Never Fails

After finally letting go of my virguy and accepting that it's best that we just stay friends and actually being his buddy he SNAPS. Friday night we were all out and Virguy was there as well since we have the same circle of friends. He was doing his own thing and I was doing mine. A very handsome "friend" of mine showed up and we were both showing lots of interest in each other. I could tell that virguy did not like that at all. But too bad were just friends I am free to talk to whomever. After my friend left at the end of the night Virguy tells me he needs a ride home. On the way home he asks a million questions. Who are you dating? Who are you seeing? Who was that guy? I figured if he cared hed call more often. I take him home and he makes me stop like 3 streets away and tries putting the moves on me. I tell him NO and he gets mad and he gets out the car to walk home!!! When I called him to ask him which way to get out of his sub he says don't call me anymore and hangs up on me. It was like he just needed to get away from me as fast as he could before I saw an ounce of emotion come out of him. I was trying to take him home and like a fish out of water he needed out now.

What the heck was that all about??

HappyCrab 4/11/2007 3:01:52 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.163

PAngel He coulda said NO. He has no problem speaking his mind. We have known each other for 10 years not someone that i went out on a couple dates with. We are great friends.

"When I called him to ask him which way to get out of his sub he says don't call me anymore and hangs up on me."


What the heck is that all about? A friend of 10 goddam years? Your just gonna fuck around forever, aren't you? I wouldn't be surprised if you really weren't attracted to that man in the bar, you just wanted to fuck with the Virgo. Why else would you say something like, "I figured if he cared hed call more often.", as justification to his asking questions about who you are seeing.

I actually am very attracted to the man at the bar. I think virguy noticed that and thats what got him unstable. Yes I am going to be around forever as a friend to virguy and all my other friends as well. I have moved on and refuse to continue to allow this man to confuse myself any further.

Why else would you say something like, "I figured if he cared hed call more often.", as justification to his asking questions about who you are seeing.

I dont understand what you mean by this.

I think this is a typical guy that wants his cake and eat it too. I think his ego told him that she may be all into this guy but she's really still in love with you and your going to prove it by leaving with her tonight and getting some action. and when that didn't happen it was a slap in the face to our friend named EGO.

What reason does he have to be mad at me. NONE AT ALL.

On the way home I even commented that the girl he was hanging out with was cute and if it was someone he was seeing on a serious level. I was very neutral as a friend should be. I know for a fact he is having a hard time that I'm not having an emotional break down over him. And once again his ego is telling him that he's losing his touch. I do love him and care about him and if he doesn't want to be mine and only mine then I refuse to be with him. I even explained this to him when he asked why was I being so distant. I told him that its different now since before I thought you were mine and only mine.

Well, have fun .. I don't believe a word your saying because anybody who is great friends with some for 10 years, doesn't have to call and ask how to get out of his subdivision.

So, have fun playing .. out

In the event you come back and say that he just recently moved and that's why you didn't know where he lived .. I will add ..

"HappyCrab 4/6/2007 10:41:39 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.148
So I been dealing with a few virgos UGH. I'm gonna try to make this as short as possible. I met virgo 1 almost 2 years ago. At that time I was clueless about this species of men. But I did learn alot. It didnt really work out but we stayed really good friends. Recently I met Virgo 2 .."

Virgo 2 is this Virgo you are referencing and you met him recently as it's relative to Virgo one to whom you met almost 2 years ago .. so unless he has also changed time dimensions ..

P Angel I am referring to Virguy 2. Yes I have known him for 10 years. But It was just a "whenever I see you around" type thing. We exchanged numbers in November and went out on our first date in February. I have picked him up twice from home but the spot were we parked was at a school on the other end of the sub.

Hey Sweethearts: Hissy fit is the perfect word to describe what my virguy did. I even sent him a funny text yesterday with a picture of a flower attached that he once sent me saying "hello love of my life..Will you ever find it in your heart to forgive me? lol." Just to let him know how silly this whole thing is and the brat never responded.

Yes I agree scopio as women we need to be the ones who let things happen on our own terms not theres. We try to let things happen 50/50 but they just take it for granted. I think my virguy will take all this into consideration after time and will have great respect for me when he learns that I was that ONE that did not accept his mean behaivior. I did not sit around twiddling my thumbs while he hit the town with all types of random women.

"I wouldn't be surprised if you really weren't attracted to that man in the bar, you just wanted to with the Virgo."

