So, I made Virgo guy cry...now what?

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tiltedmoonshadow
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He's a VirgoSun with CapMoon though so idk how to deal with this.....But he doesn't know that I know though so I COULD just shrug it off and pretend I was never informed of this. But I'm a Cancer so of course I am thinking to myself: wahhh I want to coddle him! ..... But instead I wrote him a letter with a nice tone to it, but it doesn't say I wanna keep trying this out. God no. ...... Am I on the right track here, Virgos? Cuz I work with him so I will have to see him again and again. .... Anything I should know from you Virgos?
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow
He's a VirgoSun with CapMoon though so idk how to deal with this.....But he doesn't know that I know though so I COULD just shrug it off and pretend I was never informed of this. But I'm a Cancer so of course I am thinking to myself: wahhh I want to coddle him! ..... But instead I wrote him a letter with a nice tone to it, but it doesn't say I wanna keep trying this out. God no. ...... Am I on the right track here, Virgos? Cuz I work with him so I will have to see him again and again. .... Anything I should know from you Virgos?




My goodness you sound so proud of yourself. Enjoy this while you can, because once the hurt is over, you'll be dead to him. Say hello to non-existence.😉
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He's a VirgoSun with CapMoon though so idk how to deal with this.....But he doesn't know that I know though so I COULD just shrug it off and pretend I was never informed of this. But I'm a Cancer so of course I am thinking to myself: wahhh I want to coddle him! ..... But instead I wrote him a letter with a nice tone to it, but it doesn't say I wanna keep trying this out. God no. ...... Am I on the right track here, Virgos? Cuz I work with him so I will have to see him again and again. .... Anything I should know from you Virgos?


Just don't do or say anything out of sympathy/pity. Or maybe do that and he will surely get over you in a second.
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Pretty much anything said by the dumper to the dumpee after things are over will come off as sympathy/pity. How am I supposed to avoid that when I do obviously feel bad— :-/ eek.
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He's a VirgoSun with CapMoon though so idk how to deal with this.....But he doesn't know that I know though so I COULD just shrug it off and pretend I was never informed of this. But I'm a Cancer so of course I am thinking to myself: wahhh I want to coddle him! ..... But instead I wrote him a letter with a nice tone to it, but it doesn't say I wanna keep trying this out. God no. ...... Am I on the right track here, Virgos? Cuz I work with him so I will have to see him again and again. .... Anything I should know from you Virgos?




My goodness you sound so proud of yourself. Enjoy this while you can, because once the hurt is over, you'll be dead to him. Say hello to non-existence.😉
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Ahh don't say that! 😢... My Moon is in Virgo, I know exactly how that goes. I would tell myself anything just to convince myself the person who hurt me is dead. Even when their walking around the same hallway as me. ...meh. .... This LibraSun with CancerMoon is doing that to me currently and it is SOOO annoying bc I actually don't care if he never speaks to me again. I was never attracted to the creep. But to just blatantly ignore someone who is directly speaking to you in front of others is just ridiculous. Libras annoy the shiiit out of me.
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Posted by LetltB
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Apple of my daddy's eye. 😉



Yah..and the apple doesn't fall far from the tree apparently. Virgo males, are nothing like the females. Just watch and see.😉
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Oh I know...in all seriousness, I really am terrified though. Legit.
He's got this Scorp Rising and that's gotta get in there somehow. This whole thing is going to blow up on my face.
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow

Oh I know...in all seriousness, I really am terrified though. Legit.
He's got this Scorp Rising and that's gotta get in there somehow. This whole thing is going to blow up on my face.



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But then my GemVenus will laugh it off twenty minutes later. ....So... back to ....meh.
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Scorp rising w/a cap moon eh? lol..perfect.
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Posted by Sagtastic1
You are letting your emtotions get the best of you. Let us know how this plays out.



:-\
All that talk about his scary placements, now I'm starting to second guess the letter I wrote to him. I think I will just observe and see how he fares with this whole thing. For all we know, he might've finished dealing with it already since Monday and just shoved the emotions down into the dark abyss where he keeps all his emotions buried. He might just walk in today like nothing happened and all about business. It wouldn't be very efficient or professional to let something like this get in the way of his job.
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You're hilarious. Very Funny Cancer, I've read your thread on cap moons and died. So you got a virgo with a Cap moon to cry.

I say have a celebratory drink,that's awesome.
bahhahahahahhah

I don't believe that shit for a second! He has a Scorpio asc, Virgo Sun, AND a Cap moon? hmf I'm a woman and I've cried in front of a man ONCE and I think I was drunk.
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I have a cap sun, cap moon and scorpio rising. I'll be damned if I'm going to cry in front of someone.

