Sarah-berry
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In pain Need some virgo input.
Posted by sierra_I was telling him that he has changed not like before, because we both had feelings for each other but he started distancing his self and we both agreed to be friends.
what were you guys doing or talking about right before he blocked you in snapchat?
he doesn't want to hurt me , during our conversation he told me stop acting as if you are my girlfriend, I care about him a lot I was helping him in his reports and a lot more .
but when ever we start to be closer he acts differently, even I knew he was attracted to me physically that's why he stopped seeing me too he is hard on me and on his self , I sent him a birthday gift and he excepted too but no reply no phone call , his actions shows that his in hurt and when I saw his hands I felt like crying but I didn't ask him this time what happened because he ignores my texts , the question is if he doesn't want me why I see him everywhere I go even in the coffee shop I always change the timing too so I don't wanna face him but he is there whenever I'm there.
I didnt get your point.
Posted by DroganI wrote for him get well soon and he replied thanks am confused he replied after for this after ignoring the rest of my earlier massages.
Give him space for a couple months
Posted by VirgosaurusExactly ! he messaged me two days back after ignoring me completely telling me to do his college report and I was like we need to talk about you cutting me off out of blue with no explanations ignoring me for 1 month and now coming back asking me to do your job without an explanation.Posted by Sarah-berryHe sounds like he is crazy. What he is doing is not normal. In fact, he sounds like a sick person if he's cutting himself and driving fast to get your attention. Run and never look back. You don't need any projects to fix. He sounds like a masochist.
Virgo man blocked me from snap chat I kept sending messages asking him in what's app because he didn't block me there and I wonder why?
He is reading my texts but ignoring it and being distant.
He used to always when we have an argument he cuts his hands or drives soo fast just to Let me see in snap and talk to him.
The problem he is working with me so now everytime i see him as if he is following me and he has broke his hands if he didn't want me why does act like this.
Please help me to get back and why he is acting like this?click to expand
He is like I don't want to discuss about it please do my report without saying any word I was like am sorry I can't do it. if you don't respect me enough to discuss the matter then I don't think I need to respect you to do your job.
I don't understand him really.
Posted by nightowlYou are right he want to show me that his hands are injured so I can do his college report I got a message from him out of blue asking me to do his report.
he has problems if he's cutting himself or driving too fast, self-harming to make someone feel guilty is emotional manipulation
And he doesn't want to discuss about the matter.
He is sick yes I think he is he wants to get his own job done and ignore me again.
Posted by Virgosaurus...and that's what's bothering me. Despite the fact that he is physically harming himself, the OP only seems to want him back for romantic interests. Common sense would tell someone that they need to go their separate ways or at least try to get that person help.Posted by Sarah-berryHe sounds like he is crazy. What he is doing is not normal. In fact, he sounds like a sick person if he's cutting himself and driving fast to get your attention. Run and never look back. You don't need any projects to fix. He sounds like a masochist.
Virgo man blocked me from snap chat I kept sending messages asking him in what's app because he didn't block me there and I wonder why?
He is reading my texts but ignoring it and being distant.
He used to always when we have an argument he cuts his hands or drives soo fast just to Let me see in snap and talk to him.
The problem he is working with me so now everytime i see him as if he is following me and he has broke his hands if he didn't want me why does act like this.
Please help me to get back and why he is acting like this?click to expand
Posted by beautifulsoul74I didn't get what you meant explain more.Posted by Virgosaurus...and that's what's bothering me. Despite the fact that he is physically harming himself, the OP only seems to want him back for romantic interests. Common sense would tell someone that they need to go their separate ways or at least try to get that person help.Posted by Sarah-berryHe sounds like he is crazy. What he is doing is not normal. In fact, he sounds like a sick person if he's cutting himself and driving fast to get your attention. Run and never look back. You don't need any projects to fix. He sounds like a masochist.
Virgo man blocked me from snap chat I kept sending messages asking him in what's app because he didn't block me there and I wonder why?
He is reading my texts but ignoring it and being distant.
He used to always when we have an argument he cuts his hands or drives soo fast just to Let me see in snap and talk to him.
The problem he is working with me so now everytime i see him as if he is following me and he has broke his hands if he didn't want me why does act like this.
Please help me to get back and why he is acting like this?
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Posted by Sarah-berryJust give him some time and space to process things, it's a common thing for us Virgos to do is be distant even if we don't mean to be. We do it to clear our headspaces, we usually always come back.
Virgo man blocked me from snap chat I kept sending messages asking him in what's app because he didn't block me there and I wonder why?
He is reading my texts but ignoring it and being distant.
He used to always when we have an argument he cuts his hands or drives soo fast just to Let me see in snap and talk to him.
The problem he is working with me so now everytime i see him as if he is following me and he has broke his hands if he didn't want me why does act like this.
Please help me to get back and why he is acting like this?
Let him be, if he comes back he'll come back. You cannot make someone come back if they don't want to. Only he knows why he's acting the way he is, just don't let get to you.
Posted by mini_asianHe came back and asked me to not to talk about past and do his university report after deleting me from everywhere, I tried to tell him that we need to discuss about it because he is telling me not to call or message him and he is distancing his self completely and I know he has feelings for me I tried confronting him but no he is app stubborn.Posted by Sarah-berryJust give him some time and space to process things, it's a common thing for us Virgos to do is be distant even if we don't mean to be. We do it to clear our headspaces, we usually always come back.
