When Virgo is betrayed...

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by caprigirlwithvigro on Tuesday, May 16, 2006 and has 65 replies.

How Virgo Men React to Betrayal

When a Virgo man feels betrayed, he tends to become introspective and may distance himself to process the situation. Whether he gives the relationship a second chance depends on the severity of the betrayal and his trust rebuilding efforts. Virgo men value honesty and loyalty highly and may need time to forgive and heal.

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@Mystical
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Dy,
"But, if I ever "write you off" as UNTRUSTWORTHY - well, odds are, you'll NEVER get back in the Circle Of Trust!"

Could you give some insight into this? Just curious.

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@Virgo101
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It is utter stupdity for a person to forgive those who you hold in contempt. It is a sign of weakness, and it gives people permission to keep stepping all over you.

You forgive them for there weakness and realize they will never be anything more. Just don't talk to them again. People will only step on you if you let them.

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@Mystical
20 Years1,000+ Posts

Good to know. I was just wondering. Seems like all the Virgos on the forum have the ability to tell it like it is, especially Branh and Dy which I really do admire.

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@Mystical
20 Years1,000+ Posts

American Idol you say? American Idol is huge here in Norway also.

Anyway, I posted my question but I got a small response from you regarding does a Virgo never fall in love again once they are burnt when they think they've found the one who doesn't want them back. The Virgo guy in my case, his ex is a Virgo girl and he dumped her. Then a few months later he wanted to get back with her and she said no thanks. Is that normal for a Virgo to not go back and for another Virgo to want to rekindle something?

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@Mystical
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Dy,

Thanks very much for your honest opinion. The Virgo guy has said once she has made up her mind she sticks to it because she didn't want to get hurt by him. Are Virgo girls that stubborn when they make up their mind?

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@Mystical
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Wow. Burnt their bridges, you say. Are Virgo girls that stubborn that they won't go back to someone even if they loved them (I assume the Virgo girl loved the Virgo guy in my case)?

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@Mystical
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Ja, det er Filmfestival her i august. Da er det masse film og alt mulig. Vi har ogs? Sildajazzen og da er det ogs? litt av hvert som skjer. August er ganske travelt her i haugesund.

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@Mystical
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Vel, det er ikke s? enkelt ang?ende han i det hele tatt. Mye arbeid og mye usikkerhet. Han er maskinist og er p? sj?en n?. Han har en eks som han har problemer med ? komme seg over. Jeg gj?re mitt beste for ? v?re hans venn, men han er mye opp og ned. Noen ganger er han blid og andre ganger er han sure. Jeg f?r han til ? le litt og det er bra. Jeg vet aldri n?r jeg skal h?re fra han. Han sier jeg skal h?re fra han om ikke s? lenge, men jeg vet ikke om han mener det han sier eller ikke.

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@Non-Ozone Depleting
20 Years

Go back to a relationship? Never, but that doesn't mean I won't forgive. Forgiveness being simply letting the anger go and moving on. It just isn't practical to waste emotional energy on someone who doesn't care about you.

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@febpisces27
20 Years

Exactly stringsattached. I guess maybe I should have added that Virgo's can be bitter. So ladies, if you want your Virgo back, he'll come back but may I suggest bolting your door shut and moving far far away. LOL

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@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Alden Nowlan
"The day the child realizes that all adults are imperfect, he becomes an adolescent; the day he forgives them, he becomes an adult; the day he forgives himself, he becomes wise."

A x

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@haffo
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Forgive and forget.

Depends on situation. If a person genuinely wasn't aware about his/her mistake then it's forgivable and forgetable. If a person did something half unaware then it's forgivable but not forgetable. If a person did something plain out like an ass then it's neither forgivable nor forgetable.

So, both forgiving and forgetting can be either dump or stupid and wise.

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