Pacifying the ego of a Virgo Guy....

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by SuperVirgoWoman on Saturday, August 10, 2013 and has 5 replies.

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@SuperVirgoWoman
13 Years

IDK...my virgo guy wants me to chase him and I want him to chase me. Needless to say, we are not getting anywhere lol - we both give each other the cold shoulder, become distant....smh feels like a waste of time.

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@VirgoFromCo
13 Years

It's about the dynamic or tension, isn't it? I'll chase a girl, but within reason..and you can bet that I'm also hedging my bet, because chasing rarely works unless you do it well.

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@gemini64
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Chasing only works if the chasee wants to be chased. That goes both ways. But as a female
I would say most cases involving a man doing the chasing is the normal scenario. Men are
Wired to be hunters and women to be nurturers. When you reassign those genetic codes
It can get complicated. Much like how the emasculation of boys in our society and the gender
Neutral agenda is undermining those norms.

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@HungVirgo
13 YearsVirgo

cosign the virgo male will pacify the virgo female.

as for chasing

I like to chase, Im good at it and it almost always ends up working out in my favor. I think I like it more than the sex actually and I like sex a lot. BUT it can be a big investment of energy so I only seriously do it under certain circumstances. Namely I need to be getting some bits of reciprocation along with the resistance, thats what makes it a competition and fun for me. If im not getting any signs back and just disinterest then its not worth my time and I usually wont care enough to turn it around.