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Posted by harry99Posted by RealTalkPosted by harry99Posted by RealTalkPosted by CluelessCancer
BTW maybe they aren't the shit out my ass ever thought about that RT oh of course not
duh you homies don't roll that way right.
What the fuck are you talking about? I don't know nor do I give a shit about if the men YOU date aren't the shit out of your ass. Only you know that, you're the one talking SHIT about them you tell me, haha.
correction they aren't WORTH the shit out of my ass.
Clear enough now?click to expand
NOPE. If they weren't you wouldn't be bitching about them now would you? What do you do when you shit? Ya shit, wipe ya ass, & flush the fucking toilet. IT'S DONE.
You're STILL clearly hurt over what your ex Virgo did, so he's WORTH alot to you. But on the other hand, I bet he's not stressing about you 1 bit. Not 1. He's flushed that shit a long time ago boo. LET IT GO.
Posted by harry99
Well that's awesome RT it is........I'm going to have to work on that I looked up
my secret language of birthdays thingie and it said that I react to intensely to
my environment 😢
Yes I'm in a reallly bitchy mood today.
I'm hoping I'll be in a better mood tomorrow.
Better yet I'm going to go running tomorrow even though I don't run I'm so on edge
I'm just losing it. Hopefully I'll get tired and get rid of some of this energy
and intense "feelings" I'm having.
Yup that's a confession. Don't judge me
Now back to The Walking Dead. Rick's about to do something bad to Shane
It's all good. I don't judge anyone. I never had any beef with you harry, but sheeesh...you do alot of Virgo bashing. I never knew you felt that way about us, jeez....let go of your anger with that Virgo guy, shit. The more you vent about him, the more you give power to the situation at hand, or lack there of. When you let things go, they have NO power over you at all. Another thing I am working on...
Again it all goes back to self realization harry. Whenever you break up with someone, you need to study yourself to see what you've done to contribute to the demise of the relationship. I had to do this each time & didn't get it right after the 1st hurt, so it repeated itself until I finally got it. There are 2 people in a relationship, nothing is ever all the other persons fault, ever.
It all comes back to self love. When you love yourself more than any man, you can never be hurt by them, because the stunts & he bullshit they pull won't phase you because you'll know how to deal with them. In a relationship there has to be balance & if you feel as if you're giving more than you're getting, it's time to step away. You have to look at men as a whole, not just narrowing it down to a sign. MEN in general exhibit alot of the same traits as other men, regardless of sign. Just know this, when a male is in the womb, he is a MALE first before he is a Virgo, Leo, Gemini, whatever. Men have a whole other way of thinking & I think sometimes women forget that.
It all comes back to self love. When you love yourself more than any man, you can never be hurt by them, because the stunts & he bullshit they pull won't phase you because you'll know how to deal with them. In a relationship there has to be balance & if you feel as if you're giving more than you're getting, it's time to step away. You have to look at men as a whole, not just narrowing it down to a sign. MEN in general exhibit alot of the same traits as other men, regardless of sign. Just know this, when a male is in the womb, he is a MALE first before he is a Virgo, Leo, Gemini, whatever. Men have a whole other way of thinking & I think sometimes women forget that.
Posted by harry99Posted by RealTalkPosted by harry99
It's all good. I don't judge anyone. I never had any beef with you harry, but sheeesh...you do alot of Virgo bashing. I never knew you felt that way about us, jeez....let go of your anger with that Virgo guy, shit. The more you vent about him, the more you give power to the situation at hand, or lack there of. When you let things go, they have NO power over you at all. Another thing I am working on...
I just need to get laid is all lol hahahaha
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You & me both dammit! I need to get laid like a fucking wood floor...😛
Posted by RealTalk
Dxp is fucking up...
I was say to CC that we all have issues. There is no such thing as perfect & sometimes I don't even know why the word exists. I still have issues like a mofo, but I'm working on them. I'm still very much in love with my Gemini ex, but I have to ignore him. He's contacting me, but I have been ignoring him. I have no time for his fuckery...he has to prove himself to me if he EVER wants to be with me again.
