@AlluringSiren
13 Years
Virgo man update
You certainly live up to your username "clueless" you certainly are!! for you're information we have not fucked. Stop hating, just because the Virgo man that you desire has no romantic inclinations towards you, you wet blanket. You don't know nothing about mine or his situation for you to be trying to hand out your unwanted useless (that rhymes with clueless lol) advice. Useless clueless cancer lmao i believe its time for a username change beeeeeyach
Sometimes when two people really want to be with each other, life has a tendency of getting in the way...making things impossible. I could be projecting but I sense that this reunion of yours won't be easily attained. What if she refuses to get a divorce? Do they have kids? And are you sure that he is not speaking out of his butt?
I'm not liking this, he sounds like a user of women. Surely he sweet talked her into marriage, so who is to know that he isn't doing the same to you to get what he seems to be after...your body. Just be very careful with this one. He is showing you that he can be deceitful, an actor.
What's your sign, Siren?
In reading your other threads (which I bumped for others to read) ... it becomes obvious that you lack integrity, and appear to be so oblivious that you lack it, that you're actually proud being a cunt.
Posted by AlluringSiren
Virgo man called me today and announced to me that he is officially a British citizen. He made it clear his next action is to divorce his wife. He stressed to me to make sure that when his divorce is finalized, that i am ready to leave my baby daddy so we can officially become a couple.We talk once a week, we had a long conversation a few weeks back in person. Where he expressed that with me he feels at ease and feels like he doesn't have a care about the world when he is with me, he lets go of all his worrying, anxiety and relaxes It's beautiful to see him outside of work (where hes usually in bad mood being critical,nit picky) witnessing his playful, funny, witty and emotional side.
I explained to him i want to take things slow and i want to get to know him inside and he replied that he wants my mind body and soul and "I don't trust none of these girls out here, you don't know what kind of man i am, Were going to sail far because your a real roots girl".
When he gets his divorce he wont be with you... ask why? When he was tied he wants to experience how to be free and when be gets his freedom why would he tie himself again when there would be plenty of FISHES in the sea.
If he can cheat while under the legal bind of marriage what more from just relationship only made from words and uncertain promises.
@WaterCup no kids, shes almost 50, hes going to be 35 this year. He married her in october 2012.
In order for him to come to the UK and gain citizenship. its a common practice!! he is a ghetto youth, he comes from a very violent, crime ridden, poverty area.
Anyone who was offered that chance would jump at it, knowing you could leave behind all the suffering and start afresh. The lure of a better life living in those circumstances is irresistible, i know many who have done it not including myself lol
@WaterCup You could be right that's why im taking it real slowwww,slower than a virgo infact lol. Im watching his every action and scrutinising his every word, he does all the initiating, he sent me valentines text declaring his love on the 13th at 10.30pm signing it off with "you're always on my mind, first thing when I wake up every minute of the day and last thing at night before I close my eyes" he keeps talking about getting me pregnant, and when am I going to make plans to spend quality time with him. I told him im not in a rush, otherwise he might push me away and im so busy as it is. He replied one of these days hes going to just take me away.
Im a pisces/aries cusp
^^@WaterCup^^
@P-Angel this is coming from a deluded, cantankerous granny who is in a fantasy marriage with a imaginary virgo man. It's time to return back to the mental asylum from your day release granny. We know your steady trolling at the local library.
So you are aok with a man using a person in that manner? Gotcha, says a lot about you. You have yet to realize he is just going to use you as well. From you own previous posts it's obvious he just wants to fuck you. Once he gets the kitty he will be gone. Best if luck.
@thelibra08 He entered a sham marriage with an older woman for British citizenshipin october 2012. Why would a man come and initiate communication with me after 7months of me ignoring him and at no point whatsoever giving up my nookie. I deleted his number he kept mine and admitted spying on my whatsapp profile. He has not made any promises, neither have I. Im just taking my sweet time to figure him out for who he really is then I will make my decision.
Best of* darn autocorrect.
@justagirl It's reality the dog eat dog world we living in. His situation with his wife has nothing to do with me. How can you be certain that he has ulterior motive?
@justagirl he is not getting no nookie from me Im not desperate.
"Virgo man called me today and announced to me that he is officially a British citizen. He made it clear his next action is to divorce his wife. He stressed to me to make sure that when his divorce is finalized, that i am ready to leave my baby daddy so we can officially become a couple."
