Oh, Virgo

I've been thinking a lot lately about my whereabouts with the Virgo man that I've been interested in over a year. I realized that I have never been challenged that much in my life and in any of my relationships. I've never had to be that patient with anyone. I've never had to be that creative. I've never felt that way in my life. I have become a totally different person whom I am very proud of.

The problem is, I am still not sure how he feels about me. He's close, he's affectionate, he's warm. I do not think that he's evaluating me anymore. I have gained his trust and respect. I know that he would do anything if I ask.

For a couple of reasons which I can not disclose here, there is no way I can initiate a heart-to-heart conversation with him.

I do not know what he's waiting for. In a normal sequence of events, this point would be the part where he admitted his feelings and said what he wanted. Because things will get odd if none of us go forward soon. I am very closely watching him to get a subtle clue. He's looking into my eyes as if saying "I'm trying to tell you something, do you understand me". The line that I imagined he has drawn between us does not exist anymore. So, what's next?

Is he waiting for the right moment you think?

** shakes gently and whispers, "Wake up"

With a Virgo male there is hardly ever the right moment, it may never come. You better continue to have lots of patience because I do not think he is near spilling his beans and if he does then thereafter he will act like he did not say anything.

Been there and it seems most women here that deal with Virgo men have had similar experiences, but anyway good luck to you!

Two more and they won't be visible on the Virgo screen.

Quien rie el ultimo rie mejor! voila... I am scorpio after all and a nice full moon in Leo! ;P

Oooops it was to be 😛

No, seriously. I am determined, he'll be mine 😉 Everything is going well, he's not confusing me much anymore. It's just, I know him better than he knows me, so I think my mind still wants to go faster than his. I just need a conclusion. That's all.

Forgive me if I am wrong, but I get the vibe of a love triangle here. More specifically a triangle where you are the farthest point out. If this is the case, it is possible that your virgo longs to be with you, but doesn't want to let someone else down or break someone's heart. I can't see a reason why you would not be able to have a heart to heart unless you two are not supposed to be communicating. I know that's assuming alot, and again, sorry if I'm wrong. But if things DO go too long, it won't only get odd, but there's a chance you could loose the best thing ever. If he's letting you know with his eyes, then he's letting you know with his soul. Some choices aren't really choices, they are damned if you do damned if you don't. That proverbial rock and hard spot. Tricky stuff. Hope it all works out for you, whatever the circumstances.

Okay, whats with Vigos and these 'love triangles'— I'll have to check again but it seems to be a common theme on the virgo thread

JWalker,

It's not a triangle I am in, just some other circumstances. I could possibly talk to him but I do not think that's the right thing to do at this point, I could save this for later. But yes, he has things to lose if he chooses to have something with me.

Life, hard decisions all the time...

lol

oH sorry. Yeah things do get sticky in a lot of different ways. It sounds like you both have feelings for each other, and I guess if it's meant to be it will be. Give it time.

By the way what is your sign anyway? Just curious.

Yeah lovelylibra...I was in one too, that's why it sounded like it to me 😉

I still have a person I wish I could talk to but can't without rocking one hellofa big boat.

lol.

You know that song that says "it's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along" that was my predicament a few years back. I never got involved though. Couldn't let myself.

oh butter, i just made a choice and hoping its the right one...geez thanks JWalker as if Libra wasn't indecisive enough... j/k 😛

I am a Gemgirl. But you could not tell, I do not give much of a clue.

Oh Oh....what have you done JW...(*pinches self*) sorry lovelyL...If it helps any, I think I let my sense of valor get in the way of a happier me....(Hides under table...waiting for L-BOMBS)

My first true love was a Gem. We made a darn good combo. He made me laugh my arse off. It was just when it came to the things that required being serious and committed, he couldn't hang.... but that's not all of 'em I know.

lol. its okay its okay! i think i made the right choice...i think...

hahaha um.....maybe...hope so. LOL😛

Here's a clue for anyone wanting to date a Virgo .. if they want to be with you, have an attraction for you .. they are as fast as the Aries in letting you know .. they're feelings for likeing you and wanting to have a good and positive relationship with you will be forthcoming immediately .. it's once they've said this and you've reciprocated, that they back off and brood.

.. so the moral to the story is .. if the Virgo has NOT told you that he's into you within a very short time .. then he is N O T

"my whereabouts with the Virgo man that I've been interested in over a year .. I am still not sure how he feels about me"

You know P-angel, come to think of it...out of the many virgos ive come across i've never waited around for their feelings and was never kept in the air about how the felt they made it clear that they wanted me anywhere from 3 days to 1 month of us knowing one another,and if they sensed that i didn't get how they really felt-then they made it crystal... so yeah you might be on to something there.

I think they may be faster than Aries.

Yesterday he told me I am valuable to him three times. I don't know, maybe he is getting there, but it sounds like he's having a really hard time to express himself. Instead of telling it right upfront in one simple word which is much easier, he's making up lenghty, pompous sentences. Wht the heck??

P..I think you have a point, that is exactly what happened to me. of course I was confused, thinking he didnt mean it obviously when he backed off some.

That is true. Once I remember trying to explain or discuss after some time my endearing qualities to my fellow Virguy and he's like... "You sound like a dating ad. I'm already sold, remember?" So yes normally the between the lines (sometimes difficult) or mostly directness come out right away as plain as day, if you afford him his space to "push and pull" and do his "analyzing".