shaiessence
@shaiessence
19 YearsCancer
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Is this how Virgo men ACT?! I'm totally LOST!!
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continued : was done with him 2 weeks ago for the lack of communication) But I mean, isn't six months a long time to date someone? Idk . . I just feel like he's running game on me and just trying to keep me around or is this how Virgos behave?
SOMEONE PLS HELP A SISTA OUT!!
SOMEONE PLS HELP A SISTA OUT!!
effort forth (after I told him I was done with him 2 weeks ago for the lack of communication) But I mean, isn't six months a long time to date someone? Idk . . I just feel like he's running game on me and just trying to keep me around or is this how Virgos behave?
You sound very needy .....
so, you think you are the rep for all Cancers?
Cocky, aren't you?
so, you think you are the rep for all Cancers?
Cocky, aren't you?
I am far from needy and uh NO i do not REP for all cancers, thank you.
I rep for myself and I AM NOWHERE NEAR COCKY
@harry99 - aw really? so this is just what - leading me on to think he wants more?
Should i really just cut it loose and move on?
I rep for myself and I AM NOWHERE NEAR COCKY
@harry99 - aw really? so this is just what - leading me on to think he wants more?
Should i really just cut it loose and move on?
Posted by shaiessence
I am far from needy and uh NO i do not REP for all cancers, thank you.
Really?
So, you can't see what you've typed in under your avatar?
You are so mindless, or stupid, or whatever the ailment is ... that you have no clue what you typed means?
You typed in, in your profile: 25 years old from Dallas, Texas. REPPIN FOR ALL THE CANCERS!
Seriously ... what an idiot.
Perhaps, this is why he backs away from you ....
He sees you're pretty and likes how you look ... and then you let your mind be known, and he's like: what a dumbfuck
So, now he is trying to determine if he can handle with a stupid woman, so long as she is pretty
He sees you're pretty and likes how you look ... and then you let your mind be known, and he's like: what a dumbfuck
So, now he is trying to determine if he can handle with a stupid woman, so long as she is pretty
😢 That sad to hear.
All this time i felt I wasted trying to figure out what the hell this guy was doing.
Seriously . . . even after i told him i was looking for something serious and wanted more from him and to no avail😢
All this time i felt I wasted trying to figure out what the hell this guy was doing.
Seriously . . . even after i told him i was looking for something serious and wanted more from him and to no avail😢
@ Gemini052388 - yea that is very weird! But you shouldnt have to even get to the point where it becomes comfortable. They really need to try to do more. I also heard Virgos can be vindictive and like to feel they are needed . . . .
So basically . . . this Virgo guy doesn't like me like he said he did and has just been lying and will continue to not answer my texts or calls?
So basically . . . this Virgo guy doesn't like me like he said he did and has just been lying and will continue to not answer my texts or calls?
Posted by shaiessence... says he has to travel a lot for work, telling me the night before that at times it's a 12 hr shift, but it still seemed like it would only be on his time. Especially when I want to see him, it's usually after 10 on a weekday, and it's usually because he's working out, playing a bball game or out watching a game somewhere or something to that effect.
Sounds like he's either married or not making you a priority.
Both are unacceptable.
Dump him hard and fast-- your instinct and sense of self-respect have already instructed you to do so.
It's gonna feel SO GOOD. 😉
Ughhh I wrote a lot and then the quote thing didn't work.....
Yes they do act like that and is pretty normal and you should be proud you dumped him, RUN FAST AND NEVER LOOK BACK. Please save yourself months or even years of overanalizing a guy's behavior, blaming yourself because now he is going cold on you, and trying to figure out a way to make him commit. Beware he will be back, know that his attempts to communicate mean nothing, he is just checking to see if you are still there, that he still has you right there where he wants you, do not allow this, show him you have moved on.
In general, not only with Virgo guys, when you start dating you should adopt the "wait and see" attitude, know that there are many guys out there, know your value and be aware of what he does, not what he says he would like to do, what he DOES is important, if a guy is giving you excuses for not seeing you especially at the very beginning is not a good sign.
He should be investing his time on you, making sure he scores a weekend date with you, making sure he keeps in contact so no other guy can get to you. That's how an interested guy acts at the beginning, they call, they text, they ask you out, everything else is a lot of bullbutter... once you are there then you also invest time in the guy, not before, you don't give your time or body to a guy hoping that would make him stay, it never works.
