AriesandProud
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my first virgo romance. Needing advice....
I also want to add that he's texting me really often saying things like "I wish you were here." and asking me questions about when he was here. He asked me when I realized that I liked him. He said if/when I come visit, the first thing he wants to do is hold my hand and walk through the Forest. I've never been romanced with words the way he does it.
I'm a proud card carrying Virgo guy. I can say with a fair amount of certainty that his intentions are genuine. I've done the exact same thing before. I moved to a location with a girl I met while she was on vacation in my hometown. I had every intention of settling down with her. It didn't work out because she couldn't keep up with me intellectually.
As for dating a Virgo, just remember a few things, and it will be ok.
1, Keep it simple. If you ask a question, expect a basic yet direct answer. Don't ask something you don't want the answer to. You are going to get a blunt and to the point answer. If you want his opinion on something, you will get it, but he will not sugar coat anything.
2, Be real. Nothing turns a Virgo off faster than finding out someone is not who they made themselves out to be, and a Virgo will not let it slide. He'll be out the door faster than you can blink. And, once it is over, its over. A Virgo will rarely take someone back regardless of who is at fault.
3, We analyze everything. Its not a bad trait, but it can make others feel uncomfortable.
I've made us sound mean, but we are not. 🙂 We can be the most fun, and unpredictable you'd ever meet. We are friendly, and loyal. Most of us have witty senses of humor, and sarcasm is a must.
Those are the most important things I personally can think of. I'm sure others will chime in as well.
As for dating a Virgo, just remember a few things, and it will be ok.
1, Keep it simple. If you ask a question, expect a basic yet direct answer. Don't ask something you don't want the answer to. You are going to get a blunt and to the point answer. If you want his opinion on something, you will get it, but he will not sugar coat anything.
2, Be real. Nothing turns a Virgo off faster than finding out someone is not who they made themselves out to be, and a Virgo will not let it slide. He'll be out the door faster than you can blink. And, once it is over, its over. A Virgo will rarely take someone back regardless of who is at fault.
3, We analyze everything. Its not a bad trait, but it can make others feel uncomfortable.
I've made us sound mean, but we are not. 🙂 We can be the most fun, and unpredictable you'd ever meet. We are friendly, and loyal. Most of us have witty senses of humor, and sarcasm is a must.
Those are the most important things I personally can think of. I'm sure others will chime in as well.
Thanks for the feedback! I am new to this site, but I like it very much. I will check on the Aries board! (:
Nothing came of this. The other night I fell asleep and I was not able to respond to his text messages. He proceeded to call me literally TEN times (in a row!!). When I eventually saw this, I asked him why he called me that many times, and he asked me why I was being mean. I explained that I was asleep, and everything was cool. I still thought that was a bit on the clingy side. lol But as of today, I haven't heard from him in about a week and a half. I'm thinking he gave up because I wasn't able to text him every second of the day. I realize now that I will go to Cali, but for my own reasoning. I really liked this dude, always have, but it seems he has some issues. Oh well. Moving on. x)
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Nothing came of this. The other night I fell asleep and I was not able to respond to his text messages. He proceeded to call me literally TEN times (in a row!!). When I eventually saw this, I asked him why he called me that many times, and he asked me why I was being mean. I explained that I was asleep, and everything was cool. I still thought that was a bit on the clingy side. lol But as of today, I haven't heard from him in about a week and a half. I'm thinking he gave up because I wasn't able to text him every second of the day. I realize now that I will go to Cali, but for my own reasoning. I really liked this dude, always have, but it seems he has some issues. Oh well. Moving on. x)
Why do I know that although you are going to "Cali" for your own reasoning, he's going to find out because Aries don't accept rejection? You might be moving on, but I see a very clear picture here 😉
Don't be surprised if and when you do (ahem) run into him, you'll feel that chill Virgo's are known to project so well.
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