That Virgo stare.....:)

Wow....i really don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing when a virgo male has his eyes fixed on you for what feels like an eternity...but whenever i see him doing it, it just gives me chills down my spine (in a good way)!! lol

The only time it stops is when i break my gaze away....no to mention we can both be on the other side of the room and it still happens. How in the hell can they be so confident to do that when they seem so timid at times? It's completely unwavering and i sometimes wonder if he's even AWARE he's doing it!

The thing that scares me the most is that when we are around company and outside and he has his sunglasses on....it feels like he is still watching me.

yeah, lol...i had to get that off my chest 😛...anyone feel the same?

I'm terribly accustomed to women complaining about my stare. How it freaks them out.
We're simply taking the time to try and figure out your engines, mechanics and architecture.

Hahahaha
"Target Acquired" is what shows up in our brain

Is it a stare like mine.... now u are in target u can't excape loL

Once my classmate (a girl) asked me if I hated her. She was a bit drunk so dared to ask. I was astonished. She blamed my evil stare. Jeez. I actually think she's pretty cool.

lol yep that stare gets me everytime too. My Virgo blatantly will look over at me and just watch/stare. Even if we're watching a DVD I'll catch him doing it.

^^^^ it's kind of like that with my virgo...well he's not exactly "my virgo"..we are not together but i did create another post about my current situation with him. I just constantly catch him doing it lol. We were with friends one night chatting after work and while one of our friend was telling a story i caught him looking at me and he quickly shifted his eyes back to our friend....i have no idea what he was thinking of obviously but it was cute 😛

The funny thing is i can be right in his face and he still does it but he can't seem to look me dead in the eye when we are actually talking lol...he'll look at the floor, fiddle with something, act aloof, joke about something and then go DEAD SERIOUS....and the stare comes back lol

The stare is scary I've had the stare and I've given the stare, it can make folk develop a little stutter lol. It can be quite intense enough to make you stop in your tracks and turn around 8o

Hikoro, we like to be in tune with our women.

We will observe everything, trying our best to understand your feelings, thoughts, emotions and motivations.
It is through actions that we show our love.

OMG mine does that, he just follows me everywhere.....if we're in the lounge (at his place) and I go off to the bathroom (as you do), he'll just hang around in his kitchen which is in the centre of the house.....and he's not doing anything, just hanging, its just so adorable. He doesnt go straight away but if a few seconds after I close the door, I can hear him just walking through to the kitchen and waiting.....or maybe its so I dont steal anything?? LOL.

If we're at a restaurant and I excuse myself, I'll come back and I can see he's looking in the window or out the corner of his eye to see that Im coming back - like he's making sure everything is ok....he worries a lot but would never admit it.

I dont think the "stare" is a bad thing at all.

I don't really think the staring is a "bad" thing either....i just don't want it to stoplol

I have no idea what he finds interesting (if that is why he is staring)....but i just love it when i catch him and stare back. It's like we are in our own little world 😛

My hands are very soft and somewhat feminine shaped. I always groom them properly.
Some of my other Virgo pals have soft hands too... I do not feel less manly, I just find it strange.

Yes, we are great with our hands. I can work lots of magic when it comes to comfort, soothing and pleasure 🙂

My virgo has amazing hands too! lol and yes..people have told me he does give great massages.

He also has beautiful skin and crystal clear blue eyes 😛...in fact i commented on his eyes once and he said "noone has ever said that to me before"...then he said i have a nice smile 😛

He also loves the "challenge" of fixing things. Whenever he sees someone trying to fix something (and it could be anything) i can see him mentally working it out. He's also good at mutit-tasking lol

multi-tasking?? OMG my Virgo is utterly hopeless at that. When he gets "busy" at work? dont interrupt him, he just cant do 2 things at once - and he's the same in his personal time too. He'll get so caught up in things that he'll totally forget the whole world but then again that might just be a male thing?? hehe

But yeah soft hands, crystal clear blue eyes, great skin, always perfectly groomed....cant fault that 🙂

Oh and he's very forgetful. Must be all that thinking he does LOL

I've caught the virgo that I've set my sights on staring at me a couple of times. I instantly got embarassed and could feel how red I had turned. He just laughed to himself, which got me even more.

And yes, crystal clear blue eyes, dimples when he really smiles, an outward laugh when he really laughs, and he is well-groomed, strong body, and he is tall too..... I haven't seen his hands, but I will pay attention next time.

I'm kind of digging this thread. Most of the posts in this forum are...
"I DONT GET MY VIRGO. HE'S HERE HE'S GONE. SHOULD I LEAVE HIM?"



Keep it going, ladies! lol

yeah keep it up ladies and i do have some squares in my chart and i have alot of virgo in my chart and i do not act like a normal virgo. im not alway well groom and i hate cleaning. but hate dirty houses go figure lol. and i do have nice hands and i am a messege therapiest to lol .

LOL....awesome!!!

My Virgo? thats the thing, he doesnt spent copious amounts of hours grooming but he always looks good.

He is very laid back though, yes, but he's normally always on time, he'll do what he says he'll do and he says what he means and feels.

