mixed messages

do virgo guys often give mixed messages to whom they "may" desire? and why do they do that? whats going on in their brains ? hehe lol

I can totally identify! Yeah, what's up that? cf36

But isn't that all guys?

They like you but can't be with you. SSDD

Ok, it's been quite a while since I have seen my Ex-Virguy. Well, Saturday night I saw him. He texted messaged me saying he was at the bar shooting pool and if I wanted to come and get my butt kicked he would be there. He also stated he just wanted it on a friendship basis and not 20 questions so I agreed. I show up and he seems to have a hard time looking at me. We chatted lightly a little and played pool a little then he saw some guys come up and talk to me. He seemed a little pissed so he went and talked with his friend that was hitting on some girls. He was acting like he was having fun but kept watching me and the girl he was talking to had no interest from what I saw. Then this guy I know that we just hang out together he put his arm around my shoulder and kissed me on the cheek (just platonic). I saw Virguy from the corner of my eye seeing this. I got up and got to get a sip of water from my table and he grabbed his pool stick and left within 10 minutes after. Does that mean anything? Did I piss him off? I was keeping it on a friendship basis like he asked. I wasn't trying to make him jealous either. He has been working a lot and staying away from the bar it seems like he is trying to improve his life, which is great because he never felt worthy of me for some stupid reason. So, is he trying to make his life better to prove something to me because he always thought I was too good for him or is he just moving on and why would he be upset about me talking with guys and hanging out with them if he only wanted friendship or is that just a mixed message?

like peach said.. SSDD 🙂

I am gonna have to disagree with Dyr and say "Right On" Strings. All this indecision, back and forth. It makes a girl mental. It's a lot like trying to shoot the ducks in an penny arcade range. One shot makes them turn in the other direction and so on.

CF36

I agree with Dy and CF36...look at my story of what happened over the weekend over at the "IS SEX IMPORTANT" blog.

This guy sent me mixed signals from the start. The moment he felt me losing interest in him (not returning his calls or emails as quick as I had done before), he started showing his "interested" side again. But once he had my attention, he was back to the SS, but just on a DD.

He sent me a message this morning that said he wasn't feeling that "instant spark" with me and wanted to see who else he could talk to on eharmony. Well hell, I gave him several outs on this...I'm glad I dumped the guy - although I'm sure in head, he did the dumping first, which he kinda did because he stopped communicating (oh wait, he's a Virgo...he never communicated how he felt).

Sorry, it's the "Does S.E.X. mean everything" blog, sorry can't keep up the topics in here because most Virgo men are fucked up and can't express their feelings openly to the women they date.