virgo men and their mind games

asking a question for everyone......

do all virgos act hot and cold in the beginning of their first relationship

i mean.. first they are ohh soo cold and dont express any emotions..but once u let them go, they come back super hot and passionate. they call everyday, invite u over their house, hang out with their friends and just tell u that they miss u. but then...all of a sudden they play cold again. n say they " need to be alone" and not call for days...

are all virgo men like that.. is this how they act.
will they come back
or should i just let go.

i need advice..and need to know if am doing the right thing by being patient.

I think that being patient with a Virgo is the best way to go. One thing to remember is that if you set love free and it comes back, then it was meant to be. If not then you should move on. I think he is probably analyzing his feelings for you before he takes the next step. I would say live your life and see what happens. It is very normal for Virgo men to do the push and pull thing with girls they like. I do not if it ever stops but I am assuming that it has to at some point.

It's likely just sexual ... in your situation and all in which they don't have that Virgo man they wish to have.

After being gone for a while, and if they don't have another lover, and get tired of whacking off .. they will pursue hot and heavy .... then once they get what they want physically, they back off again until they get too horny again, and come back ..... circles.

All men do this .. it's just you can't detect it because other men keep you emotionally wrap around their fingers while playing you. Seriously, most women have no clue they are with a player until after they've been burnt several - a hundred times. A Virgo just doesn't have an interest in playing the emotional game to keep the woman passified .... he'll just dip and come back when horny to see if he can get her panties off again.

When you actually have the Virgo .... he doesn't leave .. no circles.

"When you actually have the Virgo .... he doesn't leave .. no circles."

Correction:

When you actually have the man .. he doesn't leave .. no circles.

I find it quite curious, though not surprised ... that people, for the most part, are clueless to reality .. mostly females, due to emotions making them so ignorant to what is right in front of their face.

If you (woman) ... played hot/cold with a man .. then it's because you aren't really interested in him, but, like attention (in some fashion) .. and so "keep" him at arms length.

Yet, if someone does this to you, to whom you like ... you become incredibly stupid and actually think the guy is into you and you are so confused, why is he doing this to you ... eventhough the signs are all over the wall, and you'd be able to see them if your feelings weren't involved.

Hence: people, for the most part, are clueless to reality .. mostly females, due to emotions making them ignorant to what is right in front of thier face.

To carry this further .....

Women would think that the Virgo man is the one playing mind games, when in reality ... they get what you willing give them and leave. They may come back to get more .. but, in the meantime, they pretty much ignore you, which means ... no games of mind, because thier minds aren't even there to play with you.

Yet, the man who is a player, and will wrap an illusion around your mind .... you think is love.

People are amazing ..... they are so blind.

Yes, what you describe there is a Virgo man thing. Yes you are doing the right thing by having patience.
Yes, we are cold and come back really hot and passionate acting as though nothing bad ever happened.

Virgo's do tend to stick through, even when sometimes the cause might be lost. However, they do know when to give up, but most of the time, they can be fighters.

I had a long winded message wrote out... but i dont think it was straight to the point.

Ill start be saying, i agree with P-Angel on most the stuff typed out. Also agree with TheSkys, and the comfortable/uncomfortable.

I gave the "hot and cold" its almost like a test, to see how the person reacts... hard to explain why. Mind games? i dunno, ive done that i guess, but like only to gain indirect info. i dont even know anymore, ive been single so long.

example, i setup my friend(she liked, and was older) to type to my girlfriend on the computer while i was "sleeping" and to see if shed cheat. And what happened? she cheated... so there(i logged there conversation and printed out and gave it to her for our anniversary). Im sure each virgo... heck just guys do stuff like that.

little offtrack maybe? not sure... to tired for this now. ill check back later

im not sure, but... to me she had it coming. I do not like to "sense" something amiss in my relationships. She gave me enough signs, so i gave her one.

was kind of mean i know, but i was sick of it.

What is this??_ a FREAK SHOW..?

There are lot of Virgos out there that is not fit into this picture you've just painted, things like Virgos are not stupid..! Well, there are lot of stupid Virgos out there. There are lot of naive Virgos and there are lot of confused Virgos too!

What do you exactly want to say..?

Sorry??_ but Virgos are not super human!

I am really get tired of this shit, non Virgos knowing Virgos better than the Virgos knowing themselves..!

What do you really know about Virgos..?

Couple of relationships and some stupid descriptions of Virgos on the net?

Is that a reality for you..??

Lol.. good luck with those crap!

Back to the topic...

asking a question for everyone......do all virgos act hot and cold in the beginning of their first relationship

Depends on what you are and who you are!

I as a Virgo don't show any interest to anyone or anything and minding my own business unless someone approaching me with her interest. A quick evaluations of classes and if it fits then why not.

Then the story will start like any other astrocrap signs.! Very human and very humble!

Simple as that, don't listen to this mumbo-jumbo crap please!

Good.. then you will stated that you are speaking of yourself and that's it, no other people and god forbid ..no VIRGOS??_!

I hate (retards) speaking of Virgos pros and cons..!

Just for the reminders??_

Shaka: I dont pull that shit.

Me either. I may act goofy as hell, and volatile at times, but the woman knows how I truly feel.

Only boys are afraid of commitment, get yourself a real Virgo man

In defense of some VGs I know: Give him mixed signals, and you're going to get a mixed bag - we are very reflective of what we receive. Shit! Even when you're being 100% straight up, we can still hem-haw around, because it takes a while for it to sink in: This Woman could be The One.

So many women post on the Virgo Board with the same old song & dance about Virgos confusing them. I've written before: If you don't know yourself, and know what you want in a man, stay away from Virgo Men. We got enough shit going on most of the time, and we don't need your crazy shit on top of the pile...

you forget what you've said before.

