Virgo... Do you Persue?

So, I'm just curious. When you meet a girl/ guy that you like and are attracted to... What qualities do you look for in a woman/man... I know you are after perfection... So you must have a short checklist .. I am curious of those might be 🙂 and if you are a male Virgo.. Do you Persue?

I'm a Virgo gal but here's what I look for. As for a short list...hahaha we are Virgo's & we do want perfection.

1) physical attraction - assuming I've just met this person for the 1st time
2) intelligence - nothing worse than a sexy man that's dumb as a box of rocks
3) humor - nothing more fun than a guy that keeps you laughing with witty humor
4) placement in life - don't need a dead beat for a man; he has to be established and know where he wants to go in life
5) Friends/family - this I would find out in time but I'd want see who he surrounds himself with & what is relationship is like with his family.
6) the kiss - he's got to knock me off my feet with his kiss which will keep me craving more. A bad kisser is a huge turn off to me regardless of how hot he may be.

The list can go on & on from there like meshing of personalities, similar interests, etc.

You directed this to the males but as a gal will I peruse...yup, but only if they are worth it.

^^^ the list wasn't too bad 😉 But thank you !! I'm a Taurus and I have them myself. What I find with virgos are ...they seem to add more to the list as time goes by.... Once they get to know you etc... But before that stage ( dating stage) do you check him or her on a social networking site.. Watch their actions /moves n words.. Or is that a Taurus thing :p.... I met mine at a dancing venue. I am advanced and he's a beginner... He had to watch me dance with other guys all night... He offered to teach me martial arts in return as he is an instructor.. I truly like him but is afraid that me dancin socially will create some doubts in his mind .. I did want to make it clear I like him but I better wait .. I passed most of your list which is great 🙂 it comes natrually to Taurus+ Virgo pairing I think.

Taurus + Virgo is a great match. Love of my life was a Taurus. Just be you & don't play games...you'll get your T.

Posted by unlimitedinfiniti
1) Physical attraction is the first but not the main attraction.
2) Respect, I want a woman who can respect herself and others
3) Intelligence, she has to be able to hold and intelligent conversation
4) Yes she needs to make me laugh
5) She needs to be goal and family oriented

lol sex is not really important because you can always turn a girl into the freak you want her to be in the bedroom, if she's not one already 🙂

Posted by BeautifulVirgo
Taurus + Virgo is a great match. Love of my life was a Taurus. Just be you & don't play games...you'll get your T.

@ unlimited .. Interesting .. I like it how you virgos analyse everything in the room without making it obvious... I admire that quality ..how you surely hide it well if you are upset or feel uncomfortable... here's a convo I had with my Virgo ex today .. Me: " so did you think the dance I had with ... Was good?" him.." Ohhh... It was okay actually... I actually prefer the other people....vblablabla" me" Ohhh really? Thank you for the compliment ...". Him " well I only like it when you dance with me"..... The whole time I saw he was watching me but still denied it ... **sigh** now I got another pair of V eyes Staring while I'm on the dance floor... n I cud also tell he does not like it either.. >< would I be cut off your " girlfriend to be list"?!? a girl doing social dancin (latin) on the dance floor is no where near perfect is it .....

Posted by unlimitedinfiniti
lol it was just a general list, I can probably put more on it if I really tried.

Sadly mine passed away some years ago. 6 years of courting, made it down the alter & 3yrs later a drunk driver took him from me. Sorry, didn't mean to go all sappy here...just brought back some memories. I'm sure if he's they rights tech for you it will be blissful. Check your natal charts.

Posted by BeautifulVirgo
Sadly mine passed away some years ago. 6 years of courting, made it down the alter & 3yrs later a drunk driver took him from me. Sorry, didn't mean to go all sappy here...just brought back some memories. I'm sure if he's they rights tech for you it will be blissful. Check your natal charts.

Posted by unlimitedinfiniti
lol I don't know, I relate dancing to sex so I'll be on the dance floor with you.

