I send the picture of frozen pond to my crush (virgo guy) because he's a hockey player. Then I texted him "Wanna play hockey on the pond?" He texted me back "Wow that's awesome. I wish we could!" I texted "Haha I know! But you need to teach me how to skate first so I can beat you. lol" He texted "Haha I wish ice time was free at the rink and I would" I texted "Deal! Is it for free right? It would be very expensive lesson for a hockey player to teach me ice skating for sure! HAHA" Him "Haha well there are other times when people have the ice" Me "For ice skating? I think that we need to pay for ice time. It's $ 40"
And he didn't text me back for 5 hours now. What did he mean? I don't quite understand. Did he blow me off?
Additional Details I texted him "Haha I just noticed that you said you wish the ice time was free. My bad. I shouldn't text anybody while playing game for sure Sorryyy"
Is it bad? I regretted that I should not text him at all
I know I sounded stupid! My friend said I should NOT text him the last text at all.
It was a simple mistake but you are making it be a bigger deal then it is. just breath , calm down and relax. You mentioned collage in your other thread, so I am thinking early 20s for him.. but you?
Friends can give good and bad advise, same with random people on the internet.
I don't understand how people think 5 hours is an ungodly time frame to not hear from someone. What if he was at work, with his family. at work, in class. I think a day or 2 with no contact from someone that is just a friend is normal. he isn't your boyfriend, you actually have not even really interacted with him much from your own post. Even my SO in my pasts at time I wouldn't for periods of time, its normal especially if you have work/school/studies.
Again, take a deep breath and calm down. It's going to be ok.
I don't mind at all that he didn't text me back 5 hours. LOL He didn't text me back so many times. I just reread the texts again hour ago, and noticed my misunderstanding. And it freaked me out. I know he doesn't like me. But I don't want him to misunderstand me. Therefore, I texted him again, explained what I understood before.
That last part was supposed to be: With my SO in the past, I wouldn't hear from him for periods of time, in the morning and later at night, it's normal when you work 8+ hours, have school, studies etc.
@ 11th. Hush that wasn't helpful. English isn't always someone first language so may not have the best grammar.
If this is how you act after not receiving a text how are you going to act after a date or dare I say after sex.
Chill out. You are not dying inside. You are not dumb. You are a bit neurotic. What's your sign?
Think about his behavior up to this point. Why do you want to subject yourself to more threads devoted to him not giving you what you apparently need? You are on a college campus with hundreds maybe thousands of guys. Dress cute, do your hair, wear some perfume, smile and wait until one finds you. You have created a situation where the roles are reversed. You are the aggressor. He is a star on the hockey team. He has plenty of women after him. So now you have 2 strikes against you. If you add your freakoutness at the smallest thing that makes 3.
Right now there is a liitle voice talking to you from the inside. It is the voice of reason telling you to move on. Listen to it.