Virgo man blocked me from snap chat I kept sending messages asking him in what's app because he didn't block me there and I wonder why?
He is reading my texts but ignoring it and being distant.
He used to always when we have an argument he cuts his hands or drives soo fast just to Let me see in snap and talk to him.
The problem he is working with me so now everytime i see him as if he is following me and he has broke his hands if he didn't want me why does act like this.
Please help me to get back and why he is acting like this?
Let him be, if he comes back he'll come back. You cannot make someone come back if they don't want to. Only he knows why he's acting the way he is, just don't let get to you.click to expand
I told him man up and try to discuss it as well as respect me the way i respect you and try to discuss the issue without escape.
Posted by luxsoliYes i know he is being hard on his self a lot because he has feelings for me and he is distancing his self because he don't want to get involve with any relationship for some reason he kept our relationship as a friendship but he couldn't everytime we see each other there is some kind of attraction between us he stopped going out with me because he was scared that he will end up having sex with me.
I think this problem may be far bigger than his personality. He may have some personal internalized issues he is struggling with now. Whatever it may be this is not healthy for either of you. He should be given time to work through this on his own. It sounds like he's distancing himself from you because he genuinely feels guilt or at least awareness that he is hurting you. Honestly, if I had been hurting a loved one I would distance myself as well. His mental state isn't for you to fix though, and he is the only person that can work on that.
He came back asking me to help me with his project I told him that him going MIA and coming after month without any explanations after ignoring my texts is not something I will except it.
He said don't talk about the past plz do my report while u r silent I didn't like the way he talked with me I told him he should respect me and discuss the issue.
He ignored my texts again.
I don't know what to do with him
YOU again— Didn't you learn your lesson the first 3-4 times you posted about the same guy the past year?
My god, what does it take to get through your thick skulls around here?
My god, what does it take to get through your thick skulls around here?
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowExcuse me!!!
YOU again— Didn't you learn your lesson the first 3-4 times you posted about the same guy the past year?
My god, what does it take to get through your thick skulls around here?
Am replying to the people who are commenting to my post and updating them about what happen recently u can see I didn't post a new post!
Posted by Sarah-berryStalker!
Virgo man blocked me from snap chat I kept sending messages
I just see that Virgo's like things to be on their terms! I have or am learning that they don't really like a lot of smothering. I suppose they don't like a lot of attention. I work with my Virgo as well. And will one day text me and send me pics then I feel like at work he's scared to talk to me. Like almost avoid me. I will send a naughty text and it's one word responses. I don't get it at all. I don't know about your Virgo cutting himself. That's a bit emo. I've known people who cut them selves and it's a way of having a sence of control over them selves. Much like a person who is bulimic
Posted by Sarah-berryPosted by mini_asianHe came back and asked me to not to talk about past and do his university report after deleting me from everywhere, I tried to tell him that we need to discuss about it because he is telling me not to call or message him and he is distancing his self completely and I know he has feelings for me I tried confronting him but no he is app stubborn.Posted by Sarah-berryJust give him some time and space to process things, it's a common thing for us Virgos to do is be distant even if we don't mean to be. We do it to clear our headspaces, we usually always come back.
Virgo man blocked me from snap chat I kept sending messages asking him in what's app because he didn't block me there and I wonder why?
He is reading my texts but ignoring it and being distant.
He used to always when we have an argument he cuts his hands or drives soo fast just to Let me see in snap and talk to him.
The problem he is working with me so now everytime i see him as if he is following me and he has broke his hands if he didn't want me why does act like this.
Please help me to get back and why he is acting like this?
Let him be, if he comes back he'll come back. You cannot make someone come back if they don't want to. Only he knows why he's acting the way he is, just don't let get to you.
I told him man up and try to discuss it as well as respect me the way i respect you and try to discuss the issue without escape.click to expand
I believes he sees you as being pushy. He doesn't want a relationship. He wants a bed buddy. And he knows if you are already demanding answers that having sex with u would only make things worse. And u two work together which makes it way worse when things so sour. What is your sign?
Posted by Caprilicious_123Leo
I believes he sees you as being pushy. He doesn't want a relationship. He wants a bed buddy. And he knows if you are already demanding answers that having sex with u would only make things worse. And u two work together which makes it way worse when things so sour. What is your sign?
Posted by Sarah-berryWhat's your opinion he texted me asking about my help for his project and told him to think about what he did but he doesn't want he is stubborn, should I help him or What?Posted by Caprilicious_123Leo
I believes he sees you as being pushy. He doesn't want a relationship. He wants a bed buddy. And he knows if you are already demanding answers that having sex with u would only make things worse. And u two work together which makes it way worse when things so sour. What is your sign?click to expand
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He is reading my texts but ignoring it and being distant.
He used to always when we have an argument he cuts his hands or drives soo fast just to Let me see in snap and talk to him.
The problem he is working with me so now everytime i see him as if he is following me and he has broke his hands if he didn't want me why does act like this.
Please help me to get back and why he is acting like this?