inexperienced!

hi everyone,

still continuing with the virguy without knowing what we are; going out? or not?...ok so now i'm sure that this virguy is inexperienced, no other alternative left behind.
he is getting paralyzed before kissing me, i mean really, he wants to kiss but he doesnt know what to do and he is making me panic too, "so this kissing before i'm leaving the car" is becoming a whole ridiculous story. I feel like i'm in high school or something. he can't hold my hand while walking eventhough i feel that he wants to. after reading all those dxp posts i'm doing nothing, literally nothing, because i don't want to scare him, i don't want to push him.
but it's like he is taking slow so i'm taking slow, we are stopping ourselves..i'm getting sick and tired. i feel like a passif cancer girl waiting for an experienced virguy--> it's like no way out, pathethic

now it's obvious that we have feelings for eachother, you don't kiss ur friend goodbye after drinking a cup of coffee right? this is like the fourth time (yeah i'm counting)

I don't understand this are we going out or not? which stage are we?
we are not going out but kinda going out (not going out officialy)..what is this?
should I tell him— tell him that i like him and like spending time with him??don't know..how should you treat an inexperienced virguy on his early 20s— (dy!!!--any help?)...and i think his heart was broken a few times (from my impressions)

i saw him on wednesday, not a word on thursday.. so tommorrow is friday, and i want to see him friday!!!!

i'm pissed off right now..hate this ambiguity

Miasma

You are way to inexperienced as well. So, what's the deal?

What is that Scorpio level manipulation Branh0913?

Miasma

What you want out of the Virguy, is not even what you can do yourself!!!

You can't teach people to paddle, if you don't know how.

Okay Branh0913. I understood.

guys

I'm not complaining about his inexperience!!!..why can't I express myself to you?..maybe i have problems with english dunno.. and i'm not saying that i'm the authority haffo (yeah i can be considered inexperienced,i'm young)
i'm asking if it's going to help if i tell my feelings for him, maybe he will relax or will that scare him?

branh do you know how you make me feel?

it's like someone is burning and ur not coming with a glass of water but with a glass of alcohol

" I'm not complaining about his inexperience!!!"

You are complaining about it. You feel pissed off because of his ambiguility and that comes from his inexperience. Therefore, they are related, and once you complain about anything related to it, you also complain about the source of the problem.

If you feel that you have problems with English, write your problem to me on Turkish via PM and I will translate it here to English.

As for telling him the truth, I don't think it would be a good idea right now. Well actually it is but you need to prepare him to face the reality. I think the best way would be step by step approach, but that requires experience.

haffo,

not pissed off about "His" ambiguility, pissed off about the situation i'm in right now-don't knowing-.
i can't handle ambiguity, lack of competence, bad for me.

wasn't serious about the english but thank you for the offer 🙂..i can talk on turkish with u if u want

since u r experienced, define step by step approach and help me out

haffo,

not pissed off about "His" ambiguility, pissed off about the situation i'm in right now-don't knowing-.
i can't handle ambiguity, lack of competence, bad for me.

wasn't serious about the english but thank you for the offer 🙂..i can talk on turkish with u if u want

since u r experienced, define step by step approach and help me out