You are young, beautiful and had the intelligence and strength to end it, move on, learn from the experience and be happy 🙂
Yes they do act like that and is pretty normal and you should be proud you dumped him, RUN FAST AND NEVER LOOK BACK. Please save yourself months or even years of overanalizing a guy's behavior, blaming yourself because now he is going cold on you, and trying to figure out a way to make him commit. Beware he will be back, know that his attempts to communicate mean nothing, he is just checking to see if you are still there, that he still has you right there where he wants you, do not allow this, show him you have moved on.
In general, not only with Virgo guys, when you start dating you should adopt the "wait and see" attitude, know that there are many guys out there, know your value and be aware of what he does, not what he says he would like to do, what he DOES is important, if a guy is giving you excuses for not seeing you especially at the very beginning is not a good sign.
He should be investing his time on you, making sure he scores a weekend date with you, making sure he keeps in contact so no other guy can get to you. That's how an interested guy acts at the beginning, they call, they text, they ask you out, everything else is a lot of bullbutter... once you are there then you also invest time in the guy, not before, you don't give your time or body to a guy hoping that would make him stay, it never works.
You are young, beautiful and had the intelligence and strength to end it, move on, learn from the experience and be happy 🙂
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by shaiessence... says he has to travel a lot for work, telling me the night before that at times it's a 12 hr shift, but it still seemed like it would only be on his time. Especially when I want to see him, it's usually after 10 on a weekday, and it's usually because he's working out, playing a bball game or out watching a game somewhere or something to that effect.
Sounds like he's either married or not making you a priority.
Both are unacceptable.
Dump him hard and fast-- your instinct and sense of self-respect have already instructed you to do so.
It's gonna feel SO GOOD. 😉
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Yep, you're probably right . . . . sucks to not be a priority but im not gonna deal with it another "six" months. too much time wasted already. Guess I'll chuck the peace sign and move on :/
Posted by harry99
Yes move waaaaay on. Or better yet search the web and read all of the forums dedicated to women who've
dated/married Virgos and hear/read the hundreds/thousands of horror stories.
Let me say it again 🙂 they don't call them the Bachelors of The Zodiac for nothing
They have the lowest rate of success for relationships (if they ever get into them)
especially romantic relationships. Do the research. Trust me it's not worth your
mental health or your life or your freedom.
Yes I'm saying that they make it a joke to try to see how quickly they can drive someone
insane, suicidal, homicidal or all of those. No this is not me making stuff up.
Virgos on this site have made post after post about how "fun it is to irritate people"
or "how fun it is to be cold as ice" or "how fun it is to dump people just because"
or "how fun it is to "read people" and use what they've "seen" to "manipulate" them"
Yes manipulate and irritate were the exact words used by many Virgo members on this site in
reference to other people. I've even seen Virgos who couldn't date other Virgos.
Please for the love of your own happiness or God or whatever you believe in just please
trust your instincts and keep on walking.
And chances are that later on he'll come back into your life ....if he does say "no thank you"
and keep on rolling
Thank you for this great advice and insight . . . I think I will never date another Virgo man again . . stick to my water and caps/tauruses
Posted by Dafna79
That's how an interested guy acts at the beginning, they call, they text, they ask you out, everything else is a lot of bullbutter... once you are there then you also invest time in the guy, not before, you don't give your time or body to a guy hoping that would make him stay, it never works.
You are young, beautiful and had the intelligence and strength to end it, move on, learn from the experience and be happy 🙂
You are so very right and that's the truth. I even said that to myself 3 months in like, this guy isn't showing me he cares like I'd like for him to . . . and on top of that, idk if me having a child had alot to do with it.
And sadly, women have done that (I'm guilty) thinking sex will keep him, but sex is everywhere these days. I like to keep myself sacred for someone special, whenever that will be
Thank you very much for that sweetness in your message :-). I'm going to take that approach from now on and just " wait and see " . . .
Posted by shaiessencePosted by Dafna79
That's how an interested guy acts at the beginning, they call, they text, they ask you out, everything else is a lot of bullbutter... once you are there then you also invest time in the guy, not before, you don't give your time or body to a guy hoping that would make him stay, it never works.