I use logic over emotion. Doesn't mean I don't have EMOTIONS HARRY99, it means I have a grip on them. My emotions run deep, very deep. Here I am almost a year later of being broken up with my ex, I STILL LOVE HIM. But I cannot be bothered. I know how to love myself more.
^^THIS^^
Is all about how you react and how you deal with what a guy's behavior regardless of their sign.
You love him but if he doesn't make you happy or his behavior is not what you want you walk away and find someone that truly makes you happy. If you choose to stay or be hurt by what he does then is YOUR FAULT, you are the one that is wrong not him...
He can be completeley messed up in the head/cruel/cold/aloof to one girl and then he meets someone else and he becomes the perfect guy to her, I have seen it happen, is it your fault—? Nope it jus didn't work out...
The problem is not the guy wether he is a Virgo, Gemini, Cancer or whatever sign he is the problem is when women choose to stay and suffer and blame his behavior for their unhappiness. The only thing we can change is OURSELVES nobody else...
It was pretty much an open-shut thread.
Woman likes Guy.
Guy (obviously) likes Woman.
Woman requires lots of attention.
Guy has been distant due to uncertainty.
Guy confirms he wants to be with Woman.
Apologizes and explains his reasons for pulling a disappearing act.
Guy states that he is willing to work on it.
Woman still opts to create a thread based on assumptions.
Woman opts to seek advice based on assumptions.
Woman decided not to pursue anything romantically with Virgo guy based on assumptions.
Personally, I believe the OP is a little too self-absorbed, is making a HUGE mistake....
And will regret this decision later on....
From my experience with Virgo men, they're not into game playing...and will quickly emotionally detach themselves from you.
This ^^^^^^^^^^^
Woman likes Guy.
Guy (obviously) likes Woman.
Woman requires lots of attention.
Guy has been distant due to uncertainty.
Guy confirms he wants to be with Woman.
Apologizes and explains his reasons for pulling a disappearing act.
Guy states that he is willing to work on it.
Woman still opts to create a thread based on assumptions.
Woman opts to seek advice based on assumptions.
Woman decided not to pursue anything romantically with Virgo guy based on assumptions.
Personally, I believe the OP is a little too self-absorbed, is making a HUGE mistake....
And will regret this decision later on....
From my experience with Virgo men, they're not into game playing...and will quickly emotionally detach themselves from you.
Posted by ShakenNotStirred
Playing hard to get with a Virgo man is a sure-fire way to not get him. In fact, we hate games more than we hate sock drawers full of unsorted shit.
IF you started out all hot & heavy for him, AND that's how you Genuinely feel about him, pulling back afterwards is going to confuse and/or irritate the piss out of him.
This ^^^^^^^^^^^
Posted by RealTalkPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by harry99Posted by TaurusBull1977
Their love more concrete, raw, real and eternal.
When they're certain you're the ONE...
This phase never passes!
Sorry to say that this is utter bullsh!t they don't even know what love is so how oh how
could it be eternal?
If you're with a Virgo then I wish you the best of luck but let's be clear love is an
emotion and Virgos don't "believe" in emotions they think they're icky and evil.
If it takes going through 30,000 different levels of hell to get a Virgo to "love" you......
then what is the point
Plus if it means turning into P Angel then I'm good on that one. I'll just as soon Just Say No
lol hahaha
Cosign this shit, harryb proud of you backing your statement up
They didn't love you...plain and simple
Hahahaha...EXFUCKINGACTLY!!!!!! BINGO!click to expand
hahahaha 😉
Posted by RealTalkPosted by harry99Posted by RealTalkPosted by harry99Posted by RealTalkPosted by CluelessCancer
BTW maybe they aren't the shit out my ass ever thought about that RT oh of course not
duh you homies don't roll that way right.
