Is this virgo interested or just friendly?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by BadSag12 on Thursday, September 12, 2013 and has 5 replies.

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@BadSag12
14 Years

Everytime I see him he stares and smiles at me and I smile back or we say hey to eachother.

I give him a highfive and then he takes his other hand and to gove me another one, or I give him a high five and we lock our fingers together and hold eachothers hands.

Gives me eye contact

Complimented me one time

Is he just being friendly?

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@BadSag12
14 Years

I'm 17 and hes actually 16. I've never been interested in younger guys and thats why I try to stay in the friend zone with highfives and not come on too strongy, more playful. I'm trying to figure him out but idk. Usually with older guys I'm more dominant. Hes probaly just being really nice lol.

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@BadSag12
14 Years

Hes the cutest thing ever and is so sweet lol

I dont want to come off strong, show interest like how? I dont know anything about virgos.

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16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by BadSag12
Hes the cutest thing ever and is so sweet lol

I dont want to come off strong, show interest like how? I dont know anything about virgos.

Ask him what his favorite hobbies/music are, what does he likse to eat, favorite movie etc...you know easy stuff like that. Find a connection through common interests. It's really not that difficult. And let him answer, don't interrupt or go overboard talking about yourself. Just come across assertive but not overbearing.

Don't interrogate him. Keep it simple and sweet at first. Allow the conversation to develop over time. Be pleasant, smile and bring your sense of humor. Every male virgo I've known can be so serious all the time.

Two things open them up: A young lady who can engage him in an interesting conversation and also make them laugh. They loosen up a bit after
they sense you are fun to be around. What ever you do, don't start a conversations discussing your feelings. That's like holding up a cross to a vampire.

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@BadSag12
14 Years

I usually go for guys that show interest first hes just really friendly. He was in one of my classes last year thats how we know eachother and bow hes in anotherr one of my classes. I dont know if I should flirt with him or not or make it an "obvious" flirt because idk if hes intested in that way. I don eant to over think things and make thibg bigger than what it actually is. I ralked to him briefly when we were walking out of school. He tried to be funny and make me laugh and of course I did lol. The other day I jojed and called him beautiful and he said I made his day. (A girl use to say he was beautiful everyday and I teased him and told him he liked it and he said it made his day so I said he was beautiful) is it bad that he didnt say anything back? I'm kinda scared to flirt with him now. I dont think he scare him of that much since we talked today..