You are young, beautiful and had the intelligence and strength to end it, move on, learn from the experience and be happy 🙂
You are so very right and that's the truth. I even said that to myself 3 months in like, this guy isn't showing me he cares like I'd like for him to . . . and on top of that, idk if me having a child had alot to do with it.
And sadly, women have done that (I'm guilty) thinking sex will keep him, but sex is everywhere these days. I like to keep myself sacred for someone special, whenever that will be
Thank you very much for that sweetness in your message :-). I'm going to take that approach from now on and just " wait and see " . . .click to expand
You are very welcome love, that is the only advice I can give, we cannot change people we can only control how we act and how we react to what other people do.
On you having a child, I admire single mothers, my sister is a single mom and my niece is the light of our lives, we love that child to death she completely changed our lives... single mothers are admirable and you should be proud of yourself every single day of your life, and any guy coming into your life should admire your strenght be proud of that too.
Best of luck 🙂
Posted by Gemini052388Posted by shaiessence
@ Gemini052388 - yea that is very weird! But you shouldnt have to even get to the point where it becomes comfortable. They really need to try to do more. I also heard Virgos can be vindictive and like to feel they are needed . . . .
So basically . . . this Virgo guy doesn't like me like he said he did and has just been lying and will continue to not answer my texts or calls?
I should have known that. In fact, I regret having him know most sstuff about me. Like telling him I lost my virginity over a guy I thought I would marry! I thought it was ok to be my true self. Turns out, I was wrong. They should do more. I mean, c'mon. Talk. Communicate. Make me feel special! It's not too much to ask. He likes to feel needed only if he sees someone else is fulfilling my needs.
I would really tell you this, if he is into you, he will find a way to be with you and not keep you hanging. That's not for virgo guys only but also for any guy. If he's into you, even if you disappear or reject him, he will be around. If he's not, he's not that into you. Let him be. Find a better guy. After all, I'm sure, there is one out there just for you! 🙂click to expand
That is exactly what im saying! Make us feel special, show us you care, i mean it's not rocket science here whatsoever!
AND that is how mine was! ONLY WHEN HE FELT NEEDED or only when he wanted to feel needed.
Amen to that. I agree, a man will tries his hardest to truly spend time with u if he really liked/likes you, then he will TRULY TRY. And you're right! I am going to let him go and let him be and move on with my life, and hopefully find a more suitable guy. All this dating pisses me off. Thanks Gemini !!!
Posted by Dafna79Posted by shaiessencePosted by Dafna79
That's how an interested guy acts at the beginning, they call, they text, they ask you out, everything else is a lot of bullbutter... once you are there then you also invest time in the guy, not before, you don't give your time or body to a guy hoping that would make him stay, it never works.
You are young, beautiful and had the intelligence and strength to end it, move on, learn from the experience and be happy 🙂
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You are very welcome love, that is the only advice I can give, we cannot change people we can only control how we act and how we react to what other people do.
On you having a child, I admire single mothers, my sister is a single mom and my niece is the light of our lives, we love that child to death she completely changed our lives... single mothers are admirable and you should be proud of yourself every single day of your life, and any guy coming into your life should admire your strenght be proud of that too.
Best of luck 🙂click to expand
You're absolutely right. Such a true statement. The only person im able to change is myself. :-)Thanks alot. Yea, my lil munchkin is my star, moon and sky. She makes my life better and easier to deal with, and she my best friend :-) She'll be turning 8 this year and im so exicted for her!. It took me a while to feel proud, but now I am because I raised such a great child and i am proud of myself for having the strength. Thank you Dafna :-)
Posted by CluelessCancer
Cancer Run. Autobots out. Megatron and his evil Virgo forces are on the loose.
oh im running FAR AWAY FROM THESE VIRGO PEOPLE! AND I SHOULD HAVE KNOWN
I have a younger sister who is a virgo and MAN do we butt heads!
Posted by harry99
Yes I'm saying that they make it a joke to try to see how quickly they can drive someone
insane, suicidal, homicidal or all of those. No this is not me making stuff up.
Actually, you are making that stuff up ... the Virgo is actually the opposite of those traits once in a loving relationship. In fact, they will forgo their own needs to provide comfort to their partner.
You're projecting. Because YOU didn't manage to have a successful relationship, you are telling this girl falsehoods.
That's pretty fucked up of you to do.