What the fuck are you talking about? I don't know nor do I give a shit about if the men YOU date aren't the shit out of your ass. Only you know that, you're the one talking SHIT about them you tell me, haha.
correction they aren't WORTH the shit out of my ass.
Clear enough now?
NOPE. If they weren't you wouldn't be bitching about them now would you? What do you do when you shit? Ya shit, wipe ya ass, & flush the fucking toilet. IT'S DONE.
You're STILL clearly hurt over what your ex Virgo did, so he's WORTH alot to you. But on the other hand, I bet he's not stressing about you 1 bit. Not 1. He's flushed that shit a long time ago boo. LET IT GO.click to expand
+1000000000000000
@Harry99 I REALLY need for you to create a post detailing what you're Virgo did to you! I have never seen someone so angry and with so much hate; I NEED to hear the story behind all that anger post haste!
I keep hearing you daters of Virgos complain about disappearing acts, coldness, moving slow, distance ect. and you keep commenting on how you're trying to withhold your emotions (essentially be your definition of perfect for the Virgo). WHY are you doing this? If you require someone who will spend every moment with you, call you every hour of the day and make grand gestures and professions of love; why don't you just accept that a Virgo is not the person for you and find someone with the personality traits you need to be happy. You guys are wasting months and years of your lives trying to "will" us to be what YOU want us to be and behave the way YOU want us to behave instead of just accepting and appreciating us for the way we are. NewsFlash: We're slow, analytical, distant, moody and a host of other traits; THIS WILL NOT CHANGE! This is how we process things! This is how we make decisions in matters of the heart! The relationships that work with Virgos are relationships where the other person NATURALLY gets this and does not try to push/pressure us to be something we're not. It seems all the complaints come from people who require a lot of emotional displays and attention; clearly a Virgo is not the sign for you and that's ok. That does NOT make us azzholes just because we're not right for you... #endsrant!
To the OP; 1st see above and decide if dating a Virgo is the best choice for you. 2nd; your virguy's admission of his feelings really should have been enough at least for now. 6 months is nothing to a Virgo in dating/getting to know you time. We don't admit to feelings for someone that we don't actually like as we don't want the hassle of your emotions if we really don't like you. We rarely admit our emotions preferring to let our actions do the talking. So if he admitted it not only did he mean it but he also recognized that he's not performing as well as he could with you and needed to address is so as not to lose you. IMO of course. Also for me (and lots of other people) distance; the ability to be away from you and miss you is actually what causes my love for you to grow. Good luck!
I keep hearing you daters of Virgos complain about disappearing acts, coldness, moving slow, distance ect. and you keep commenting on how you're trying to withhold your emotions (essentially be your definition of perfect for the Virgo). WHY are you doing this? If you require someone who will spend every moment with you, call you every hour of the day and make grand gestures and professions of love; why don't you just accept that a Virgo is not the person for you and find someone with the personality traits you need to be happy. You guys are wasting months and years of your lives trying to "will" us to be what YOU want us to be and behave the way YOU want us to behave instead of just accepting and appreciating us for the way we are. NewsFlash: We're slow, analytical, distant, moody and a host of other traits; THIS WILL NOT CHANGE! This is how we process things! This is how we make decisions in matters of the heart! The relationships that work with Virgos are relationships where the other person NATURALLY gets this and does not try to push/pressure us to be something we're not. It seems all the complaints come from people who require a lot of emotional displays and attention; clearly a Virgo is not the sign for you and that's ok. That does NOT make us azzholes just because we're not right for you... #endsrant!
To the OP; 1st see above and decide if dating a Virgo is the best choice for you. 2nd; your virguy's admission of his feelings really should have been enough at least for now. 6 months is nothing to a Virgo in dating/getting to know you time. We don't admit to feelings for someone that we don't actually like as we don't want the hassle of your emotions if we really don't like you. We rarely admit our emotions preferring to let our actions do the talking. So if he admitted it not only did he mean it but he also recognized that he's not performing as well as he could with you and needed to address is so as not to lose you. IMO of course. Also for me (and lots of other people) distance; the ability to be away from you and miss you is actually what causes my love for you to grow. Good luck!
