Soul mate?

First I want to say I am a Scorpio born on November 6th and this is story of my love for a cat like girl born on September 18th. It all started when my previous ex was on the verge of a break up (Which she is a Virgo also born on September 19th) because she could not stand and support me for following something in my life that bring me happiness and could not reason me out of it. We kept fighting on and off for months about this issue and once she realize I was seriously questioning the relationship, which I never did before because we always work it out, she just accepted it quietly but I didn't want her to be that way. I know deep down she hated it and I didn't want to force her to like it, I wanted her just to support it. At the end I realize that this will not go away and I will continue this path it will just bring her pain. So after a month of real thinking I ended my three year relationship with her. It was one of the hardest thing for me to do but I realize that this was best for both of us.

During the end month before the verge of the break up there was a friend of mine but not so close started showing more attention and affection towards me. I knew this girl had a high school, long time, five years, and long distant boyfriend that was on and off and was cautious about it. I just enjoyed the attention the time we had together. The time together was magical and was unlike any other before and I would understand how she felt without her saying anything and knew she felt the same. We just instantly click to each other but again I was cautious to her because she has a boyfriend. During a chat with her I just saying something about her and her boyfriend and she told me that haven't been together for two weeks. When I heard of this I was happy. But during that time I was about to break up with my ex. When I finally did I felt like crap for awhile and when she heard of this I saw her with a big smile.

I can't lie that my feelings for this girl help me move on from my ex. During that time after we became closer and I realize she did similar things as to my ex. Then I question myself if I liked her because she was similar to my ex and later on I realize boy was I wrong, she is nothing like my ex at all. During that time our feelings became deeper she dropped a bomb on me. Saw a status that her and boyfriend are still going out. So I ask her directly about it and she told me they never broke up and it's was just my misunderstandin

After I found that out I wanted to tell her how I feel directly and for me to move on with my life, so ask her to meet me in private. She didn't meet up during that time (that time I didn't understand the ways of the Virgo) and went to the class normal time. Said she was sorry and left it at that. That weekend there was a event that both of us had to attend because we are both officers in a organization. During that day was magical and enjoyed every moment with her. Then I realize that this isn't right and so that night I text her how I felt and was going to cut off this relationship because my feeling for her is so strong. I wanted to do that because I didn't want to be involve with a person in a relationship and cause problems in it and to cut it off so I can move on, just like I did with my ex. She told me I don't have to cut it all off since we do see each other constantly and just to be friends. After that my I saw her status update about waking up and there was a smile on face because she was thinking of someone. I know it was directed to me because she usually tags her boyfriend if it's for him. I was at a crossroads as to either listen to my mind and just move on or listen to my heart and pursue it. I listen to my heart and decided that day I will continue to pursue her.

During the following months she kept testing me and to see if my feelings for her are real. Each time I came back proving that my feelings are true and I can sense deep down she knows it too. She would be cold and distant at one point but the opposite the other times. At one point she cut me off on Facebook and I said the same thing about her being happy with her boyfriend and was about to move on. She came back to me... Little by little she wouldn't even mention her boyfriend only a few times. Heck she spend Valentines with me and our friends which was one best memories I had and ignored her boyfriend calling her during that time. Which brings me to this point, she went to her province and recently she change her status and became single. I knew that this time was fragile. All I did was ask her if she was okay and text her that she needed anything that. Recently she just goodnight with

Forgot to mention I am a Sun Scorpio with a Moon Leo and she is a Sun Virgo with a Moon Gemini.

Maybe she is but usually I can spot that a mile away if a girl tries to do that. There is this connection I cannot explain between the two of us that I know she can feel it too.

Like right now after the next day she posted that she deleted that post from her status with her boyfriend tagged with it after my text to her that I am moving on. I know Virgos like to test people out, so is she still testing me?

In adavnce sorry for my english, I'm french ^_^

...I understand the connection you are talking about and I don't think she's using you.

Even if she has feelings for you she needs time because virgos are more prudent and rational than scorpios.

What's going on with the bf? is she still with him? It's hard to give up on a long relationship because it's safety and new one is scary. It can be stressfull and we need to be reassured and time. How be sure to make the right chose?

In matter of heart there's no rush if it has to last a life ...so patience.I'm pretty sure that she felt the connection too but she needs to feel "sure".

Thank you Jynja and chloe8 for you kind and supportive advises. Hahaha all people have demons and no one in this world is called perfect. :p

I don't know my full chart since I don't know the exact time I was born and she is a Sun Virgo, Moon Capricorn.

Anyways, I understand what you are saying and I let my mind did the thinking instead of my heart. I control all these emotions and this what came out. I realize all the little things she left as a messages behind that I would find out if I just looked. She isn't truthful with me about her true feelings, yet her actions speak differently. So I made this decision and I am still going after her but here is the difference. I am giving her my unconditional love. I don't expect my love to be return but I will give it to her regardless because that is how much I love her. I don't think I am a fool at the end. I know she cares for me because she really is a sweet person and doesn't use people at all. I wouldn't fall for a girl like that. 😉 And deep down I know she cares for me, if ever she really chooses her long boyfriend in the end then she will tell me and I will move on. Just like chloe8 said I will just patiently wait and prove that my love is real. If she is the one for me, then she is worth my time and patience.

Give us some news ^^