Ok going to be blunt and clear. You are messing around with someone that is married. Yes, we get it, he "did" that to get his citizenship. It's still a rotten thing to do to another person, marrying to get a green card, I doubt his current wife even knows that's why he married her. You're a rotten person for even entertaining this whole plan he has cooked up. He has been chasing you for 7 months now while hes been married and you told us before all this kissing and making out. Just because you didn't spread your legs doesn't mean it wasn't cheating. You are going to leave your baby daddy at a drop of a hat for a man that USED an older women to gain citizenship.. you are an idiot. But your baby daddy deserves better anyways, you're a cheater too.. once a cheater always a cheater and that goes double for you since you both are cheaters.
My prediction if you follow through with your shenanigans. You will be back posting in a few months, how he broke your heart and destroyed your life because of the choices YOU made. He doesn't give a shit about other people. Was that blunt enough?
Posted by justagirl
"Virgo man called me today and announced to me that he is officially a British citizen. He made it clear his next action is to divorce his wife. He stressed to me to make sure that when his divorce is finalized, that i am ready to leave my baby daddy so we can officially become a couple."Ok going to be blunt and clear. You are messing around with someone that is married. Yes, we get it, he "did" that to get his citizenship. It's still a rotten thing to do to another person, marrying to get a green card, I doubt his current wife even knows that's why he married her. You're a rotten person for even entertaining this whole plan he has cooked up. He has been chasing you for 7 months now while hes been married and you told us before all this kissing and making out. Just because you didn't spread your legs doesn't mean it wasn't cheating. You are going to leave your baby daddy at a drop of a hat for a man that USED an older women to gain citizenship.. you are an idiot. But your baby daddy deserves better anyways, you're a cheater too.. once a cheater always a cheater and that goes double for you since you both are cheaters.
My prediction if you follow through with your shenanigans. You will be back posting in a few months, how he broke your heart and destroyed your life because of the choices YOU made. He doesn't give a shit about other people. Was that blunt enough?
Damn that was a whole lot of ether! Scared to touch the post right now
Posted by AlluringSiren
@justagirl It's reality the dog eat dog world we living in. His situation with his wife has nothing to do with me. How can you be certain that he has ulterior motive?
This guy is not a good person. From the ghetto or not, you just don't want to be dealing with someone that sees other people as tools. Isn't what sociopaths do? Use others? A person like this is only self interested, doesn't care for others. Their main goal is to get what they want by any means possible. He has been chasing you relentlessly for mnths now...how do you know if it's genuine or just him going after what HE wants as usual? People like this don't like "losing". They use any method to ACHIEVE, even if it means hurting other people. Example is his marriage to an unsuspecting woman. Who knows what else he is capable of. Watch your debit/credit cards around this one. I'm not kidding.
Girl, no one is attacking you, we just don't want you to be another one of his victims. If he could be fake with her, he could be fake with you...he has it in him & you've already seen it.
Posted by virg_goki
prepares for popcorn date in a few weeks/months??_Anyone willing to have a munching date with lil me?
I love popcorn, can I come?
Posted by AlluringSiren
@thelibra08 He entered a sham marriage with an older woman for British citizenshipin october 2012.
You're so delusional it's not even funny. You keep bringing up this shit.
For one, did you live with them? Attend to their daily interactions, watched them fuck? It's really easy to go and feel righteous about yourself with the "sham marriage" in mind.
Regardless of the marriage being a facade, you are still hitting on someone's who's taken.
Get some common sense on your way out.
Oh, you have a "baby daddy" as well whom you're going to ditch as well as your integrity.
Yeah, you're scum.
Posted by justagirl
"Virgo man called me today and announced to me that he is officially a British citizen. He made it clear his next action is to divorce his wife. He stressed to me to make sure that when his divorce is finalized, that i am ready to leave my baby daddy so we can officially become a couple."Ok going to be blunt and clear. You are messing around with someone that is married. Yes, we get it, he "did" that to get his citizenship. It's still a rotten thing to do to another person, marrying to get a green card, I doubt his current wife even knows that's why he married her. You're a rotten person for even entertaining this whole plan he has cooked up. He has been chasing you for 7 months now while hes been married and you told us before all this kissing and making out. Just because you didn't spread your legs doesn't mean it wasn't cheating. You are going to leave your baby daddy at a drop of a hat for a man that USED an older women to gain citizenship.. you are an idiot. But your baby daddy deserves better anyways, you're a cheater too.. once a cheater always a cheater and that goes double for you since you both are cheaters.
My prediction if you follow through with your shenanigans. You will be back posting in a few months, how he broke your heart and destroyed your life because of the choices YOU made. He doesn't give a shit about other people. Was that blunt enough?
Siren, store the above in your mental library. He is a conman & you could be his next victim. I wonder what else he could be after, besides sex. Are you financial stable? Does it show? LOL! Careful.