Posted by harry99
Virgos on this site have made post after post about how "fun it is to irritate people"
or "how fun it is to be cold as ice" or "how fun it is to dump people just because"
or "how fun it is to "read people" and use what they've "seen" to "manipulate" them"
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Prove it .... I've never read a Virgo say those things in dxp.
Posted by Gemini052388
When the virgo guy and I started, he was so nice, so caring. As time passed by, he changed. He was "ignoring" me, he was moody, he was just different.
How is that relevant?
Do you even realize that this topic isn't about the person you were with?
Posted by Gemini052388
I did break him quite bad I suppose.
Last lines I gave him were: I won't be at the beach in my 5 days leave. I will be at home because I have a date with the aqua guy.
wow, you dare say shit about Virgos?
... because you're an asshole, obviously. because you're pissed off, you think it's ok fuck with his feelings, by using another man .. not to mention using the Aqua guy feelings as well?
What a cunt
Posted by shaiessence
He told me the reason why he was acting that why was because he was deciding, trying to see if I'm the person he wanted to be with long term, and he isn't good telling his feelings and runs away from them, etc. and said I am doing better, I am calling you more and texting you more and I said yea, but I told you 2 months into us dating that I wanted u to call and text more, and now u start to put ef
It sounds like he's being honest.
He told you the truth.
...And somehow you psycho-analyzed his response instead.
No pun intended.
But I don't see a real dilemma here.
Of course, there's no dilemma here .. it's just another attention whore female with Princess entitlment issues .....
.... no matter who good or much a guy is, it will never be enough to female who has no values.
And yo, Cancers ... this is your representative ... don't you feel special?
.... no matter who good or much a guy is, it will never be enough to female who has no values.
And yo, Cancers ... this is your representative ... don't you feel special?
@Shaiessence....
If you continue to judge men by the overwhelming amount of attention they show you, you will miss out on a lot of great opportunities. This man seems honest, sincere, and candid. He's aware of his flaws, emotions, and behavior towards you. He acknowledges this. He isn't perfect. Just a work in progress.
If you're measuring the interest a man has for you...
By the overwhelming amount of attention he shows you...
You will get duped every time.
It's GAME.
Reel them in...
Get them hooked.
Then spit them back out!
Constant attention means nothing.
It's a phase.
This will pass.
From my experience with Virgos, I will have to admit, their poker faces/changeable personalities can be quite annoying...
But I strongly believe Virgos have a more realistic concept of love.
Minus the poetry, love notes, and outlandish declarations of love.
Their love more concrete, raw, real and eternal.
When they're certain you're the ONE...
This phase never passes!
If you continue to judge men by the overwhelming amount of attention they show you, you will miss out on a lot of great opportunities. This man seems honest, sincere, and candid. He's aware of his flaws, emotions, and behavior towards you. He acknowledges this. He isn't perfect. Just a work in progress.
If you're measuring the interest a man has for you...
By the overwhelming amount of attention he shows you...
You will get duped every time.
It's GAME.
Reel them in...
Get them hooked.
Then spit them back out!
Constant attention means nothing.
It's a phase.
This will pass.
From my experience with Virgos, I will have to admit, their poker faces/changeable personalities can be quite annoying...
But I strongly believe Virgos have a more realistic concept of love.
Minus the poetry, love notes, and outlandish declarations of love.
Their love more concrete, raw, real and eternal.
When they're certain you're the ONE...
This phase never passes!
I didnt read the whole thread (maybe later) but I would not take advice from the bitter chicks that virguys got rid of or on the verge of getting rid of!
CC-she still in a relationship with a virgo, but pretends like they arent to get sympathy
Gemini052388-were you even in a relationship with the virgo?
harry-apparently she thinks that all virgos are the same as the one/s that dumped her
CC-she still in a relationship with a virgo, but pretends like they arent to get sympathy
Gemini052388-were you even in a relationship with the virgo?
harry-apparently she thinks that all virgos are the same as the one/s that dumped her
Posted by shaiessence
I am far from needy and uh NO i do not REP for all cancers, thank you.
I rep for myself and I AM NOWHERE NEAR COCKY
@harry99 - aw really? so this is just what - leading me on to think he wants more?
Should i really just cut it loose and move on?
FWIW: Ignore the yahoos who are not Virgos. The happiest couples I know in RL are Cancer Woman + Virgo Man, including my sister-in-law, who will marry her Virgo dude in August after 6 YEARS of courtship (yeah, they're both equally cautious!). One of my subordinates is a Virgo Man, and he's been married to his Cancer Wife for going on 25 years.
