Strange Attraction

I've known this Virgo girl for a while now, I'll admit I know nothing about Virgos but (me being Aquarius) my brain just will not stop to analyse these situations when I find something so amazingly interesting.

My Virgos colleagues/acquaintances alike have all been a bit emotionally detached, nothing past the point of a casual conversation. This one however seem to click with me on all levels. Naturally when I'm interested I just want more so I asked her (well more like told her) to come see me after work to catch up.

There is no end with this girl, we can talk about anything! Religion, Politics, Art, Philosophy, sexual conquests and awkward moments. I'm usually quite reserved but as I said we just click and I value that in any friendship. Before that we were talking about her ex and how she had to leave him because she thought they just weren't compatible in the long run. Me being me I made fun of my own horrible past experiences and told her one should try all they can to hold on to something they really love and if it doesn't work just cherish the good times and move on.

She blurted out something that surprised me. "I really like you and I don't want this talk about my ex to discourage you from being friends!" I just found it to be a very awkward 'statement' so to speak like I was trying to get in her pants. I couldn't blame her for when I'm comfortable with someone I can be extremely flirty according to my friends. She left a photo of herself after stealing my phone and left a note on it to buy her expensive gifts every Wednesday. I had a little chuckle, I thought it was sweet of her.

I was super happy to hear she's trying to make it work with her ex and encouraged her. She started making rules in regards to our conversations, basically anything that show affection towards her (even remotely) wasn't allowed. She distanced herself a bit and all I could think was okay maybe this girl likes me or perhaps she thinks I like her and it's making it awkward for her. Naturally I backed off and have stayed particularly cautious.

She did end that relationship for good. We're definitely back to the friendly unadulterated chats which I'm grateful for. I do like her a lot I just can't pinpoint what kind of 'like' it is yet. She's been really keen to find out if I do like her in that sense and very pushy about it.

I'm attracted for sure but her behaviour has a direct impact on my decision. Any Virgos with input on what this girl is thinking?

"Strange" is the perfect word.

I think when Virgo and Aqua meet, there is a mutual question asked; "What planet are you from?", lol.
Both are intellectual signs and are intrigued by the other's mental faculties but generally there's nothing going on emotionally (well of course this is not the case with every Virgo/Aqua couple as it also comes down to individual birth charts) but since the mental connection is instant and fairly seamless, the two can establish something pretty nice right out the gate, even if it is to just have exchanges for hours on end.

As a Virgo woman, the Aqua man interests me in a very weird way. I like his unconventional attitude and progressive thinking, but his spontaneity (lol) and being so fixed in his ideas and ways, makes me a bit uncomfortable. On the flip, while I think the Aqua man will heartily and readily undertake the —challenge?? of penetrating the Virgal??s —walls??, there is a hesitance. The two are not sure about each other, and sometimes don't care or are not willing to do the work to dig deeper. This was my experience with an Aqua dude in the past. There was nothing there emotionally, and most importantly, I couldn't put a good read on him to figure out his true intentions for me, and that mi??dear is a big no no for a Virgo girl.

It is just as strange for her as it is for you especially if this is your first time dealing in this context with someone from each other??s sun sign. She wanted you to refrain from the flirting and unadulterated talk because she was still trying to work things out with the ex, possibly didn't see you as anything more than a friend, or hadn't figured out just where you would or could fit into the equation as of yet (the ex and all.) If she does like you and if it is just a sex thing for you, trust me she already knows and isn't having it, or as I mentioned above, hasn't been able to get a good read on you yet (perhaps that's why she's a bit pushy with wanting to know about your like for her), and will keep a bit of distance until she knows your true intentions. So yeah, she's thinking--—what the hell is this guy up to? Does he only want sex from me—
I think Aqua man can drive out the —detective?? in the Virgo woman better and faster than any other sign in the zodiac. The offbeat personality and that strange feeling (due to the way the Virgo-Aqua planets are aspected) are all contributing factors as to why the relationship can have a

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hard time getting off the ground.

Thanks MM, and ditto! You're a great addition to the board.

How's everything been with thinking about the Virgal?

Hope you had a wonderful Christmas Holiday and a Happy New Year. 🙂

Tell me about it. I know that feeling of not being able to stop thinking about someone. Depending on the space you're in, it can be torture. 😢

I knew that you'd eventually be ok and would get yourself back on track. You came in honest, open to learn, and to accept whatever the outcome (in time.) Not like many of these deluded souls who refuse to acknowledge the truth, and come back here over and over again with the same questions, and constantly reframing tired old scenarios. SAD.
That said, one can also wonder about your tenacity (I know that being tenacious is an inherent part of the crab??s nature) in your attempts at reaching out to her? Even after all this time with no reciprocation? What are you thinking/feeling? Do you believe somewhere in your being that the two of you will speak/see each other again?

I understand. It's almost like you don't??_you can't let go, lol. I seriously had to send a few prayers up above it was so strong on me. Never felt like that before. Crazy and disturbing to be gripped for so long like that.

What can I say? The Cancer/Virgo connection is deep. It's not superficial or lightweight in any sense of the word. The chemistry of earth/water is intoxicating. I know. I've been there. Sadly, that wonderful connection between these two elements aren't the only factors that determine whether or not two people under these signs can/will actually get together. *sigh

The balance that can be born of the Cancer/Virgo pairing is nothing short of amazing. Each one filling in the bits and pieces that the other doesn't have. Very rewarding to say the least. Initially it can be a lot of work but definitely worth it in the end.

Ride the wave as best you can...oooh I like it. I do wish however, that there were some things we could "un-experience", and that profound experience that I spoke of above is definitely one of them. 😄 I guess it just sucks when something more can't materialize, but the universe always gives you a lesson to learn, and sometimes that's all the experience was for.


"Separation anxiety">>>>>>nail on head.


Nice to know that your feet are firmly planted on the ground, and that you have made good sense of the entire experience overall. Sending her the NYE message was a nice gesture.