What I've said before..? Care to elaborate? like I said stop this crap and bulshitting around Virgos.

We Virgos are pretty much HUMAN, like any other signs we have our weaknesses (tons of it) and the best part is to try to live with IT.

Capiche..? so please do shut the hell up when it is comes to Virgo stuff.

Or I will ask the DXP GOD to make forums like:

Virgo: according to P-angel

Or

Virgo: according to Virgogotme

Its all bullshit and you know it. (I hope so).

You and your (team) do not contribute any form of intelligence in this forum! But freak enough to talk about people that you have no IDEA about.

Stop ass kissing Virgos..!

Posted by Qbone
You and your (team) do not contribute any form of intelligence in this forum! But freak enough to talk about people that you have no IDEA about.

Stop ass kissing Virgos..!

lol, Q never changes ..... gone for who knows how long and only pops in to get his aggressions out on people he has no idea about because he isn't around long enough to know anything.

Pow, bang, slap ...... take that Batman.

*rolls eyes*

Even when you're being 100% straight up, we can still hem-haw around, because it takes a while for it to sink in: This Woman could be The One....

And another good while until you say, This Woman is The One?

You know what? My NN is Cancer, the opposite is Cap. My fate says I will always dig for the feeling of a martyr by myself.
If I am involved with a Virgo (as I was with a Scorpio) then just for the feeling of being insufficient.
Look, these women on the Virgo board, they meet the guy in an episode of their life when they were sensitive, hurt or needy.
When Virgo sees them, the confusion is what both souls can work towards.
Colateral abuse!

loll, Q never changes..... Gone for who knows how long and only pops in to get his aggressions out

Why do you think this is about my aggression? This is the second time you are mentioning this.

I am not angry (never been and the one who can make me angry is not being born yet), I was making the point that I don't like someone telling something that is not true..!

And then if I don't post or interacting with anyone doesn't mean I am not AROUND!

No joke, this thread made me spew my Diet Coke.

Interesting comments by P about V men and mind games etc. Found this little gem from her years ago which puts a different light on what she posted here about V men and their minds games err, push pull etc.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/virgo-men-and-distance-space-disappearing-1132309/

Virgo men and distance/space/disappearing

Hi, v-lady ... welcome back. Obviously the Pisces man is history.

This is normal for Virgo men, and yes, we discuss it often. And being a woman, it's not easy to sit back with overwhelming emotional intensity for somebody ... but, this is their way.

Maybe this will ease you a tad .. the V man only pulls away and goes MIA when he is into a woman ... if he kept constant casual contact at this stage, then he's not into you.

Though, you want verbal validation .. if you let yourself realization that by not giving you the "verbal", and looking at the absence and what it really means for him to do this .. then you'll see that by his actions of withdrawing completely without contact actually means he likes you very much.

When dealing with Virgo men (opposite of the females who are verbal at these times) .. you have to register his actions as indicators.

Posted by kalin

Posted by gemini64
Interesting comments by P about V men and mind games etc. Found this little gem from her years ago which puts a different light on what she posted here about V men and their minds games err, push pull etc.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/virgo-men-and-distance-space-disappearing-1132309/

Virgo men and distance/space/disappearing

Hi, v-lady ... welcome back. Obviously the Pisces man is history.

This is normal for Virgo men, and yes, we discuss it often. And being a woman, it's not easy to sit back with overwhelming emotional intensity for somebody ... but, this is their way.

Maybe this will ease you a tad .. the V man only pulls away and goes MIA when he is into a woman ... if he kept constant casual contact at this stage, then he's not into you.

Though, you want verbal validation .. if you let yourself realization that by not giving you the "verbal", and looking at the absence and what it really means for him to do this .. then you'll see that by his actions of withdrawing completely without contact actually means he likes you very much.

When dealing with Virgo men (opposite of the females who are verbal at these times) .. you have to register his actions as indicators.

Not making sense to me.🤔

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It what way? You mean how her post differs in philosophy from her post in this thread?

Posted by dontgetmewrong

Posted by kalin

Posted by gemini64
Interesting comments by P about V men and mind games etc. Found this little gem from her years ago which puts a different light on what she posted here about V men and their minds games err, push pull etc.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/virgo-men-and-distance-space-disappearing-1132309/

Virgo men and distance/space/disappearing

Hi, v-lady ... welcome back. Obviously the Pisces man is history.

This is normal for Virgo men, and yes, we discuss it often. And being a woman, it's not easy to sit back with overwhelming emotional intensity for somebody ... but, this is their way.

Maybe this will ease you a tad .. the V man only pulls away and goes MIA when he is into a woman ... if he kept constant casual contact at this stage, then he's not into you.

Though, you want verbal validation .. if you let yourself realization that by not giving you the "verbal", and looking at the absence and what it really means for him to do this .. then you'll see that by his actions of withdrawing completely without contact actually means he likes you very much.

When dealing with Virgo men (opposite of the females who are verbal at these times) .. you have to register his actions as indicators.

Not making sense to me.🤔

This is what P Angel said about virgo men years ago... doesn't seem like something she would say... virgo men liking you when they disappear...?....

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that was my point. what she said a few years ago isn't what she's saying now about VM and how they act when they do the mind games/distancing/push pull etc....

one undermines the other. you can't have it both ways.

So why CC thinks P is such an expert on VM is beyond me. Just because she's married to a VM doesn't make her an expert on VM. It makes her an expert on her husband. I'm married to a Scorpio. Yet, I read so much on DXP about Scorpio men that don't represent my husband in anyway, shape or form.