I'm DYING inside. Help me please! I made mistake.

I send the picture of frozen pond to my crush (virgo guy) because he's a hockey player.
Then I texted him "Wanna play hockey on the pond?"
He texted me back "Wow that's awesome. I wish we could!"
I texted "Haha I know! But you need to teach me how to skate first so I can beat you. lol"
He texted "Haha I wish ice time was free at the rink and I would"
I texted "Deal! Is it for free right? It would be very expensive lesson for a hockey player to teach me ice skating for sure! HAHA"
Him "Haha well there are other times when people have the ice"
Me "For ice skating? I think that we need to pay for ice time. It's $ 40"

And he didn't text me back for 5 hours now.
What did he mean? I don't quite understand.
Did he blow me off?

Additional Details
I texted him "Haha I just noticed that you said you wish the ice time was free. My bad. I shouldn't text anybody while playing game for sure Sorryyy"

Is it bad? I regretted that I should not text him at all 😢

😭 I know I sounded stupid! My friend said I should NOT text him the last text at all.

NOW I'M SO SAD!

Probably should let him research the prices and make the plans. Otherwise it's like you're taking him out. And no guy wants to be the beta on a date.

I'm sad that I might seem clingy to him now, and he's gonna hate me.
I looked so dump!

LOL you blew it!!??_.lol I guess grammar really does matter lol thanks for being the example. 🙂

Yep, thanks for making me feel worst 😢

As I said before, this guy is only friendly. He doesn't seem interested at all.

I know, but now I feel like he hates me now! I'm so dumb....

My friend told me I should not text him and explained I didn't notice his text.
But I already DID!

You didn't "blow" anything. It sounds as if he wants to be friends from the beginning of the convo. Not picking up many signs of sexual interest.

Don't text him until he texts you first.

So what about the text that I explained to him? Is it okay?
My friend told me I should let him know that I misunderstood him.

Again I am curious as to your age.

It was a simple mistake but you are making it be a bigger deal then it is. just breath , calm down and relax. You mentioned collage in your other thread, so I am thinking early 20s for him.. but you?

Friends can give good and bad advise, same with random people on the internet.

I don't understand how people think 5 hours is an ungodly time frame to not hear from someone. What if he was at work, with his family. at work, in class. I think a day or 2 with no contact from someone that is just a friend is normal. he isn't your boyfriend, you actually have not even really interacted with him much from your own post. Even my SO in my pasts at time I wouldn't for periods of time, its normal especially if you have work/school/studies.

Again, take a deep breath and calm down. It's going to be ok.

4 aqua's in here trying to help.. got to love our sign 🙂

I don't mind at all that he didn't text me back 5 hours. LOL He didn't text me back so many times.
I just reread the texts again hour ago, and noticed my misunderstanding. And it freaked me out.
I know he doesn't like me. But I don't want him to misunderstand me.
Therefore, I texted him again, explained what I understood before.

😢

wow I was typing faster than my brain.

That last part was supposed to be: With my SO in the past, I wouldn't hear from him for periods of time, in the morning and later at night, it's normal when you work 8+ hours, have school, studies etc.

@ 11th. Hush that wasn't helpful. English isn't always someone first language so may not have the best grammar.

If this is how you act after not receiving a text how are you going to act after a date or dare I say after sex.

Chill out. You are not dying inside. You are not dumb. You are a bit neurotic. What's your sign?

Think about his behavior up to this point. Why do you want to subject yourself to more threads devoted to him not giving you what you apparently need? You are on a college campus with hundreds maybe thousands of guys. Dress cute, do your hair, wear some perfume, smile and wait until one finds you. You have created a situation where the roles are reversed. You are the aggressor. He is a star on the hockey team. He has plenty of women after him. So now you have 2 strikes against you. If you add your freakoutness at the smallest thing that makes 3.

Right now there is a liitle voice talking to you from the inside. It is the voice of reason telling you to move on. Listen to it.

I'm libra. And I know I always think too much!
I know I am worried for something that is nothing at all.
And I'm upset that I ruined my chance.

Google natal chart and figure yours out then post it here. Im curious if its a Virgo or Scorpio placement making you act like this. It is most certainly not the Libra in you.

I born in October 12 1990. I don't understand about the sign or anything though.

This is my chart and I don't understand at all

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=amy&sex=f&d1day=12&d1month=10&d1year=1990&d1hour=15&d1min=6&adjust=-7&citylist=Bangkok% 2C+Thailand&lang=en

Where were you born?

