I'm going to tell her...

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Cerib on Friday, October 5, 2012 and has 6 replies.

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@Cerib
13 YearsVirgo

If you've been following the earlier topics I posted, I just found out that the girl I am currently crushing on big time is about to move to Ohio.

I've just got finished smoking some ganja, and just drank a beer, so I'm feeling pretty open right about now.
I'm contemplating on telling her EXACTLY how I feel about her.

Should I before it's too late?

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@TaurusBadGirl
14 Years500+ Posts

You wont lose anything by trying..at least u will know that u tried..i dont know ur story but im a firm believer that u should go for what u want in life..things will not just come and drop in ur lap. Go for it babe.

Good luck sweetheart 😉

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@caligula
16 Years1,000+ Posts

idiot.

the only reason he's willing to take a chance is because she's leaving. if she wasn't leaving, he'd continue "crushing" on her from afar. he's a passive aggressive bitch. maybe she's leaving because she's sick of him staring at her.

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@Cerib
13 YearsVirgo

She already knows that she has my interest and that I like her, I was going to tell her exactly how I feel about her. When I said I liked her, that's what I said. "I like you."

But the fact that she's moving, somewhat motivates me to attempt to win her over as one could say.
I just need to find a way to convince her.

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@Cerib
13 YearsVirgo

And I don't obsessively stare at her if that's what you're coming to. I -think- about her. Thus being the Virgo that I am, I have her image burned into my mind. Who said anything about looking through my eyes at her when I've worked with her for over half a year?

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@incandescentcancer
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Cerib
She already knows that she has my interest and that I like her, I was going to tell her exactly how I feel about her. When I said I liked her, that's what I said. "I like you."

But the fact that she's moving, somewhat motivates me to attempt to win her over as one could say.
I just need to find a way to convince her.

Dude just a lesson for the future, never tell a girl "I like you", you are not her brother. Tell her openly you have feelings and you love her. First rule of getting a girl is to make her refuse and persist, ideally a physical move, kiss her! This one seems too late to me.

Caligula is right though, you are only telling her because she is leaving , you have de-risked yourself because if things go bad then you don't have to see her again. You can't get a woman like that, you have to put yourself out there to get rejected.

I told a girl my feelings after smoking ganja once, the words that came out where "I want to fuck you", generally a bad move 😛