Posted by CluelessCancer
THIS IS ABSOLUTE BULLSHIT
"If you require someone who will spend every moment with you, call you every hour of the day and make grand gestures and professions of love;"
PLEASE DO NOT BELITTLE OR TAINT PEOPLE'S EXPERIENCE BY USING BS ASSUMPTIONS AND WORDS.
THIS is the problem you think of this as "belittling" when it's really just REALITY. I'm not judging your needs AT ALL. I'm simply asking why are you trying to get your needs filled from a sign that does not behave the way you want/need them to? You yourself have complained about your virguys lack of emotional displays among other things yet you continued to try to shape yourself to his liking and make the relationship work when it's OBVIOUS he's not the guy that can give you what you need. Why not just find a guy better suited for your needs?
...And stop being so dam over-emotional all the time! Geez!
OP, PEOPLE act like that when they have have multiple relationships. You are one of his "things on the side" and every attempt he has made towards connecting with you has been to keep you as one of his things. He's hoping you will be understanding of his work situation and his confession to half assing the relationship. He will keep doing this as long as you continue to accept him as the neglectful boyfriend. He gave himself that role and he is happy with it. If you don't like, give him alternatives and see if he complies. If he cares enough, he'll understand why you're doing this and make improvements. If he doesn't, you need to let him go or accept him as is because he will not change.
Ok WOW, I think I need to say something here. First, WOW! You guys tored this thread up.
Ok now, I do not require ALOT of attention. Yes, i would like to hear from him at least twice to three times a week, no once a week. I would like to spend time with him more than two nights a week, if i even get that. I would like to go to a movie with him, or wherever, but never can because he's never available on the weekends.
Maybe i am asking for alot of attention but idk. How would you feel if you called someone that didn't call you back for two days? Didn't respond to text for two days, only to text and let you know they are out of town?
How would you feel if you planned a date a week ahead and at the very last minute, he texts and says he out of town and can't do it, and doesn't make an effort to make it up?
I mean, am i being too needy?
Six months - one date - saw him a bunch of times - but always sporadically
AND FIRST OF ALL - HE NEVER SAID HE WANTED TO BE WITH ME
He has NEVER SAI😱
I see us being together
I really like you a whole lot
Or whatever the hell you guys say when you like someone.
So I'm crazy or wanting too much?
AND i am not making assumptions. aND YES I DO admit, i over analyze LIKE crazy, so am i overanalyzing something here?
And i agree with NONOISEPLZ
Ok now, I do not require ALOT of attention. Yes, i would like to hear from him at least twice to three times a week, no once a week. I would like to spend time with him more than two nights a week, if i even get that. I would like to go to a movie with him, or wherever, but never can because he's never available on the weekends.
Maybe i am asking for alot of attention but idk. How would you feel if you called someone that didn't call you back for two days? Didn't respond to text for two days, only to text and let you know they are out of town?
How would you feel if you planned a date a week ahead and at the very last minute, he texts and says he out of town and can't do it, and doesn't make an effort to make it up?
I mean, am i being too needy?
Six months - one date - saw him a bunch of times - but always sporadically
AND FIRST OF ALL - HE NEVER SAID HE WANTED TO BE WITH ME
He has NEVER SAI😱
I see us being together
I really like you a whole lot
Or whatever the hell you guys say when you like someone.
So I'm crazy or wanting too much?
AND i am not making assumptions. aND YES I DO admit, i over analyze LIKE crazy, so am i overanalyzing something here?
And i agree with NONOISEPLZ
Ugh, tore, not tored.
Oh and yes, HE WAS DRUNK WHEN HE CALLED ME AT 3AM IN THE MORNING "professing" his so called love
Posted by Lenore0908
The mistake you are making is taking it too seriously. Be more unavailable and have your own life.
