Gemini women and Virgo man—

Has anyone had any good experiences with this combination?

Posted by Superseven
It won't work.

Why do you feel that way?

2nd worst experience of my life. The rest of the Virgo men I know were either shitty to their partners or just painful to work with.

I ADORED my Gem.

A fantastic experience that ended abysmally.

Worked well in my experience. Both having moon in scorpio and my ascendant in Libra helped. When things were good, it felt like we were on top of the world. When it was bad.. well.. you get my drift. More good times then bad though. I think we would still be together if it wasn't for my selfish ways back then. lasted 3 years.

Posted by CoCoa
Has anyone had any good experiences with this combination?

I know of one couple, a gem woman and a virgo man, who have somehow managed to remain married for over 30 years despite his moodiness, criticisms, disappearing acts, and the biggie: cheating on her. Lord knows if I were her, I would have left him a long time ago. The only reason I'm convinced she still wears his wedding ring is due to the fact that she has tons of friends, is very independent, and has hobbies (as horseback riding, she owns her own horse) that keep her busy. Their kids are grown and living out of state. She also travels a lot visiting her kids. I know he only goes with her about 50% of the time. They're in their '60s, so it's kind of like I've hung in there this long, might as well live it out.

Now with that said, I made an attempt to date a male virgo when I was in my early '20's and again when I turned 30. They were different guys, and of course, I was more mature at 30. However, each time the dates were drab. It was all about looking the part, but other than some ok conversation, I never felt any chemistry. What I did feel was as if I was always under a microscope. Unlike how I felt around my husband when I was dating him, I never was at ease to just be myself with the two virgos. And honestly, they lacked any real sense of humor and I got bored. Gems need someone who can volley quips back and forth, and who show up looking as if they have a pulse.

forgot to add, i'm virgo rising as well. So i'm able to keep things levelheaded and not go overboard on the first couple of dates. Still didn't help us reach any connection. The good part is I saw the writing on the wall early on with both and moved onto guys with a pulse.

OP I think the timetables are where the most conflict can arise...the speed by which my Gem friends romantic relationships progress isn't something that I typically would ever find palatable.

Ixion120

Ixion's dating guide for the typical Virgo Male:

2013: Meet a nice girl who is neat, kind, intelligent, beautiful and can make me laugh....nearly perfect.

2014: Consider a second date. Analyze if it's good idea to pursue.

2015: Meet with this young lady for the second date. Analyze second date.

2016: Have dinner with young lady for the third date. Analyze third date.

2017: Consider introducing young lady to parents in discussion at fourth date. Analyze fourth date.

2018: Introduce young lady to parents. Analyze outcome.

2019: Analyze illogical feelings you are having....Reasons if feelings are warranted or waste of time.

2020: Findings of illogical feelings are linked to that irrational emotion referred to as "Love". Only logical thing to do is propose to young lady.

2021: Ixion, aka virgoman, and young lady of his dreams are married. Analyze ceremony. Honeymoon postponed on account of needing more time to analyze destination.

2022: As a result of new nearly perfect wife being upset with a cheap husband who didn't give her a honeymoon of a lifetime....poor Ixion,aka virgo
man, is now single and busy analyzing why his former bride couldn't deal with staying at the Budgetel in Hawaii rather than the Four Seasons Resort.

J/K Ixion. 😉

Not a good combination but can work with a GREAT DEAL of hard work. Who wants to deal with that? Relationships don't have to be hard. These two are similar as they are different. This Gem straight-forward; the Virgo I dealt with beat around the bush a lot and it got too frustrating. Virgos want everyone to like them; Gemini could give a shyt. Gems should stick to air or fire signs.

Thank you all for the interesting insight, I am very much into a Virgo man who is grieving the death of his mother right now and has pushed me away. I am just trying to figure out how to proceed without pushing too hard.

I sent him a very nice text today and got a response. It seems he is in good spirits and that makes me happy. I know he is grieving deeply and that me or thoughts of a relationship are the furthest things from his mind. I honestly just want him to be okay and I know he has been spending much of his time alone other than throwing himself into work. I hope to see him again one day soon.

Posted by Ixion120
@GemStar05 Indeed I think most people just want a straight forward cool person. When I see that a person I am trying to involve myself with romantically isn't that or isn't actively working toward that ease of being, I discontinue the shit real quick.

+1

I'm a gemini girl, my ex was virgo.
It was not so bad. Sex was good too, but he cheated on me, so I broke up with him.

Posted by Maybelle
I'm a gemini girl, my ex was virgo.
It was not so bad. Sex was good too, but he cheated on me, so I broke up with him.

Cheating huh? well you did the right thing!

No. Got set up with a Virgo a few weeks ago. On the surface it was all there but I noticed he was very judgemental, kept calling me crazy, couldn't really bounce off him mentally. Sex was pretty good, then he disappeared.
Took this as the Virgo disappearing act - Yawn - and got on with my life. End of.