Broken hearted

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I started seeing my virguy in November last year, he was romantic, affectionate and worshipped my body but I was warned by others that he was a womaniser and treated girls badly. He made me so happy, happier than I have ever been but I soon realised he was talking to other girls as well which hurt me because he would say things like " you are so special to me" and call me his princess, soon after the first time we slept together his ex got in contact with me saying she wanted him back and that he was a cheating bastard etc etc, this made him tell me he wasn't ready for something so serious with me and we pretty much stopped seeing each other. After about a month we saw each other again and everything was back on track, he then met my family and gave a heartfelt apology for mistreating me, he did this several times, said he wanted to make it right between us, sad he could imagine marrying me, there was no one else out there for me and I was over the moon. I would do anything for him and he knows this, oursex life was great and his family liked me. We carried on like this for a while, happy, laughing, enjoying eachothers company and generally habing fun with eachother, until another girl got in contact with me saying she was seeing him and that she wanted to know what was going on I told her the truth and rang him after and he was being all quiet and saying well I never said we were exclusive Lucy, he certainly did he said "I am yours, all yours" and I asked him several times if he was seeing anyone else and he always said no. He then said that he was only seeing ths girl because her dad had given hm a job and he needed the thousand pounds he would get and that i had fucked that all up or him.After the phone call he text me saying he doesn't think we hold see each other anymore, I am completely heartbroken, sobbing around the house and being pathetic, is there anyway he will realise that he has been cruel? I cannot bear to think that it is over! Please give advice or suggestions

Oh also, his sister is messaging me saying what a dick he is and that she misses me because we really got on well, am I just being a naive idiot? I feel like my world has crashed down around me

He's not with her either

Just realised how many annoying spelling errors there are, I hate autocorrect

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Ellyouseewhy
Oh also, his sister is messaging me saying what a dick he is and that she misses me because we really got on well, am I just being a naive idiot? I feel like my world has crashed down around me

What's your Zodiac Sign. I'm hoping NOT cancer.

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I am a Scorpio, Hence my extreme reactions to his dumping

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Ellyouseewhy
He's not with her either

Have some DIGNITY..that's the only advice I can give you. If someone says they don't want to be with you, why would you want to be with them?

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I love him, he said I gave him a reason to be alive and I don't want to believe everything was a lie

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Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Ellyouseewhy
He's not with her either

Have some DIGNITY..that's the only advice I can give you. If someone says they don't want to be with you, why would you want to be with them?

I love him, he said I gave him a reason to be alive and I don't want to believe everything was a lie

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If you are getting phone calls from other girls telling you he is also dating them, and this happened not once but twice, sorry love but yes, everything was a lie...

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Posted by Ellyouseewhy

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Ellyouseewhy
He's not with her either

Have some DIGNITY..that's the only advice I can give you. If someone says they don't want to be with you, why would you want to be with them?

I love him, he said I gave him a reason to be alive and I don't want to believe everything was a lie

It was a lie, trust me. Virgos say extreme things like that, since it's pretty easy for Virgos to say anything. You gave him a reason to be alive, but he dumped you? So seems like you should be concerned about his safety, since you're no longer in the picture. I think it's pretty likely he's STILL alive, so pretty sure those extreme statements aren't close to being true

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I noticed they do say those things pretty easily and most of the time is not a concious lie, they do feel it, at least at that very moment, they problem is the next day, they don't feel the same way anymore, they did at the moment but now they don't or maybe they are distracted with someone else...

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Posted by Mr. Defense

Posted by Ellyouseewhy

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Ellyouseewhy
He's not with her either

Have some DIGNITY..that's the only advice I can give you. If someone says they don't want to be with you, why would you want to be with them?

I love him, he said I gave him a reason to be alive and I don't want to believe everything was a lie

It was a lie, trust me. Virgos say extreme things like that, since it's pretty easy for Virgos to say anything. You gave him a reason to be alive, but he dumped you? So seems like you should be concerned about his safety, since you're no longer in the picture. I think it's pretty likely he's STILL alive, so pretty sure those extreme statements aren't close to being true

I noticed they do say those things pretty easily and most of the time is not a concious lie, they do feel it, at least at that very moment, they problem is the next day, they don't feel the same way anymore, they did at the moment but now they don't or maybe they are distracted with someone else...

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What do I do then?
I can't move on, I can't not think about him and I can't bear to think I'll never make him laugh again

Posted by Ellyouseewhy

Posted by Dafna79

Posted by Mr. Defense

Posted by Ellyouseewhy

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Ellyouseewhy
He's not with her either

Have some DIGNITY..that's the only advice I can give you. If someone says they don't want to be with you, why would you want to be with them?

I love him, he said I gave him a reason to be alive and I don't want to believe everything was a lie

It was a lie, trust me. Virgos say extreme things like that, since it's pretty easy for Virgos to say anything. You gave him a reason to be alive, but he dumped you? So seems like you should be concerned about his safety, since you're no longer in the picture. I think it's pretty likely he's STILL alive, so pretty sure those extreme statements aren't close to being true

I noticed they do say those things pretty easily and most of the time is not a concious lie, they do feel it, at least at that very moment, they problem is the next day, they don't feel the same way anymore, they did at the moment but now they don't or maybe they are distracted with someone else...

What do I do then?
I can't move on, I can't not think about him and I can't bear to think I'll never make him laugh again

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You know what you have to do, don't let fear hold you back. Make him laugh... what about a guy that makes you laugh instead of cry, that makes you happy gives you peace, you deserve this. Run and never look back!

He doesn't care !!! Look treat a virgo guy like u don't care about him and he'll chase u like a dog show then be all lovey then switch then again lovey!!! Do the push pull thing and don't fuck him tease him until u noe for fact ur the only one then give him a lil then pull back again he won't stop loving u !!! Don't be easy

What a dumbass !!

I especially like how Scorpios have this false image of themselves being strong and superior ... when in reality, they're the weakest link

It's not uncommon to find a Scorpio female carrying on like this .... completely ignorant to the actuality of reality.

At any rate, this thread is a year old ..... so, there's no point in talking TO her.

Actually, I will correct myself ..... because I know quite a few amazing Scorpios who would rather clean a dirty toilet than stoop to feigning ignorance.

I especially like how *some Scorpios .......

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Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Ellyouseewhy
Oh also, his sister is messaging me saying what a dick he is and that she misses me because we really got on well, am I just being a naive idiot? I feel like my world has crashed down around me

What's your Zodiac Sign. I'm hoping NOT cancer.

I am a Scorpio...

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Posted by Ellyouseewhy

Posted by Dafna79

Posted by Mr. Defense

Posted by Ellyouseewhy

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Ellyouseewhy
He's not with her either

Have some DIGNITY..that's the only advice I can give you. If someone says they don't want to be with you, why would you want to be with them?

I love him, he said I gave him a reason to be alive and I don't want to believe everything was a lie

It was a lie, trust me. Virgos say extreme things like that, since it's pretty easy for Virgos to say anything. You gave him a reason to be alive, but he dumped you? So seems like you should be concerned about his safety, since you're no longer in the picture. I think it's pretty likely he's STILL alive, so pretty sure those extreme statements aren't close to being true

I noticed they do say those things pretty easily and most of the time is not a concious lie, they do feel it, at least at that very moment, they problem is the next day, they don't feel the same way anymore, they did at the moment but now they don't or maybe they are distracted with someone else...

What do I do then?
I can't move on, I can't not think about him and I can't bear to think I'll never make him laugh again

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I've noticed that a lot of people from the UK will start their story with "Right"