P-Angel. You should see how discusting these women are that he hits on while I'm around. There so trashy they look like they just got off of work from the street corner. They are all over him because they think he has a ton of money to spend on them. (FAR FROM TRUE). Virgo's are nobodys sugar daddy. I know how he is and still accept him for who he is. I have a great career and do very well for myself. And still love and respect his freindship only for what it is. I highly doubt he's attracted to these women.

"I love to fall asleep in his arms and that leaves me with a huge problem."

Damn, Sweetheart .. but, that just isn't fair to you.

"I just want to have a good time and not ruin that over how I feel. I rather wait until we get back because otherwise things might be really uncomfortable and ackward and I don't want that."


Understand, though .. I sure hope this guy fully comprehends, one day, how much you've suffered for him.

Yes I know this SH. But I pointed this out to P-angel since she is accusing me of flirting with other men that I have no interest in just to piss Virguy off when that is exactly what he is doing. I also am suspicious that when he flirts with these women it is only for his ego and thats it.

Earlier that same day I was on the road driving with a male friend of mine (JUST A FRIEND that I do work with) and I saw virguy on the road. I know he saw us and my friend yelled out jokingly "yeahhhh I'm with marked territory, I'm in big trouble". Which was funny because it's so typical how these guys become territorial with women they date,

They are not only territorial with women they date they are also that way with their friends too. I think that is just how they are from what I have seen.

Now that you mention it about being territorial about there freinds it makes sense. I think thats another reason why he was so mad because I was socializing with "outsiders". He's such a brat were all going to vegas for memorial weekend and the brat will be there. It should be interesting.

Are you going with outsider friends too!! Why is he going to be there too?

Are you able to avoid him there?

He's going to be with the guys. I'm going to be with the girls. We are going to be totally separate unless if we end up hanging out. I don't mind him being around as a freind. They are staying at a totally different hotel so that wont be an issue at all.

EXACTLY LOL. His face has been popping in my mind lately. Usually that happens when someone is thinking about me. I know he misses me. Too bad he has to be such a brat.

So it's been about 3 weeks since the last virguy run in and on friday I met his older brother. It was like seeing a ghost because there practically twins except for the older brother is shorter. Older brother is also a virgo I might add. I told him that his brother is a good friend of mine but he's mad at me. He asked why would he be mad at me since I am such a nice and sweet person. I shrugged my shoulders and said i'm not sure he always seems to get mad at me for silly things. He told me that his brother is very sensitive and moody and that he has the same problem with him.

Memorial weekend all the girls in our group including myself went to Las Vegas and had a blast. I know he heard all about it since we have the same circle of friends. Seeing his brother made me miss him and think about him so I sent him a text asking if he missed me yet. He didn't respond 😢. I was hoping that his brother told him that he met me and told him how great I am since we had so much fun that night that there faces were hurting at the end of the night from all the laughing that was going on.

He left for L.A. yesterday I dont think he will be back in town until Next weekend.

How do Virguy's feel when someone close to them gives them feed back about someone. Do they listen to it or is there mind pretty much made up?

Nothing personal.. but people like you generally make me sick?


1 - I was hoping that his brother told him that he met me and told him how great I am since we had so much fun

How great are you and what is FUN according to your dictionary..??

Fun as in he enjoyed my company and I was able to make him have a great time and cheer him up since he was really down about somehting when he got there and was trying to go out and forget about his problems. I'm not saying i'm great cuz I think I am but its just what he told me thats all.

So an update that I've gotten was from our mutual friend that was present when I met virguy's brother a couple weeks back. Our mutual friend told me that the next day he spoke to virguy and they were chuckling about how his brother and cousin couldn't win with me when trying flirt and see how far they could get with me. It was nice to hear that he still thinks highly enough of me that he would make mention of that. The day that I met his brother made me miss him alot as I said before and if thats how he was feeling towards me why wouldnt he respond to my text!? The following day he left for a long vacation to spain. I have no Idea when he will be back but I really miss him. Even though we weren't on speaking terms I miss the possibility of running in to him or seeing him out. I have met many others since then and have been to vegas and back yet he's the only one that I cannot stop thinking about. Tomorrow I leave to California on business and will be back sunday. What if I run into him at the airport on the return flight?!?! Wonder what this trip will do for him. He has been stuck working practically his entire life and besides for his breif weekend getaways to las vegas or chicago he really hasn't traveled much. I am glad that he is having this opportunity to go out and see what else there is on this planet beyond the little bubble our community lives in.