Just because we don't openly SHOW the emotion, doesn't mean we don't have it. I'm about sick of people saying cap placements don't have emotions. We are just very, very, very selective with whom we share them.
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I've cried in front of others...

did I like it?....no
was it all I could focus on afterwards?....yes
did I get embarrassed afterwards?...yessssss
do I care now?....no and either does the people I cried in front of...so it does happen.
Did this virgo the OP is talking about cry?...highly doubt it




But you don't have a capricorn moon.
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you dont have a virgo sun 😛
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Oddly enough CC...I probably looked like that...years and years of repressed emotions lol



LMAO, my Virgo X friend cries all the time, not in front of me, but she always tell me she got done crying...bahhahahaha

my Virgo X never cried over me, once he almost did, he was so sensitive, he was shaking like a leaf, i felt so bad for him, i wanted to hold him
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maybe you should have!
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I've cried in front of others...

did I like it?....no
was it all I could focus on afterwards?....yes
did I get embarrassed afterwards?...yessssss
do I care now?....no and either does the people I cried in front of...so it does happen.
Did this virgo the OP is talking about cry?...highly doubt it




But you don't have a capricorn moon.



you dont have a virgo sun 😛
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Touche'!
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
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And what did she do to make him cry??


I was wondering the same thing, her introduction seemed vague, with undertones of triumph and damage control.

Posted by truecap
She actually seems embarrassed to see him again. Feeling a little guilty over something?


I will have to go with the latter...😉
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I even read back through some of her old threads and couldn't really see where they had much of a relationship.
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Posted by tiziani
Just another person looking forward to the pain of someone they claim to "love", in hopes it gives some meaning to the "relationship".

Move on, because in his eyes (if he has any sense) you're now just like everyone else.



Look anyone regardless of their astrological sign, can be prone to self-preservation. I did what I did to protect myself and it was the only selfish thing I've ever done to him.. aside from that, he knows I've been nothing but good to him and he even said so himself when I told him bye that night.
Even if we went back to speaking terms again for the sake of cordiality in the workplace, I know things between us could never be the way it was before i did a sudden pullout in the form of a fallout. Sometimes the easiest way to say goodbye to someone you are forced to let go is by doing it in anger. I admit that was selfish of me and the only thing easy about it was when it was just an idea in my head. Needless to say, the minute I acted on that idea, everything else after wasn't so easy once it was all said and done. I am sticking to my guns on this one...it was a shitty outcome, but I did what I had to do. This is for the best.

Oh and tons of people are scared shitless of becoming vulnerable to someone. I couldn't handle it mmmkay? Sue me.
I just wanna go back to when I could only admire him from a distance... Keep him only in my mind where that version of him can't hurt me because I don't have to go through having to say goodbye for whatever reason.
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow
Posted by tiziani
Just another person looking forward to the pain of someone they claim to "love", in hopes it gives some meaning to the "relationship".

Move on, because in his eyes (if he has any sense) you're now just like everyone else.



Look anyone regardless of their astrological sign, can be prone to self-preservation. I did what I did to protect myself and it was the only selfish thing I've ever done to him.. aside from that, he knows I've been nothing but good to him and he even said so himself when I told him bye that night.
Even if we went back to speaking terms again for the sake of cordiality in the workplace, I know things between us could never be the way it was before i did a sudden pullout in the form of a fallout. Sometimes the easiest way to say goodbye to someone you are forced to let go is by doing it in anger. I admit that was selfish of me and the only thing easy about it was when it was just an idea in my head. Needless to say, the minute I acted on that idea, everything else after wasn't so easy once it was all said and done. I am sticking to my guns on this one...it was a shitty outcome, but I did what I had to do. This is for the best.

Oh and tons of people are scared shitless of becoming vulnerable to someone. I couldn't handle it mmmkay? Sue me.
I just wanna go back to when I could only admire him from a distance... Keep him only in my mind where that version of him can't hurt me because I don't have to go through having to say goodbye for whatever reason.
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What the hell did I just read. You must be a virgo woman with all this bullshit
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UPDATE:

Dude. I got friend zoned.


Interactions have been pretty much the same but without the physical hanky-panky, not even the makeout sesh, hell no more carpool either!
When we finally had to work together, I kept walking to the opposite of the room, delaying the awkward shit and making myself anxious as hell. Then he came came up next to me and said hi to me first at work and I just said hi too and acted normal. Hell, we both acted normal. It was such a relief! That night and the other work nights thereafter, we bantered around and helped each other out when it got busy. The eye contact is still there. The observations from afar. Whew!