IT WORKS.
Posted by harry99
Virgos don't "believe" in emotions they think they're icky and evil.
They mentally process their emotions first, and then "feel" later. There is a difference. I will admit, they will give themselves a headache doing this. 🙂...But cold...No....annoying at times with their poker faces and changeable personalities? Yes.
Harry-
The OP asked for honesty and communication.
The Virgo gave it to her.
To be honest really, I felt that she over-analyzed a rather genuine, candid, and simplistic answer.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
Harry-
The OP asked for honesty and communication.
The Virgo gave it to her.
To be honest really, I felt that she over-analyzed a rather genuine, candid, and simplistic answer.
Posted by shaiessence
He told me the reason why he was acting that why was because he was deciding, trying to see if I'm the person he wanted to be with long term, and he isn't good telling his feelings and runs away from them, etc. and said I am doing better, I am calling you more and texting you more...click to expand
The OP is creating a dilemma when there is none, really.
I didn't understand where she was going with this thread.
She wanted answers...
Was already given an answer by a Virgo.
Chose to over-analyze the response.
And now she's simply moving on assumption...and taking advice based on 'assumption.'
Just my .02
Posted by harry99Posted by LostinmyMind11
I didnt read the whole thread (maybe later) but I would not take advice from the bitter chicks that virguys got rid of or on the verge of getting rid of!
CC-she still in a relationship with a virgo, but pretends like they arent to get sympathy
Gemini052388-were you even in a relationship with the virgo?
harry-apparently she thinks that all virgos are the same as the one/s that dumped her
Yeah and all of these women are ALSO craaaaazy
http://www.compatible-astrology.com/horrible-experience-with-virgo-man.html<BR> http://beyondjane.com/relationships/dating/dating-and-virgo-men/<BR> http://rainbow777.hubpages.com/hub/Dating-Virgo-Men<BR> http://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogPosts/MsLisaM/Virgo-Men/624707.aspx<BR>
Now if you think all these descriptions etc..are just *figments of others' imaginations* then greeeeat
I guess you've been caught in the web of ...........awesome virginity *notice the sarcasm* if not then
*hats off to your good sense*click to expand
Really that's your argument? We can go all around the net and find that about every sign ..male and female!
Smh
Posted by harry99Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Harry99
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by shaiessence
Just my .02
She should've avoided him to begin with as soon as she found out his birthday
Poor Marilyn and all the other women that have been driven insane by ........them lol.
PHV is just an immature, high, lonely, Virgo, dirt bag, who only knows how to have
childish "FWB" relationships. Seriously marry some weed or maybe a dog.
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You butt hurt cause what he said is true?!
No wonder virguys act the way they do...they have to deal with bat shit Cray Cray chicks
Ohhhh good one...totally got me. Smh ...winners real winners!
Posted by harry99Posted by LostinmyMind11
No wonder virguys act the way they do...they have to deal with bat shit Cray Cray chicks
Maybe you should take a look at yourself and see what it is inside of you
that is crazy. I think you're projecting onto me. I just don't see what you mean
just saying, I think it's you. 😉click to expand
Awww isn't that cute...you like to copy other people! No originality...
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by harry99Posted by TaurusBull1977
Their love more concrete, raw, real and eternal.
When they're certain you're the ONE...
This phase never passes!
Sorry to say that this is utter bullsh!t they don't even know what love is so how oh how
could it be eternal?
If you're with a Virgo then I wish you the best of luck but let's be clear love is an
emotion and Virgos don't "believe" in emotions they think they're icky and evil.
If it takes going through 30,000 different levels of hell to get a Virgo to "love" you......
then what is the point
Plus if it means turning into P Angel then I'm good on that one. I'll just as soon Just Say No
lol hahaha
Cosign this shit, harryb proud of you backing your statement upclick to expand
They didn't love you...plain and simple
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by harry99
lol CC and LIMM I learned from the best. Originality is for losers 😄
WoW. Smhclick to expand
+1 on the wow
CluelssCancer: Wow so can you ask the cancer females what be they went through to get that ring?
Honesty. Integrity. No Drama.