Moon Leo 😄

But yes, classic Libra...the amount of Libra Women who come on this board desperate as fuck is staggering (no offense to the decent ones)

Bangkok Thailand

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Damnata
But yes, classic Libra...the amount of Libra Women who come on this board desperate as fuck is staggering (no offense to the decent ones)

What's a romanian swear word?

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ohh I want to learn some too. Be our teacher? 🙂

We have the most swear words in the world...everything can be made into a swear word...we're creative like that.

"Stick your hand in my ass and jerk off with my shit" (Sa-mi bagi mana-n cur si sa-mi faci laba la cacat)

Who Said That? Romanians.

Dear God Why?

Romanian cursing is a bawdy, imaginative mix of the perverse and the profane. Modern linguists have determined that its roots originated from a time-traveling John Waters upon realizing there was still an entire history of people not grossed out by Pink Flamingos yet.

Other helpful Romanian phrases:

"Shampoo my dick-hair with your saliva" (Shampona-mi-ai flocii cu saliva)

"Brush your teeth, my dick will be inspecting soon!" (Spala-te pe dinti ca vin cu pula in inspectie)

Mothers are another favorite target in this region. However, rather than indulge the classic "Yo Mamma" insult architecture, they prefer to taint her sanctity in a round-about way. For example, "Usca-mi-as sosetele pe crucea ma`tii" (I dry my socks on your mother's cross) is blasphemous, but really only as a vehicle to get at the mom. You really have to applaud the balls it takes to assault God just to slam someone's mother.

Another example of this is "Futu-tzi coliva ma~tii" (Fuck your mother's funeral meal). We're not sure if this meant to simply show disdain for the deceased or demonstrate intent to fornicate with the sarmalute cu mamaliga plate, but neither is particularly polite.

There's a saying in Romania - You're not a good driver if you can't swear for 15 minutes without repeating yourself.

And you're not from Bucharest if you can't extend that to 30 minutes.

Posted by Damnata
We have the most swear words in the world...everything can be made into a swear word...we're creative like that.

"Stick your hand in my ass and jerk off with my shit" (Sa-mi bagi mana-n cur si sa-mi faci laba la cacat)

Who Said That? Romanians.

Dear God Why?

Romanian cursing is a bawdy, imaginative mix of the perverse and the profane. Modern linguists have determined that its roots originated from a time-traveling John Waters upon realizing there was still an entire history of people not grossed out by Pink Flamingos yet.

Other helpful Romanian phrases:

"Shampoo my dick-hair with your saliva" (Shampona-mi-ai flocii cu saliva)

"Brush your teeth, my dick will be inspecting soon!" (Spala-te pe dinti ca vin cu pula in inspectie)

Mothers are another favorite target in this region. However, rather than indulge the classic "Yo Mamma" insult architecture, they prefer to taint her sanctity in a round-about way. For example, "Usca-mi-as sosetele pe crucea ma`tii" (I dry my socks on your mother's cross) is blasphemous, but really only as a vehicle to get at the mom. You really have to applaud the balls it takes to assault God just to slam someone's mother.

Another example of this is "Futu-tzi coliva ma~tii" (Fuck your mother's funeral meal). We're not sure if this meant to simply show disdain for the deceased or demonstrate intent to fornicate with the sarmalute cu mamaliga plate, but neither is particularly polite.

not sure I will be saying any of those anytime soon🙂 Especially Sa-mi bagi mana-n cur si sa-mi faci laba la cacat.... No thanks on touching Shit. Maybe we should make a separate thread so we don't hijack this one?

Romanian insults often involve the sexual behavior of men or women.

Women are usually insulted by comparison to prostitutes. There is a rich vocabulary of insults involving prostitution in Romanian. Curv?? is an insult meaning whore/prostitute, or, more generally, a sexually promiscuous woman. Synonyms or near-synonyms are t?rf??, traseist??, or pizd??. The words zdrean—, boarf?? and ??toarf?? are all used to refer to a woman of low moral fiber. A pimp is usually referred to as a pe??te, which literally translated to "fish".

Profanities directed at men include poponar, curist and g??ozar, all with the same meaning of faggot. Literally, these words refer to male homosexuals, although they are generally used as insulting words towards any male, no matter their sexual orientation. The words are derived from popou, cur and g??oaz??, which translate to "butt", "ass"/"arse" and "asshole", respectively. All three reference the anus, implying the person they are directed at practices anal sex.

A womanizer or vagina-chaser is known as a fustangiu (from fust??, skirt), or pizdar, a word formed in a similar fashion to poponar.