After work I mentioned how it seemed like he was testing me the twice times he told me to text him but never replied. I said it was like I was being tested for an exam I never even signed up for and I already have a lot of final exams this week (college semester). Ever since I told him that, he has been replying to my messages even the random musings haha..


But yeah. Friend zoned.
::semi-sad shrug:: I guess? lol.

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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow
UPDATE:
Dude. I got friend zoned.



*Baffled. Scratches Head*

You were always friend-zoned.

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You sound like a drama queen ... the reality is likely that all people put you in a corner, rather than deal with your drama
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LOL!

In her reality...a relationship existed between her and this Virgo. He was caught cheating with a co-worker, then she kept him at bay, played games, welcomed him back , allowed him to cry in front of her, just to find out he broke up with her, asserting he just wanted to be friends.

Wow, this sounds like the same fantasy I had about LL Cool J when I was 12 yrs old. An imaginary relationship that unfolded into a dark twisted fate of love, chaos and drama.
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow
UPDATE:
Dude. I got friend zoned.



*Baffled. Scratches Head*

You were always friend-zoned.

Posted by P-Angel

You sound like a drama queen ... the reality is likely that all people put you in a corner, rather than deal with your drama


LOL!

In her reality...a relationship existed between her and this Virgo. He was caught cheating with a co-worker, then she kept him at bay, played games, welcomed him back , allowed him to cry in front of her, just to find out he broke up with her, asserting he just wanted to be friends.

Wow, this sounds like the same fantasy I had about LL Cool J when I was 12 yrs old. An imaginary relationship that unfolded into a dark twisted fate of love, chaos and drama.
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Where did you even come up with that fabricated story bc I sure as hell never narrated such detailed crap like that about me and this boy. That is some top notch investigative skills there, Sherlock.

On a separate note which I will just squeeze in here...I am texting with him right now and he just asked me what I meant by, "gotta focus on the silver-lining" ....of course I explained it to him, even using our situation as an example, but I am also chuckling because OOOOOF COOOURSE a fucking Virgo Sun with Cap Moon wouldn't know anything about that. MELANCHOLIC TWATS.
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Taurus in her defense a Virgo can make you feel like you are in a relationship, liars they are, as well as users, i wish the whole lot would just disappear from earth to be honest. they disgust me.



Yeah, for real. For Virgos there are like three different calibers: FWB, Friend, Special Friend. ....that's how indecisive and arbitrary you mindfucks like to be and it's supposed to seem like you have shit under control. PUH-LEASE!
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow
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Taurus in her defense a Virgo can make you feel like you are in a relationship, liars they are, as well as users, i wish the whole lot would just disappear from earth to be honest. they disgust me.
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Yeah, for real. For Virgos there are like three different calibers: FWB, Friend, Special Friend. ....that's how indecisive and arbitrary you mindfucks like to be and it's supposed to seem like you have shit under control. PUH-LEASE!
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Taurus in her defense a Virgo can make you feel like you are in a relationship, liars they are, as well as users, i wish the whole lot would just disappear from earth to be honest. they disgust me.



Yeah, for real. For Virgos there are like three different calibers: FWB, Friend, Special Friend. ....that's how indecisive and arbitrary you mindfucks like to be and it's supposed to seem like you have shit under control. PUH-LEASE!
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Not to interrupt Cancers bonding over their martyrdom...

The above is only true for people too obsessed with someone not to realize there's a whole lot more to human interractions than dating. What's wrong with friendship?
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Taurus in her defense a Virgo can make you feel like you are in a relationship, liars they are, as well as users, i wish the whole lot would just disappear from earth to be honest. they disgust me.



Yeah, for real. For Virgos there are like three different calibers: FWB, Friend, Special Friend. ....that's how indecisive and arbitrary you mindfucks like to be and it's supposed to seem like you have shit under control. PUH-LEASE!
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That's why you don't sleep with them until you know exactly where you stand. Waiting keeps you from getting confused and hurt. (I'm not saying you slept with him, but your emotional responses make it sound like you did).

Virgos are actually pretty steady and true, but you have to earn their respect. Any man will take what's given freely, but a virgo man is more likely to commit to someone who doesn't give it out freely.



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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow

Where did you even come up with that fabricated story bc I sure as hell never narrated such detailed crap like that about me and this boy. That is some top notch investigative skills there, Sherlock.




You're absolutely right. Silly innuendos and following your threads in regards to this Virgo left me in a state of delusion.

Shed some light on this topic.

Enlighten me.
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