Do Virgos appreciate the little things?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by misscancer2u on Thursday, May 11, 2006 and has 21 replies.

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@misscancer2u
20 YearsCancer
My virgo BF always tells me I'm so thoughtful. I'm not a very vocal person when it comes to my feelings so i wanted to write him a love letter.What do u guys think?
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@jjjjjat
20 Years
If you were to do this, I would highly recommend you don't gush, and don't over-exxagerate, and don't say anything silly and meaningless, like "if I could catch a star for you, I would." Personally, those type of sentiments strike me as void and empty of any real meaning. I appreciate the real, tangible things, like calling home if you were running 10 minutes late, or maybe a kiss or cuddle in the middle of the day for no reason, or preparing my favorite meal, over some love letter. But perhaps that's just me.
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@CaptainObvious420
20 Years
No we don't like it! It will stroke our egos to know someone is so completely sprung as to write a love letter to us but it will not "melt" us in any way. In fact it may also make us uncomfortable because we may feel obligated to fake as if the letter meant anything of importance to us.
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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts
Just as long as it isn't over the top. One simple sentence like sometimes I just really love you ... seems to go further than a whole lot of mush. (Provided he feels the same back.)

Too much emotion makes them uncomfortable.
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@Ferghus Clydelover
20 Years500+ Posts
Do it.

As a Virgo male, I like chatting in person, but also love letters. Letters allow you to fully express your feelings and put in words exactly what you feel. Since you can reflect and ponder and rewrite before finally sending it. I also like getting letters for the same reason. Plus, I can read and reread them and ponder my feelings for the sender = )

So go ahead. = )
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@VIRGOEXALTED
20 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo
Well, then again being a crab, you would know about being insipid, now wouldn't you; BEING CRABBY AND ALL!! LOL!!

*takes hammer, and crab in hand, and.....KABOOM!!✨

Actually in my opinion if it comes from the heart, it is anything but insipid, foolish crab; the heart is of passion, ardor and inspiration, and taste that is IF you are passionate; THE COMPLETE REVERSE OF INSIPID!!. perhaps somebody woke up on the wrong side of the shell this morning—?

*TAKES HAMMER IN HAND, AND STRIKES HAND, IN INTIMIDATION*
LOL!!!
Tell me crab, why do you find the clear, crystal truth insipid? It is an honest, open truth, that in my opinion is true, and so easily directed at the heart; if someone would be willing to go the extra mile for me, in my intrest, even if it is as small as fixing a sink, or a railing, it is all in love, how could one NOT appreciate it—?? To do an act like that, no matter how small, or grand, is ALWAYS appreciated; perhaps you lack someone like that in your life; if you respond to that, would you not be just as INSIPID as I mr. crabby——
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@mr.crabby
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer
A day without rebuttal only means i'm becoming like everyone else, thanks to both of you.

A heartfelt letter might be beautiful and touching, but actually responding to a love letter is awful. Implying in any way that an expression of feelings should or could demand or warrant an answer, reciprocity totally diminishes the gesture. It's like saying "I love you too".

Letting out what is inside at the right moment seems to me to be more honest and heartfelt, i just love purity. Hail!

I sound a bit complicated today, must be my virgo moon.
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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces
That's a really sweet thing to want to do.

You could even make it fun, instead of just sentimental. Sentiments is great, but, if he knows that you're uncomfortable with expressing your feelings, then he might get a little suspicious if it's just this gushy explosion of feeelings.

So, do something silly, to lighten the situation, like make him a treasure map that leads him to under the covers, where your special note is left inside your panties.

Have fun !!!
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@VIRGOEXALTED
20 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo
Mr. Crabby on a side-statement, your sun is my moon, and my moon is your sun....creepy
*shudders in fear*
And to dyrstr8z, you are welcome; although my aim was to state an opinion, if you found it intresting, or in someway useful, than it makes me happy that I replied to that crab.
Wheelhomies, what is your sign, I bet I can guess....
*looks at crystal ball, and throws on gypsy wig, and costume*
Aqua!?!?!?
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@Miriam
21 Years
It's not about whether a 'virgo guy' per say would appreciate it...this is not a sign thing...it's an indiviaual and couple matter. If you both have the same feelings for each other and know it...who wouldn't want to recieve a love letter! Aren't you thrilled when you get one? Who wouldn't be? Have you ever heard..."I got a love letter, yuck!".