Messed up virgo and a confused gemini

You went out of your way to stay out of his life...you don't try to contact him further and when you see him next, you're angry and you give him the cold shoulder. There's more than one ocasion where you react like that.

And then you mention crying for an entire year.

You don't bother to ask what's going on in his life and you take his crazy mood swings and depressed mood personally. That is, if you even have a clue on what's going on in his personal life, which you don't.

Too many assumptions.

He seemed friendly all along, made the time to drop you a line or acknowledge your presence and you seem constantly pissed that he's not catering to your feelings.

Posted by Damnata
You went out of your way to stay out of his life...you don't try to contact him further and when you see him next, you're angry and you give him the cold shoulder. There's more than one ocasion where you react like that.

And then you mention crying for an entire year.

You don't bother to ask what's going on in his life and you take his crazy mood swings and depressed mood personally. That is, if you even have a clue on what's going on in his personal life, which you don't.

Too many assumptions.

He seemed friendly all along, made the time to drop you a line or acknowledge your presence and you seem constantly pissed that he's not catering to your feelings.

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I agree... And his chart is crazy Virgo... You know with this h has to be very sensitive, deep thinker... Your not leading him you're torturing him IMO

I don't see him cutting you off. You were acting according to what you assumed was going on. If he had really been your close friend, like you're implying, you wouldn't have let months go by without no contact. I think at some point you had an expectation of his behavior towards you, and when he didn't act like you wanted him to, you jumped to the conclusion that he's a jerk.

You mention him making different attempts to get in touch with you, like a friend would, and you rejected each one of them or acted cold and bitchy when meeting him in person. It seems to me you have no awareness of your actions towards him. People have a lot of things on their plate at each moment in their lives and sometimes months go by without getting the chance to catch up with old friends. You would've realised that, had your feelings not become involved at some point. He didn't owe you anything because you were not his girlfriend.

Posted by Damnata
I don't see him cutting you off. You were acting according to what you assumed was going on. If he had really been your close friend, like you're implying, you wouldn't have let months go by without no contact. I think at some point you had an expectation of his behavior towards you, and when he didn't act like you wanted him to, you jumped to the conclusion that he's a jerk.

You mention him making different attempts to get in touch with you, like a friend would, and you rejected each one of them or acted cold and bitchy when meeting him in person. It seems to me you have no awareness of your actions towards him. People have a lot of things on their plate at each moment in their lives and sometimes months go by without getting the chance to catch up with old friends. You would've realised that, had your feelings not become involved at some point. He didn't owe you anything because you were not his girlfriend.

Okay so i think more clarification is needed. He stopped contacting me and replying to anything on september. His first attempt was only 10 months after that.
As for my expectations, when you talk to someone and (occasionally meet them) for two years ,you'd expect them to reply to your texts and actually contact you. Cutting friends off completely would naturally mess up a friendship. I dont think any schedule is busy enough for a simple hello every now and then.

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Awesome quote