Frankly, I couldn't get involved with any of the Cancer Women I've known - way too weepy, and unpredictable. But other Virgo Men aren't as bothered by that as I am - apparently.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by CluelessCancer
Pothead what's your beef with harry? Bury it.
Naww. She like to throw shots at me, so I'm throwing them back. He needs to go back to the zoo so they can retrain him.click to expand
Hahahaha
Playing hard to get with a Virgo man is a sure-fire way to not get him. In fact, we hate games more than we hate sock drawers full of unsorted shit.
IF you started out all hot & heavy for him, AND that's how you Genuinely feel about him, pulling back afterwards is going to confuse and/or irritate the piss out of him.
Be yourself. If he's interested, he will show it, though he may not be ass-grab obvious about it.
Again: I know several Virgo men who absolutely love that mushy-on-the-inside Cancer woman shit. Not me. But they and their wives seem very happy.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by harry99
Yes I'm saying that they make it a joke to try to see how quickly they can drive someone
insane, suicidal, homicidal or all of those. No this is not me making stuff up.
Actually, you are making that stuff up ... the Virgo is actually the opposite of those traits once in a loving relationship. In fact, they will forgo their own needs to provide comfort to their partner.
You're projecting. Because YOU didn't manage to have a successful relationship, you are telling this girl falsehoods.
That's pretty fucked up of you to do.
Posted by harry99
Virgos on this site have made post after post about how "fun it is to irritate people"
or "how fun it is to be cold as ice" or "how fun it is to dump people just because"
or "how fun it is to "read people" and use what they've "seen" to "manipulate" them"
Prove it .... I've never read a Virgo say those things in dxp.click to expand
Wowzas...something positive about a Virgo from you? I'd have to agree with this one. Usually people's relationship advice are mostly projections. THEIR personal experiences, so everyone MUST be going through the same thing.
Virgo bashers...question. Ya ever think that there is something wrong with your ass? Everyone loves to point fingers & say Virgo this, virgo that...maybe you weren't worth the dirt they walked on which is why you were treated so poorly. How about taking a long good look within yourself & stop placing blame, Virgo or not.
Posted by moongirljj
I keep hearing people say that Virgo men are soo slow to get started in a relationship and it surprises me because my boyfriend chased me hard for months, like literally texting every hour always asking me out, he's never ignored me, not even during an argument.
So my theory is they must act that way when they are not sure they want a relationship. You really can't make a Virgo do anything they don't want to do. I also know if I had told him early on that I had a date with another guy that would have been it, game over. They are very masculine types, they don't compete with other men.
I think if he's being this wishy washy so early then you have no choice but to write it off as a bad job, men tend to fear committing, until they find something more interesting than their freedom, sounds like he doesn't know what he wants.
This.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
I didnt read the whole thread (maybe later) but I would not take advice from the bitter chicks that virguys got rid of or on the verge of getting rid of!
CC-she still in a relationship with a virgo, but pretends like they arent to get sympathy
Gemini052388-were you even in a relationship with the virgo?
harry-apparently she thinks that all virgos are the same as the one/s that dumped her
Seriously...
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by harry99Posted by TaurusBull1977
Their love more concrete, raw, real and eternal.
When they're certain you're the ONE...
This phase never passes!
Sorry to say that this is utter bullsh!t they don't even know what love is so how oh how
could it be eternal?
If you're with a Virgo then I wish you the best of luck but let's be clear love is an
emotion and Virgos don't "believe" in emotions they think they're icky and evil.
If it takes going through 30,000 different levels of hell to get a Virgo to "love" you......
then what is the point
Plus if it means turning into P Angel then I'm good on that one. I'll just as soon Just Say No
lol hahaha
Cosign this shit, harryb proud of you backing your statement up
They didn't love you...plain and simpleclick to expand
Hahahaha...EXFUCKINGACTLY!!!!!! BINGO!
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by RealTalkPosted by P-AngelPosted by harry99
Yes I'm saying that they make it a joke to try to see how quickly they can drive someone
insane, suicidal, homicidal or all of those. No this is not me making stuff up.
Actually, you are making that stuff up ... the Virgo is actually the opposite of those traits once in a loving relationship. In fact, they will forgo their own needs to provide comfort to their partner.
You're projecting. Because YOU didn't manage to have a successful relationship, you are telling this girl falsehoods.
That's pretty fucked up of you to do.