But back to the stare? he did it again last night - time and time again, he must enjoy watching what I do, the expression on my face, etc, as if he's trying to work out a puzzle and it doesnt bother him that I see him staring....he doesnt get embarassed, he'll just stare more LOL

Hikoro, i have that youthful innocent attractiveness you are talking about. I get thrown into the 'friend zone' with almost every girl ive ever spoken to more than a few times. I dont mind cuz im picky with my ladies and none of my interests have yet to put me in the friend zone. I do have the blend of both worlds physically and on the inside. Most girls see that as an uncommon and attractive quality, i think. Im still young so i still have to see what happens in the future with my love life because of this. It can either be a nice quality or something that will doom me with the ladies 🙂

I also have hands of gold and a chin dimple that girls seem to love 😉

Yeah i have been lmt for year now by best friend got me into it. he started out b4 me he is a pisces. i really did it bc everyone always said i gave good massage even when i was little massaging my unt. she always say no one could compare to me when i was little even pros. so after my friend said he was doing it and it is easy money i said yes. he had a year start and im better than him. he gets mad bc everyone wants a massage from me i just be my humble self. he had neck problem the other day and i got it out. and he was like ur the man lol.

And by the way b4 i got really into astrology it says virgos are known to be good massage therapist go figure lol and virgo07 i know what u mean i go into the friend zone alot to. most with girls im crazy about bc i don't want to make a misstake but u have to jump in real fast and let her know u came to play lol. women love keeping us in friend zone urggggg.

lol @ this thread .....


... now why don't you Virgs tell the ladies the real reason.

p angel tryin to be all subtle. DA BOOTY. well atleast most of the time. sometimes i find people to be genuinely interesting. when something interests me, my eyes dont come off of it.

"Thanks for explaining.

You see, I do the same (except for the following part) and for the same reasons. However, many times I find myself doing it because I like to watch him and by the way, he has gorgeous hands.

I wonder if that is a virgo thing --> to have gorgeous hands and in addition to this, being excellent in doing manual things.
The virgos I know are great with manual activities, whether it is playing and instrument, cosmetology, etc. They tell me they like the intricacies and details of this type of activities.

My virguy gives the most amazing massages for example, actually, the best massages ever.
It is absolute paradise."

This is so funny, my favorite part of a man is his hands. Strong hands...yum 🙂

I knew this Taurus with amazing hands... jeez

Yeah I've been told I give great massages.

Virgoking and Virgo07, I too have been subject to this friend zoning crap.
Always ending up as "the friend they would never want to loose".

Yet, at the same time I am the perfect man for them. Virgo men really tend to have almost all the qualities a woman could want in a man, no other male comes close.

Posted by Cajunspirit
Virgoking and Virgo07, I too have been subject to this friend zoning crap.
Always ending up as "the friend they would never want to loose".

Yet, at the same time I am the perfect man for them. Virgo men really tend to have almost all the qualities a woman could want in a man, no other male comes close.

I would agree w/ you cajun. I've never really been exposed to a virgo man before, but my boss is a virgo, and he has been a huge mentor to me. Very understanding and willing to look past certain things, and genuienlly wants his employees to succeed. One of my really good friends is a male virgo, and he completely respects and accepts my strong independence. He's the first male, really, to not try and compete with me, try to demolish, degrade, dominate, or feel threatened by it. It's such a relief at times for me, and I don't feel like I have to be guarded all the time.

I have feelings for him, but I also know I fuck things up. I will only keep him as a friend, because that is how much I respect him, and I don't want anything to ruin that. But as far as a partner goes, yes, he exhibits almost all the things that I look for. I don't doubt that it would be all things, but the risk of losing him as a friend is not worth risk, and I am an Aries. Typically, I take on risks as a challenge, but not this one.

It's all in their eyes 🙂

Posted by 25thDecan
Friend zone.....HATE IT. So now, I put myself there with women who should remain acquaintances. Women who aren't I talk to only when I want to go out with them. Personally, I'm much more important than they are right now. So, oh well......

yup, thats the best way to cope with it and its not a bad way

thats crazy because i get that question all the time. their like what are you looking at and im like im just looking

How strange. My mental image of a Virgo mans eyes is... doe-eyed 🙂 lol

I remember the first time I felt something for my Virgo was when I
looked into his eyes which had been fixed on me the whole time I yapped about
my dog.. they looked so big and transparent and gentle.. lol

Although I do know what the whole "dark virgo stare" is about..
it's a fixed, focused look taking in the way you move, the way you gesture,
the way you work.. just as Cajunspirit explained.

My scorpio friend pinpointed my Virgo when she had not yet met him. It was
the first time he had gone into my workplace to take me flowers. I was carrying
them to the back when my friend walked in. She later said that what she had
noticed in the brief moment she walked right by him were his eyes and the fixed
way he stared at me as I walked across the room.

The exact same thing happened with a different Virgo who was infatuated with me.
I was helping him when my ex walked in looking for me. He (the ex)later told me that
he could tell that Virgo liked me by the way he never dropped me from his sight.
I didn't mention the fact that Virgo had already made his interest towards me
known.

How strange. My mental image of a Virgo mans eyes is... doe-eyed 🙂 lol

I remember the first time I felt something for my Virgo was when I
looked into his eyes which had been fixed on me the whole time I yapped about
my dog.. they looked so big and transparent and gentle.. lol

Although I do know what the whole "dark virgo stare" is about..
it's a fixed, focused look taking in the way you move, the way you gesture,
the way you work.. just as Cajunspirit explained.

My scorpio friend pinpointed my Virgo when she had not yet met him. It was
the first time he had gone into my workplace to take me flowers. I was carrying
them to the back when my friend walked in. She later said that what she had
noticed in the brief moment she walked right by him were his eyes and the fixed
way he stared at me as I walked across the room.

The exact same thing happened with a different Virgo who was infatuated with me.
I was helping him when my ex walked in looking for me. He (the ex)later told me that
he could tell that Virgo liked me by the way he never dropped me from his sight.
I didn't mention the fact that Virgo had already made his interest towards me
known.