What would lead a Virgo man to cheat on his wife...twice?...

My friend is involved with another woman - he's been married for ~20 years!...I asked him if he's unhappy to which he always responds that he's happy!?!? He's always been extremely kind with a heart of gold; is he lying to himself? I'd love some insight
My friend is involved with another woman - he's been married for ~20 years!...I asked him if he's unhappy to which he always responds that he's happy!?!? He's always been extremely kind with a heart of gold; is he lying to himself? I'd love some insight so I can guide him as a friend!
csdude55
42 years old male
Sun, Mercury, and Venus: Virgo -- Moon: Aries
Yeah... he's not happy, but doesn't know how to get out of the 20 year relationship. And he's not 100% sure if being single and alone is better than being in an unhappy relationship.

Soooo been there...
I don't think he is happy. I think he want his wife to be the one who would end the marriage. I don't know, but I have impression that virgos always tend to pull away from making hard decisions when it comes to their relationships. I think he doesn't want to hurt her, but in the same time he knows he doesn't want to be in that marriage anymore.
Agree with the first two. Walking away from a relationship that long is hard. Probably thinking maybe it just a slump. But no once u lose Virgo loyalty it's gone forever ?
Bottabing
Infj - I see you clearly
Virgos cheat in fact stay cheating... My sister ex husband stayed cheating bringing home diseases and was smooth about doing it... His twin sister is the same way... Deep down Virgos need gratification from others ... So cheating is second nature for them... Of course they will say they are faithful ... Yet another lie they tell themselves ... Undercover sluts ... They look clean though... Not faithful at all... I don't know any faithful Virgos in fact know a lot and they are all sluts ... And will try to steal your man... And fail.... In fact one is trying to steal mines... Failing... Hubby has placed a restraining order on that sleez .. To protect our family ... I would leave .. ... If he cheated this is not the first or the last time
CaramelizedCoffee
Structural Racism Perpetuates Colorism.
umm cause he's a virgo, virgos are not innocent, they're a waste of space
Bottabing
Infj - I see you clearly
This guy is straight using you... There is something he is dependent on... You could boost his ego ...something ... All this hogwash about this man not wanting to hurt you.... When clearly sticking his bird in another is a hurt ... And a blow to you... Leave ... You deserve so much better ... And I wouldn't care about the years ... Your body is your temple ... With someone like this he will destroy it starting with manipulation ... As he has done... I can tell... Biggest manipulaters on the planet ... Don't buy it
DarkLyon
female
♌sun ♐moon ♑asc♍merc/venus/mars
He wouldn't be extremely kind and with a heart of gold if he stays cheating on the wife. This is an example of a Virgo with no spine to divorce and find happiness elsewhere... too much like their Pisces counterparts
are you one of the affairs? :p
nikkistar
Aphrodite, the 7 Time DXP award winning, Venusian marker
He probably is thinking he is being nice and helping out by sleeping with the other woman. lol

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Posted by csdude55
Yeah... he's not happy, but doesn't know how to get out of the 20 year relationship. And he's not 100% sure if being single and alone is better than being in an unhappy relationship.

Soooo been there...



How do I help him?
Posted by Toti
I don't think he is happy. I think he want his wife to be the one who would end the marriage. I don't know, but I have impression that virgos always tend to pull away from making hard decisions when it comes to their relationships. I think he doesn't want to hurt her, but in the same time he knows he doesn't want to be in that marriage anymore.


That makes sense. He's my BFF and I would love to see him happy.
Posted by Bottabing
This guy is straight using you... There is something he is dependent on... You could boost his ego ...something ... All this hogwash about this man not wanting to hurt you.... When clearly sticking his bird in another is a hurt ... And a blow to you... Leave ... You deserve so much better ... And I wouldn't care about the years ... Your body is your temple ... With someone like this he will destroy it starting with manipulation ... As he has done... I can tell... Biggest manipulaters on the planet ... Don't buy it


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