Posted by harry99
Virgos on this site have made post after post about how "fun it is to irritate people"
or "how fun it is to be cold as ice" or "how fun it is to dump people just because"
or "how fun it is to "read people" and use what they've "seen" to "manipulate" them"
Prove it .... I've never read a Virgo say those things in dxp.
Wowzas...something positive about a Virgo from you? I'd have to agree with this one. Usually people's relationship advice are mostly projections. THEIR personal experiences, so everyone MUST be going through the same thing.
Virgo bashers...question. Ya ever think that there is something wrong with your ass? Everyone loves to point fingers & say Virgo this, virgo that...maybe you weren't worth the dirt they walked on which is why you were treated so poorly. How about taking a long good look within yourself & stop placing blame, Virgo or not.
Hell no. I'm perfect. Seriously. He just called me, I said hello, he hangs up. Crazy.click to expand
You're perfect? If you're soooooo perfect riddle me this. Why do you ask ALL of these questions about this Virgo then? Why do you lose sleep, skip meals, & stress out so much OVER this Virgo, if you're perfect? *confused*
Posted by CluelessCancer
Who does that type of shit? Maybe the chick he's seeing, checking on who he's been calling, who knows. Sigh emotionally exhausting
MEN do it. MEN. Regardless of sign. I've had a few guys calling me hanging up & they were NOT Virgos boo.
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Posted by harry99
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Virgo bashers...question. Ya ever think that there is something wrong with your ass? Everyone loves to point fingers & say Virgo this, virgo that...maybe you weren't worth the dirt they walked on which is why you were treated so poorly. How about taking a long good look within yourself & stop placing blame, Virgo or not.
How bout they eat shit and die with that sorry ass broken record routine.
Write a book called "how to look into yourself and not notice OUR shitty personalities: remember
it's all you"
I'd read it but sadly I've heard it all before.
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Routine? What routine?
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by RealTalkPosted by CluelessCancer
Who does that type of shit? Maybe the chick he's seeing, checking on who he's been calling, who knows. Sigh emotionally exhausting
MEN do it. MEN. Regardless of sign. I've had a few guys calling me hanging up & they were NOT Virgos boo.
But why?click to expand
Because men are fucktards when it comes down to things. Sometimes they'll do it just to know you haven't changed your #, or they want to hear your voice, they wanted to see if you'd answer, or they were going to say something but just punked out. Men are weird, but simple.
Posted by harry99Posted by RealTalkPosted by CluelessCancer
BTW maybe they aren't the shit out my ass ever thought about that RT oh of course not
duh you homies don't roll that way right.click to expand
What the fuck are you talking about? I don't know nor do I give a shit about if the men YOU date aren't the shit out of your ass. Only you know that, you're the one talking SHIT about them you tell me, haha.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by RealTalkPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by RealTalkPosted by P-AngelPosted by harry99
Yes I'm saying that they make it a joke to try to see how quickly they can drive someone
insane, suicidal, homicidal or all of those. No this is not me making stuff up.
Actually, you are making that stuff up ... the Virgo is actually the opposite of those traits once in a loving relationship. In fact, they will forgo their own needs to provide comfort to their partner.
You're projecting. Because YOU didn't manage to have a successful relationship, you are telling this girl falsehoods.
That's pretty fucked up of you to do.
Posted by harry99
Virgos on this site have made post after post about how "fun it is to irritate people"
or "how fun it is to be cold as ice" or "how fun it is to dump people just because"
or "how fun it is to "read people" and use what they've "seen" to "manipulate" them"
Prove it .... I've never read a Virgo say those things in dxp.
Wowzas...something positive about a Virgo from you? I'd have to agree with this one. Usually people's relationship advice are mostly projections. THEIR personal experiences, so everyone MUST be going through the same thing.
Virgo bashers...question. Ya ever think that there is something wrong with your ass? Everyone loves to point fingers & say Virgo this, virgo that...maybe you weren't worth the dirt they walked on which is why you were treated so poorly. How about taking a long good look within yourself & stop placing blame, Virgo or not.
Hell no. I'm perfect. Seriously. He just called me, I said hello, he hangs up. Crazy.
You're perfect? If you're soooooo perfect riddle me this. Why do you ask ALL of these questions about this Virgo then? Why do you lose sleep, skip meals, & stress out so much OVER this Virgo, if you're perfect? *confused*click to expand
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