Please help me with this Virgo man

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by twinskwon on Sunday, April 5, 2015 and has 4 replies.

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@twinskwon
11 Years

Hi im Scorpio woman and Ive been friends for more than 10 years with a Virgo man. We become more close when he asked me help him because he likes to ask my bestfriend out. Soon after he was rejected. Then we keep in contact for 4 years. One thing that bothering me, he was in a relationship but he gets too flirty to me. We never text or chat me but he always call me in midnight before sleeping. Every single day. We never meet often, but when we meet he suddenly a bit touchy, like pinch my cheek or simply brush my hair or put his head on my head. I dont know if our friends recognised it. And he finally broke up with his girl. But he never say anything to me. Just keep like that. Midnight call, no texting and chatting. Suddenly I know for my friend he has a girlfriend but he never tells me. The funny is, he told our friend to keep it secret. And i put myself in distance. He has a girlfriend and I finally moved on. But he is freaking jealous with my boyfriend. I broke up and soon he is broke up too. We never get in touch for 3 years. I suddenly remember him. So i chat him. And suprisingly he is too different now. His replies are short, always on point and cold. But he always reply my chat even if its midnight or morning. (We are living on a different time zone). He sometimes ask me to visit him. After i replied, he never chat me back. A week later he asked me to visit him again. I casually answer but never get a reply. And a week later he asked me the same question again. This is so madly confusing. Can someone help me?

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@infiniteswirl
13 Years

Why don't you ask him once and for all. Ask him if he'd like to go out, if he ever did. You'll get your answer, and won't have to be doubtful or misled. Communicate!

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13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by twinskwon
Hi im Scorpio woman and Ive been friends for more than 10 years with a Virgo man. We become more close when he asked me help him because he likes to ask my bestfriend out. Soon after he was rejected. Then we keep in contact for 4 years. One thing that bothering me, he was in a relationship but he gets too flirty to me. We never text or chat me but he always call me in midnight before sleeping. Every single day. We never meet often, but when we meet he suddenly a bit touchy, like pinch my cheek or simply brush my hair or put his head on my head. I dont know if our friends recognised it. And he finally broke up with his girl. But he never say anything to me. Just keep like that. Midnight call, no texting and chatting. Suddenly I know for my friend he has a girlfriend but he never tells me. The funny is, he told our friend to keep it secret. And i put myself in distance. He has a girlfriend and I finally moved on. But he is freaking jealous with my boyfriend. I broke up and soon he is broke up too. We never get in touch for 3 years. I suddenly remember him. So i chat him. And suprisingly he is too different now. His replies are short, always on point and cold. But he always reply my chat even if its midnight or morning. (We are living on a different time zone). He sometimes ask me to visit him. After i replied, he never chat me back. A week later he asked me to visit him again. I casually answer but never get a reply. And a week later he asked me the same question again. This is so madly confusing. Can someone help me?

FACT: When a Virgo wants a woman to be his, he will tear through any "zone" to be at her side. Anything short of that...forget it. You are not the "one".

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@LetltB
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by magma

Posted by LetltB

Posted by twinskwon
Hi im Scorpio woman and Ive been friends for more than 10 years with a Virgo man. We become more close when he asked me help him because he likes to ask my bestfriend out. Soon after he was rejected. Then we keep in contact for 4 years. One thing that bothering me, he was in a relationship but he gets too flirty to me. We never text or chat me but he always call me in midnight before sleeping. Every single day. We never meet often, but when we meet he suddenly a bit touchy, like pinch my cheek or simply brush my hair or put his head on my head. I dont know if our friends recognised it. And he finally broke up with his girl. But he never say anything to me. Just keep like that. Midnight call, no texting and chatting. Suddenly I know for my friend he has a girlfriend but he never tells me. The funny is, he told our friend to keep it secret. And i put myself in distance. He has a girlfriend and I finally moved on. But he is freaking jealous with my boyfriend. I broke up and soon he is broke up too. We never get in touch for 3 years. I suddenly remember him. So i chat him. And suprisingly he is too different now. His replies are short, always on point and cold. But he always reply my chat even if its midnight or morning. (We are living on a different time zone). He sometimes ask me to visit him. After i replied, he never chat me back. A week later he asked me to visit him again. I casually answer but never get a reply. And a week later he asked me the same question again. This is so madly confusing. Can someone help me?

FACT: When a Virgo wants a woman to be his, he will tear through any "zone" to be at her side. Anything short of that...forget it. You are not the "one".

Agree, it's amazing that this isn't more obvious.

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Drama queens and Denial. Double DD's

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@LetltB
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by LetltB

Posted by twinskwon
Hi im Scorpio woman and Ive been friends for more than 10 years with a Virgo man. We become more close when he asked me help him because he likes to ask my bestfriend out. Soon after he was rejected. Then we keep in contact for 4 years. One thing that bothering me, he was in a relationship but he gets too flirty to me. We never text or chat me but he always call me in midnight before sleeping. Every single day. We never meet often, but when we meet he suddenly a bit touchy, like pinch my cheek or simply brush my hair or put his head on my head. I dont know if our friends recognised it. And he finally broke up with his girl. But he never say anything to me. Just keep like that. Midnight call, no texting and chatting. Suddenly I know for my friend he has a girlfriend but he never tells me. The funny is, he told our friend to keep it secret. And i put myself in distance. He has a girlfriend and I finally moved on. But he is freaking jealous with my boyfriend. I broke up and soon he is broke up too. We never get in touch for 3 years. I suddenly remember him. So i chat him. And suprisingly he is too different now. His replies are short, always on point and cold. But he always reply my chat even if its midnight or morning. (We are living on a different time zone). He sometimes ask me to visit him. After i replied, he never chat me back. A week later he asked me to visit him again. I casually answer but never get a reply. And a week later he asked me the same question again. This is so madly confusing. Can someone help me?

FACT: When a Virgo wants a woman to be his, he will tear through any "zone" to be at her side. Anything short of that...forget it. You are not the "one".

So basically they're users.

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Nah...usually considered users (or insert any other put down) by the women the virgo wants nothing to do with.