Told him I like him

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eah
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I told the virgo guy that i like, that i like him and asked if he fancied going on a date. He responded to my message saying that he thinks im awesome, that he is extremely busy with work but he will definitely come to my birthday dinner. Since then, he seems to have pulled away, I responded to his message but he never replied. A few days later I needed help and I asked him for advice but I got nothing from him. I know he isnt the best at replying to people on facebook, but usually he replies to me. Have I blown my chance by telling him I like him?
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Dont do anything,yet!let him contact you,if he is interested.When he comes to you,keep it friendly manner,for the starters.
Maybe he felt like he didnt do any chase,right?!Maybe he got scared?they do that,because they are not very emotional creatures(i know,iam a virgo,too-).When we see to much emotion ,we run,we come back,we run again.pfew,exhausting..
We do a lot of coming,going,coming back again-(,until we are sure the other person is what we want.Ussualy virgo men are attracted to women who can were(?) the pants and have star quality(he likes to be in service and for sure he is not alpha men).
What sign are you?
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Posted by eah

I told the virgo guy that i like, that i like him and asked if he fancied going on a date.

He responded to my message saying that he thinks im awesome, that he is extremely busy with work but he will definitely come to my birthday dinner.





message?

you weren't talking to him about how you feel, you were messaging him?

Posted by eah

Since then, he seems to have pulled away, I responded to his message but he never replied.

A few days later I needed help and I asked him for advice but I got nothing from him. I know he isnt the best at replying to people on facebook, but usually he replies to me.





facebook?

he's a facebook friend?

Posted by eah

Have I blown my chance by telling him I like him?

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probably, that is if you plan on having a virtual relation.

Notice here how when you tell him your feelings on FACEBOOK, he blows you off and tells you to wait until he actually sees you.

I'm curious - do you two even see each other in RL, or is this just a facebook crush?
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I do know him in real life, I work with him, but neither of us have had a shift in quite a while. When Im on a shift with him, we get on extremely well (Ive never got on so well with a guy before) and we always have flirty banter. Ive known him since September, when I moved to the area and we kind of hit it off straight away and I kind of liked him but just thought Id make friends with him and see what happens, then it was just after Christmas that I realised that I actually do like him quite a lot.
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They are all correct. Do nothing. Let him observe you. Taurus/Virgo is a really good match. You have to let him do the chasing - old fashioned that way. You've already voiced your feelings so sit back and relax. If he's interest you'll know. It's a slow steady build up. If he's interested he WILL chase you and find ways to be around you. Again, slow build up.

Bday dinner....get dolled up! Sexy-conservative and not slutty. You wanna shine. If he shows give him a compliment or two but then that's it...move on & converse with other guests. Let him come to you. When it's over don't text, FB, or anything. Let him lead.

Good luck. We want details of that bday dinner!
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Posted by eah

.... we get on extremely well (Ive never got on so well with a guy before) ....







never? ... you've never gotten on well with a guy before? So, you've never had a boyfriend before?

Guys don't relate everything to emotions like girls do, but, girls think they do and then expect dudes to react emotionally, like a girl, to every situation in life ...... and that is the hurdle you will have to cross.


You want to know if he likes you, and he's a guy ...... his thoughts revolve around football, his itchy nuts, what's in the fridge, and a good shit.

He's not thinking about you. He will think about you when he sees you again.

Get that down pat .... and you'll have a chance at a success with a guy.