Bulangiu has quite a complex and contradictory formation. Bulan is slang for "luck" and also for "thigh". However, the word bulangiu is used to describe a man who is either not cooperative, a backstabber, or ungrateful, and has roughly the same meaning the English ass has in the phrase "don't be an ass!" (Nu fi bulangiu!). It also may be used as an equivalent of "faggot", in gypsy slang. The female version of bulangiu may be bulangioaic?? or bulangie, but feminine forms are rare.

L??bar and labagiu refer to a male person practicing masturbation. It carries the same meaning as "moron" or "jerk" in English. These words are derived from lab??, literally "paw", but referring to masturbation in slang. The expression "a face laba" means "to jerk off". Although they are literally connected to masturbation, in the spoken language they have the same meaning as "jerk", "asshole" or "ass" when referring to an individual.

Muist and its female equivalent, muist??, both mean "blowjob (taker)" often in reference to a whore. These words derive from the interjection muie!, loosely translating to "suck my vagina" or "suck my penis", or, generally, as "up yours!", which is itself derived from gypsy slang, muj ([muj]) meaning "mouth" in Romani.

I can't get over how PIMP is translated to fish/Pisces in Romanian

Posted by tiziani
The last one is hilarious. I'd be genuinely offended someone went to that level of detail to get at my mother.

We're all about detail.

Posted by Damnata
I can't get over how PIMP is translated to fish/Pisces in Romanian

I thought the same thing... great minds 😉

Posted by tiziani
And op, RELAX. There's no such thing as blowing your chance when someone genuinely likes you.

Haha thanks! It makes me feel so much better even though I know it's not true 😭

Yeh maybe its just not the right time for you both to be together or maybe it is, no stress coz only time will tell if you two will be together or not.

Just get on with you own life and meet others so you keep your horizons broadened and open not only that it'll help in the long run to stop thinking about your stress of wondering if there is a chance or not.

As with most things in life once you have your life moving the way you want it to, realising all you dreams and everything and doing your thing no matter what others may think or not think of you is when you will realise what you need to and its only until this happens that things will start going the way you want them to.

Until then, you (like the rest of us), has much work ahead of us to do to accomplish you dreams like be the dream/s you always wanted to be, its your turn now go forth and do it you shall.

Thats an order too!

Posted by dragongolden

And I'm upset that I ruined my chance.

You never had a chance to ruin.

Posted by dragongolden
I send the picture of frozen pond to my crush (virgo guy) because he's a hockey player.
Then I texted him "Wanna play hockey on the pond?"
He texted me back "Wow that's awesome. I wish we could!"
I texted "Haha I know! But you need to teach me how to skate first so I can beat you. lol"
He texted "Haha I wish ice time was free at the rink and I would"
I texted "Deal! Is it for free right? It would be very expensive lesson for a hockey player to teach me ice skating for sure! HAHA"
Him "Haha well there are other times when people have the ice"
Me "For ice skating? I think that we need to pay for ice time. It's $ 40"

And he didn't text me back for 5 hours now.
What did he mean? I don't quite understand.
Did he blow me off?

Additional Details
I texted him "Haha I just noticed that you said you wish the ice time was free. My bad. I shouldn't text anybody while playing game for sure Sorryyy"

Is it bad? I regretted that I should not text him at all 😢

😭 I know I sounded stupid! My friend said I should NOT text him the last text at all.

NOW I'M SO SAD!

He's making excuses not to see you... he's just not that into you so move on 😢

Posted by Nala13
You are on a college campus with hundreds maybe thousands of guys.

Dress cute, do your hair, wear some perfume, smile and wait until one finds you.

This ^^^ -- all day long.

🙂

You didn't "lose your chance"-- you created the exchange.

And the last text you sent wrapped it up nicely.. it was nothing to feel dumb about.

Your job is to act as though you aren't fazed, whatsoever-- and you shouldn't be.

But drop it-- and don't bring it up, or pay him an ounce of attention because then you will look like an ass.

Based on your ballsy-ness, alone, you're probably a cute girl who has doors held open for her on a regular basis.

Do what Nala said and don't waste another minute on someone who doesn't think the sun rises and sets at your command.

😉

@Damnata

Moon duly noted. *grin*

@Damnata

So funny reading and a lots of memories. My ex used to say: hai, se avem fan la bulan .... As a joke and I'm not Romanian so I can't write correct but I can speak a little bit. 🙂

Posted by Tutisko
@Damnata

So funny reading and a lots of memories. My ex used to say: hai, se avem fan la bulan .... As a joke and I'm not Romanian so I can't write correct but I can speak a little bit. 🙂

Awww..we swear like drunk cab drivers.