Re: Are all Virgo Guys Jealous & Possessive?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Alana on Friday, June 27, 2003 and has 4 replies.

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@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts

I have a question to ask you Virgos guys and girls and esp the guys. Maybe it's been covered before but I would like to know if you are insanely jealous? Mr. Virgo whom I'm with is the most jealous-est! ever guy I have been with, unbelievably so. Talk about the green-eyed monster (only he's brown-eyed!!):-) Is this a natural virgo state or maybe it's because his ascendant and descendant are both scorpio?? Being aquarius, certainly at the beginning, I found this infuriating - to say the least - he is even jealous of certain female friends of mine. He says if he didn't care, he wouldn't be jealous and he does know he has a major problem with it. We've had countless arguments over it, and it always ends with me basically saying he's insecure or doesn't think he's good enough himself and that's why he's so jealous. The strange thing is after being a year with him and not having a jealous feeling in my body originally - now I find I am beginning to feel jealous of him if he goes out with friends etc. without me (before I wouldn't have given a dam!!) (how has this happened to me I ask myself - I don't like these jealous feelings) - but I think his way of thinking is beginning to rub off on me. HELP!!
Alana

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@phoenix_rising
21 Years5,000+ Posts

The two virgo guys I've been with were both more inclined to be possessive, in a sort of non-verbal way, but not particularly jealous, although they definitely had a side to them that *could* be. I don't know what either of their rising signs were, though.

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@Espernaut
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Ok semi-seriously. Alana, you've made me think. I can't recall being jealous of specific people, my gf's would associate with.. I had no real mistrust issues. But I would be jealous of "the time away".. yes, I could see that. The correct amount of "me" time, "you" time, and "we" time.. could be debateable. As for your developing (hopefully) slight pangs of jealousy.. it's called Possession. You're possessed. Ain't it great??