))) she has, while what she has is a person who doesn't believe in providing his woman with the passion necessary to feel secure in the relationship.

I really don't understand how you can outright state I "can not provide her passion".
Really? What do you base that one?

Have you ever heard of my expression that I call Thaters? A Thater is a person who acknowledges "that" something is present, without going further into it, to find out what that is. To mean ..


.. if what you are is that in which is not good for her, then how can she be satisfied in wanting what she has?

Not sure I understand here. But I am fairly confident I am, in fact, good for her.

You don't see that, do you? No !!! You think she should just be thankful and want what she has while only looking at That she has something, without looking at What she has.

You obviously don't think much of me... so I won't bother to argue this.

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You obviously didn't understand ... what the fuck does it matter what I think of you? You actually thought this is about how I feel about you? I don't even fucking know you.

Don't be stupid.



"But I am fairly confident I am, in fact, good for her."

That ^^^^^ is the Virgo downfall. One that happens often. What you know is what YOU think is good for her .. however, you aren't her, so you can only guess what is good for her from your own perspective of how you would view her life ........... IF .............. you were her.


Again, don't be stupid ... it's not a suit that is worn well on a Virgo. Or maybe it is and they just wear it anyway because they think its good for them to wear.

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Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by normalisboring

Emotional drama is not attractive to anyone with a right mind, not just guys. If she ended things to see what your reaction would be or to see whether you truly care, then she'd do other sh** to get a rise out of you. Eventually, she'd cheat when you don't give her the reaction she needs.

She found chemistry with some other guy, she'd claim and blah blah blah.

Don't make any excuses for emotionally immature people.

Funny thing is, if she did, that would be the second time she cheated on me.

So she cheats on you once, breaks up with you before she tells you about how lousy you are...wow what a winner you chose Cajun..If you don't like feeling cuckold and emasculated and sucked of all human life run, I also agree with normalisboring, there a million other girls out there, why want one that is insecure and asking you to make an ass out of yourself.

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Cajun, think about this .......


If you want to get defensive over my implication of you not being right for her, then this theory also works in reverse to mean ..... she is good for you, for you to defend her, as it is relative to your own honor in feeling like it insults you for me to say you aren't right for her.


Yet, she clearly is a douchebag who cheats on you.

This reminds of me of all the girls who come in here and cry over their own situation, when their situation goes something like this ...

... he's an asshole, how can I get him to love me?

Posted by DyTryin

P-Angel: You Virgos could always make yourselves some Stepford wives .. they won't care that you don't want to express your love for them.

Keep beating that drum...

The Reality: Almost all the Virgos I know - with the exception of The Player - are happily married, and to women from a wide variety of Signs. I doubt that any of these women are FemBots...

I'm married to a Scorpio woman. Do you really think she would be with me if I couldn't express my love for her? My Virgo Mentor is married to an Aries woman, as is my Virgo neighbor. One of the most picture-perfect married couples I know is a Cancer woman & Virgo man. My VirDad was married to a Leo, and is now married to a Taurus. They act like frickin' teenagers at times.

The Robotic Virgo makes for a neat stereotype - but it's about as REAL as R2D2 or C3P0 from the Star Wars movies...

Of course she would be with you, Scorpio women look for men to whom they can rule.

Now go to your garage.

Posted by P-Angel

"But I am fairly confident I am, in fact, good for her."

That ^^^^^ is the Virgo downfall. One that happens often. What you know is what YOU think is good for her .. however, you aren't her, so you can only guess what is good for her from your own perspective of how you would view her life ........... IF .............. you were her.

I am educated, stable, loving, serious, dedicated to her, going somewhere with my life and I have demonstrated many times how I break my rules for her.

I don't see how I can not be good for her.

Again, don't be stupid ... it's not a suit that is worn well on a Virgo. Or maybe it is and they just wear it anyway because they think its good for them to wear.

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I'm sorry, but it would have been awfully nice and clear of you, if you put some kind of disclaimer to dispel all doubts that it was "her point of view" you were speaking from.

Posted by Sekhmet
Jeebus! And I thought I was a little loopy last night 😛

From th situation Cajun described, it would be silly to fight for her. Why, so she could repeat her bad behaviour? What ((((she)))) feels is obviously not conducive to a good relationship for Cajun, sobetter to take this as a good break-up point. Why fight to get someone back who is only going to jack you again....

Right .. however, you will notice that he is blind to that and still insists that she is right for him IF he is going to defend his honor in being right for her.


😢


A Thater, he is

"I don't see how I can not be good for her."



Of course you don't see it .. you're blind.