Don't pick up the phone when he calls at 3 am. The reason he is acting like that is because he knows that you like him.
Just start treating him like a friend, not a romantic interest. If he calls, tell him you're busy, you're about to go out with your friends. If he asks to see you, tell him you have plans.
When you are looking for a man or when you have a crush on a man, it's harder to actually get that man. It becomes much easier when you sit back and receive.
It is a win-win situation, if you just sit back and receive his interest, instead of calling him, hounding him, chasing him.
Certainly taking this advice!~!
Because he's not that interested in you.
Posted by RealTalk
Because he's not that interested in you.
And thats why i have been going back and forth, trying to figure that out.
So, till this day, he still texts me and calls
But i'll just ignore for now on
Posted by shaiessence
AND FIRST OF ALL - HE NEVER SAID HE WANTED TO BE WITH ME
He has NEVER SAI😱
I see us being together
I really like you a whole lot
Or whatever the hell you guys say when you like someone.
But he told you this....
Posted by shaiessence
He told me the reason why he was acting that why was because he was deciding, trying to see if I'm the person he wanted to be with long term, and he isn't good telling his feelings and runs away from them, etc. and said I am doing better, I am calling you more and texting you more and I said yea, but I told you 2 months into us dating that I wanted u to call and text more, and now u start to put efclick to expand
How did you respond when he told you this?
I'm curious...
I would think the next logical question to ask would be:
"OK...so exactly where is this headed?"
"OK...so exactly where is this headed?"
No you're not crazy. Let me tell if you no one else will, this is how they act. I just got out of a 2 year relationship with one and aside from the fact that he was a compulsive liar, they're horrible communicators, and yes dear the disappearing acts and treating you like you didn't matter at all were commonplace. I have friendships with all my ex's and we can still communicate but this is the one relationship that crashed and burned and I want nothing to do with him. I was good to him, yeah loving, loyal, faithful. .all that good stuff and I got treated like something on the bottom of his shoe. In my case, I found out 2 years later he wasn't even divorced from his wife, and we lived together. He just happened to say "Oh by the way, I haven't gotten my divorce yet" WTF—? Worst experience ever. . I mean ever. I think it will take me some time to heal from this one, I know I'll have trust issues. . if I can save you I'm going to try to do it!
Hi, I m from Orissa, and studied mca in kisd. I was in love with a girl during 2010 who was BTech in kisd. It's completely magical love. Destiny divided us, it's not virgo character. I proposed inside bus, she rejected. When she called me. after someday I lost my mobile and all connections lost. In this way lot of magical happened.
I was struggling professionally because of a big ambition. So, I drop myself to hell.
Note: If a virgo man is stable financially his first aim is to keep her woman happy as much as possible. Otherwise u will find all devil character within them.
Now, I m doing a small govt. job and writing bollywood film scrips, and prepared very hard to b film director. This time I will succeed for sure.
if virgo are devil, then why I m still in love with her after 9 year. I searching everywhere. I question myself is love true, or illusion.
I am posting this, so I can reach her. If you are that girl, Drop me an email me on scriptisking@gmail.com
Let's continue from broken part..
I was struggling professionally because of a big ambition. So, I drop myself to hell.
Note: If a virgo man is stable financially his first aim is to keep her woman happy as much as possible. Otherwise u will find all devil character within them.
Now, I m doing a small govt. job and writing bollywood film scrips, and prepared very hard to b film director. This time I will succeed for sure.
if virgo are devil, then why I m still in love with her after 9 year. I searching everywhere. I question myself is love true, or illusion.
I am posting this, so I can reach her. If you are that girl, Drop me an email me on scriptisking@gmail.com
Let's continue from broken part..
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I use logic over emotion. Doesn't mean I don't have EMOTIONS HARRY99, it means I have a grip on them. My emotions run deep, very deep. Here I am almost a year later of being broken up with my ex, I STILL LOVE HIM. But I cannot be bothered. I know how to love myself more.