PART 2 UPDATE ABOUT MY VIRGUY FOR DOSE HU NO PRT1!

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i gt sum news about the older virguy i was kindaaa seeing for those who knew about it. im sooo over him! thnx for all ur advice made me open my eyes a little bit.. im over him cz ive find out wt an utter prick he was.. i dnt wnt to get to into hw he has kinda hurt me bt if u wnt to no den just ask. But i must have gone to his house one day and his lil cuzzy was dere. virguy completely ignored for like da 4hours i was der and it was his lil cuzzy dat was actually engaging in converastation with mee and all that and virguy got into a mood cz he was tellin his cuzzy how old iw as which is 16 and i was like no im not im 17 and we had an argument about y i was lieing.. den virguy kinda worked out dt his cuzzy liked mee as his cuzzzy asked to walk me to da bustop to wait for my bus and virguy didnt even do dt.. den in the bustop his cuzzy who is 18 asked for my number .. i gave it to him but im nt gna take it further as i dnt wnt to be involved with anything to do with virguy again!! his cuzzy is a capricorn by the way lol .. anyway holla at me
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You're young and it sounds like he is as well....It probably wouldnt be cool to take things further with the cousin but I think you should enjoy being young and seeing what else is out there for sure....17? OMG to be 17 again LOL.

I think it was very insensitive for Virgo to ignore you like that and didnt even see you out....dunno what to think of that except he's young and silly?
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Hi chats thanks for repllyinggg.. i posted a message on this board like 2 months ago i think asking for advice about a virgo guy i like because he was giving out the signals that he liked me and den would do that whole not calling buissnesss and i needed to know about virgos.. he was 26! and i got loads of feedback on the board telling me not to pursue the relationship because i would get hurt.. but with me i like to learn from my experiences and not just take other peoples word.. so i pursued him because i knew deep down he liked mee and i think when he found out that i liked him he began to act like a prick!.. being rude too meee... and one day i text him saying can i come round and he said if you want and thats when his cuzzin wass der...
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I remember this situation, Startallz ... I remember everybody flipping out in here because this man was sexing up a minor (you) .... I'm sorry there was an arguement on your thread back in October and you had to close it. But, people get infuriated, sometimes, when they see a young lady being taken advantage of and what can they really do in a place like this except yell and scream about thier outrage.



You have a lot to offer a person Startallz, so don't sell yourself short to anybody .... and especially don't become a piece of arse to a man to whom has no respect for you. Hopefully, you have a clearer picture of this in your mind now for reference in the future.

I so glad your eyes opened about this man 🙂 ... however, Startallz, please let them open for all time, no matter your age or situation .. that to sleep with a man who isn't respecting you .. means he isn't loving you.

A man who loves his woman, will treat her right ... I promise you this.


This is such great news 🙂 ... that you and him are off. I know it hurts, but, it sounds like you are pretty much ok with the way it all turned out.
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"i like to learn from my experiences and not just take other peoples word.. so i pursued him because i knew deep down he liked mee and i think when he found out that i liked him he began to act like a prick!"



Startallz .... it's because you gave him the kitty.


He saw you, a young vulnerable lady who was untouched, and he targeted you for his own personal benefit .. sexually.

It sounds like you have a belief that this is all about feelings on his part, and because of these feelings that he became a prick when you told him how you felt about him .... and it's not about feelings, at all, unless it's the absence of them.

It's about conquest .. physical conquest of young lady.


Please understand this .. because I don't want you to fall into this trap again with any other person. If you give yourself to a man sexually BEFORE you are sure that he respects you, then you will likely find yourself in heartbreak.
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Darn, I could have sworn that you did ... because I remember an arguement that broke out about it on the thread you closed where people were telling you to call the police and have him arrested, AND they were upset with me because I was telling you about adult feelings as they are relative to sexuality, to a minor = you.


I remember that, Startzalls ... because CyberNikes and me had a huge blow out on that thread about it.
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"Darn, I could have sworn that you did ... because I remember an arguement that broke out about it on the thread you closed where people were telling you to call the police and have him arrested, AND they were upset with me because I was telling you about adult feelings as they are relative to sexuality, to a minor = you."

Yh i closed it because everything was getting blown out of proportion with people having arguments about how they should give me advice and all of that so i just closed it and i remember you telling me that basaicly all he wants is the kitty and also i said in my post thatt ive only kissed him thats it.