one of my bosses is a young virgo man who seems always inspiring to me. When I see him, I was automatically smiling openly although this is not very compatible with my reserved Cappy character. He must have noticed that. It is weird that we never talk with each other but when he answers to my formal/business emails, he keeps the answers very long and talks about other things (holiday, projects, etc) that keep him busy. But when I run into him in the work he completely ignores me. That day I was leaving work a bit earlier, I was walking by myself and wearing a really nice dress (I do not wear it usually). Someone behind me said 'hey'. I did not look back as I thought someone else might have been addressed. Yet, he was insistent. So, I turned back and saw him (Virguy). I smiled and said 'hi, how r u'. He seemed a bit playful but while talking he quickly got into his office. I was no more able to see him but was hearing him saying 'not baaad.' (still in a funny tone). Still without moving (not seeing his face!) I said 'Byee then'. I heard 'bye'. I thus went away. Yet, when I saw him again I completely avoided looking at him. I felt so nervous. After that he saw me ignoring him, he started ignoring me in a very obvious way and did not step back. I felt very bad because ignoring him was a self defense from my part. I and him have both partners and I was shaken even by a small 'hey' of him LOL. Then, I went off. I did not see him for 5 months. On my return I decided to cool things off. So, I tried not to be nervous with him. When passing by his office with a friend, I told him 'hi' and he seemed friendly and was interested in knowing when exactly I had returned from holiday. I said 5 days but I was almost trembling of emotion. He said ok and then, I left. Later on when I saw him in a conference he showed my cup of coffee and asked me in a very formal way where he could get one. I said outside. He went outside. I thought following him would be a good idea to show him I do not ignore him. Without getting too close, I went by his side and told him if he needs anything else. He seemed pleased, said no and told me to go inside (not to miss the conference). After that when I see him I do not feel that he is aggresively ignoring me. Yet we do not talk with each other either. I dunno why his behavior matters to me but I am curious if he likes me or not?...
