What would lead a Virgo man to cheat on his wife...twice?...

My friend is involved with another woman - he's been married for ~20 years!...I asked him if he's unhappy to which he always responds that he's happy!?!? He's always been extremely kind with a heart of gold; is he lying to himself? I'd love some insight
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  • My friend is involved with another woman - he's been married for ~20 years!...I asked him if he's unhappy to which he always responds that he's happy!?!? He's always been extremely kind with a heart of gold; is he lying to himself? I'd love some insight so I can guide him as a friend!
  • csdude55
    Sun, Mercury, and Venus: Virgo -- Moon: Aries
    42 years old male
    Yeah... he's not happy, but doesn't know how to get out of the 20 year relationship. And he's not 100% sure if being single and alone is better than being in an unhappy relationship.

    Soooo been there...
  • I don't think he is happy. I think he want his wife to be the one who would end the marriage. I don't know, but I have impression that virgos always tend to pull away from making hard decisions when it comes to their relationships. I think he doesn't want to hurt her, but in the same time he knows he doesn't want to be in that marriage anymore.
  • Bottabing
    Infj - I see you clearly
    Virgos cheat in fact stay cheating... My sister ex husband stayed cheating bringing home diseases and was smooth about doing it... His twin sister is the same way... Deep down Virgos need gratification from others ... So cheating is second nature for them... Of course they will say they are faithful ... Yet another lie they tell themselves ... Undercover sluts ... They look clean though... Not faithful at all... I don't know any faithful Virgos in fact know a lot and they are all sluts ... And will try to steal your man... And fail.... In fact one is trying to steal mines... Failing... Hubby has placed a restraining order on that sleez .. To protect our family ... I would leave .. ... If he cheated this is not the first or the last time
  • Bottabing
    Infj - I see you clearly
    This guy is straight using you... There is something he is dependent on... You could boost his ego ...something ... All this hogwash about this man not wanting to hurt you.... When clearly sticking his bird in another is a hurt ... And a blow to you... Leave ... You deserve so much better ... And I wouldn't care about the years ... Your body is your temple ... With someone like this he will destroy it starting with manipulation ... As he has done... I can tell... Biggest manipulaters on the planet ... Don't buy it
  • DarkLyon
    ♌sun ♐moon ♑asc♍merc/venus/mars
    female
    He wouldn't be extremely kind and with a heart of gold if he stays cheating on the wife. This is an example of a Virgo with no spine to divorce and find happiness elsewhere... too much like their Pisces counterparts
  • are you one of the affairs? :p
  • nikkistar
    My moral compass acts like its in the Bermuda Triangle
    He probably is thinking he is being nice and helping out by sleeping with the other woman. lol
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  • Posted by csdude55
    Yeah... he's not happy, but doesn't know how to get out of the 20 year relationship. And he's not 100% sure if being single and alone is better than being in an unhappy relationship.

    Soooo been there...



    How do I help him?
  • Posted by Toti
    I don't think he is happy. I think he want his wife to be the one who would end the marriage. I don't know, but I have impression that virgos always tend to pull away from making hard decisions when it comes to their relationships. I think he doesn't want to hurt her, but in the same time he knows he doesn't want to be in that marriage anymore.


    That makes sense. He's my BFF and I would love to see him happy.
  • Posted by Bottabing
    This guy is straight using you... There is something he is dependent on... You could boost his ego ...something ... All this hogwash about this man not wanting to hurt you.... When clearly sticking his bird in another is a hurt ... And a blow to you... Leave ... You deserve so much better ... And I wouldn't care about the years ... Your body is your temple ... With someone like this he will destroy it starting with manipulation ... As he has done... I can tell... Biggest manipulaters on the planet ... Don't buy it


    We are just friends.

  • Posted by DarkLyon
    He wouldn't be extremely kind and with a heart of gold if he stays cheating on the wife. This is an example of a Virgo with no spine to divorce and find happiness elsewhere... too much like their Pisces counterparts


    Agree but when kids are involved things are different. More difficult.
  • Posted by whatisthisallabout
    are you one of the affairs? :p


    10000% not. Happy and married. Would love to see my good friend the same.
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