It was the best years thus far. Sorry about the typos...smart phones - ha. Good luck with yours :o)

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lol I don't know, I relate dancing to sex so I'll be on the dance floor with you.

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Posted by BeautifulVirgo
It was the best years thus far. Sorry about the typos...smart phones - ha. Good luck with yours :o)

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lol I don't know, I relate dancing to sex so I'll be on the dance floor with you.

well.. Dancing is my passion n I do Latin dancin which requires me to dance to many men in one night.. It's just dancing though...I was teaching him many steps throughout the night .. N in returns he said he will teach me martial arts as he is an instructor..so I don't know I think me being a centre of attention on a dance floor is good as he called me a master...:p.. We had long conversations though... What I do.. What sports I play.. And this was at a dancing venue .. He must be interested right . LoL !!! He better Persue cause Taurus don't :p

I think that his major attraction to you because I like the same in woman. If a woman is the center of attraction and with no matter how man men she was with that night or what guys are trying to get with her and she turns around at the end of the night is going home with my. DAMN MY EGO WILL BE SKYROCKET!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🙂

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lol I don't know, I relate dancing to sex so I'll be on the dance floor with you.

My ex who's a V and me T clicked well in bed... The thing is.. This V can not move.... And for me to keep coming back to them was obvious enough that I truly like him... I'm just hoping he can move those hips better in a real situation !! hehe ..
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oh yeah 🙂 lol

I was a little worry about that actually .. He was a realllll beginner at dancin... I'm preying for him to be okay in bed... Virgos r natrually good in bed right— Let's hope so ImAO...

I never heard about people complaining about virgo's in bed, I generally hear good things.

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Thanks all. It was 10 years ago. I'm at peace with it now. Stronger penalties yes...the guy got 15yrs but should be life in my opinion.

Virgo's are fast learners and dancing is sexy...at least I think so. You should bring up that your a Taurus. I bet he'll look it up if he hasn't already. Plus it will make conversation. As far as the bedroom...you'll know soon enough (hehehe). The make out session will tell you what your in for.

It may be the aries in my chart idk but pursuing is my favorite part of it. But I'll only do it if im getting some reciprocation and if my competition isn't guys that came in the picture after me, that's just insulting and I'll tell you to eat a dick then

I could very easily make up a gigantic list of qualities that I find desirable in a partner, good looks, intellect, humor, etc., but in the end all it really comes down to for me is chemistry. I've dated some very attractive and intelligent people before whom, at least in theory, should have been fantastic but ended up being dull because we lacked a natural chemistry with one another. And vice versa, I've also run across persons that were less than my nitpicked ideal but with whom I shared a great rapport and found to be very exciting.

That's really all I ask for these days, is that personal connection which can't be feigned or manipulated, and when I run across a person that has or who has caught my eye I am most certainly willing to pursue them.

I definitely will pursue. But..she has to stay "worthy" of my pursuit. The moment the girl is really trying to play games (which I usually catch) or is flakey, etc..I'll lose interest.

I will pursue if I'm still interested, is the shorter answer. 🙂

TMV . Great point , don't we all? . My Virgo ex is still presuing. I am definately not the smartest intellectual girl out there and I often brought that point up to him many times. He often said it will be dull and boring if we are the same etc. he has an intelligentually smart family you see. I didn't feel I fit in. Well educated family. I am very different in my own way . The V I mentioned earlier has not contacted
Me since he said he will set something up for us ( 2 days ago). I am a bull and I don't Persue. Texting him first is very unnatural to me so I am just going to be patient n go with the flow .... It's what I do best I suppose ... 🙂

A genuine connection and to be inspired by her.

Do I chase? Hell ya I chase! The chase is half the fun 😄

Great! Seems Virgo men do like chasing after all.

Beautiful Virgo has us down pat! I'm a Virgo and yes I have been known to pursue... My last bf was a cappy and probably the love of my life... Not sure if I was having a moment but got too attached when he just wasn't ready but... Caps and virgos.... So great together!