Posted by AlluringSiren
@WaterCup You could be right that's why im taking it real slowwww,slower than a virgo infact lol. Im watching his every action and scrutinising his every word, he does all the initiating, he sent me valentines text declaring his love on the 13th at 10.30pm signing it off with "you're always on my mind, first thing when I wake up every minute of the day and last thing at night before I close my eyes" he keeps talking about getting me pregnant, and when am I going to make plans to spend quality time with him. I told him im not in a rush, otherwise he might push me away and im so busy as it is. He replied one of these days hes going to just take me away.
LOL this reminds me of two of my exes, the "I want a baby with yeuw" bit. Except I didn't think it was hot. I saw it as a way to try to get a permanent spot in my life. Way to control. So, now he is a conman & a possible stalker. Controlling, stalkerish men have a tendency of wanting to rush the relationship, from point A - Z in a blink of an eye. It's all about what THEY want, paying no regards to your needs/wants. Do you want to be pregnant? See how he is already trying to make everything about him?
Sometimes as women we get flattered when a guy is unrelenting. It can be cute, but can be dangerous as well depending on the person. Somebody that doesn't take "NO" for an answer means he doesn't see your voice as valuable. It's all dandy while you still have feelings for, but it gets scary when you no longer want to be with them & they keep persisting. Then it becomes one of those "If I can't have you, no one else will" scenarios.
I love that you are from Britain...pick up a copy of Polly Clarkson's book, Stalkers. She compiled stories from all over Britain. Many of the victims are dead. It starts with Clare Bernal's story, the 22-year-old that was shot 4 times in the head by an ex at her job. She worked at the Harvey Nichols store. All the stories have recognizable patterns & the book also gives you the signs to look out for to know if you're dealing with potential danger. Scary world out there, thread with caution.
Posted by AlluringSiren
@justagirl It's reality the dog eat dog world we living in. His situation with his wife has nothing to do with me. How can you be certain that he has ulterior motive?
...another one
smh
I say give him the kitty... If he sticks around consistently after he has the kitty THEN it's love.
But seriously though, please read your own comments on your "Ignoring A Virgo" thread. You yourself have pegged this guy right 7 months ago. If nothing else take your own advice/opinion. Either that or give him the kitty and stop wondering about it.
i wouldnt take him too too seriously if I was you, let his actions speak not the words
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KMT!! CHO!! BLOOD*****T
@virg_goki @justagirl
Have fun eating your MONSANTO popcorn a side of poison
Freenscience lesson for you know it all fools mwahahahaahaaa
I always have the last laugh
**Free science
@ justagirl Actually hes been chasing me for a year. I'm rotten?? have you seen the state of your teeth?? their yellow tinge is so potent they give the sun a run for its money!! you Grinch looking bitch you.
We will see what happens im in full control of this situation
You don't know shit about me and my baby daddy to be doling out your futile ignorance
@WaterCup Awwwhh bless you, you sound like a caring mother. Advising her daughter in the best way she knows how.
Nuff respect watercup. I really do appreciate your concern hon, I will take everything you have said into consideration
You are one of the few who can actually care to offer some decent advice.
Bitch please!! Bitch looking like she just walked out the mortuary. Go get get a suntan!!!!
No wonder you offend people!! walking around looking like the living dead.
@CluelessCancer
The only loser here is you!! you're so emotional!! trolling the virgo forum with your melancholy and self sorrow. Trying to manipulate people into feeling sorry for you. No wonder your x virgo man left yo sorry ass.
lol@ the imbecile.
You do realize WC suggested you read AND heed what I wrote..
I think you where too busy insulting everyone to see that post. Shows even more the kind of person you are.
😉
About the "hate" avi
When you hear the truth, you should never associate it to hate.
The truth is a good thing. Remember that.
*fox upon not reaching the grapes*
"FUCK THOSE GRAPES, THEY WERE SOUR ANYWAY!"
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Virgo man called me today and announced to me that he is officially a British citizen. He made it clear his next action is to divorce his wife. He stressed to me to make sure that when his divorce is finalized, that i am ready to leave my baby daddy so we can officially become a couple.
We talk once a week, we had a long conversation a few weeks back in person. Where he expressed that with me he feels at ease and feels like he doesn't have a care about the world when he is with me, he lets go of all his worrying, anxiety and relaxes It's beautiful to see him outside of work (where hes usually in bad mood being critical,nit picky) witnessing his playful, funny, witty and emotional side.
I explained to him i want to take things slow and i want to get to know him inside and he replied that he wants my mind body and soul and "I don't trust none of these girls out here, you don't know what kind of man i am, Were going to sail far because your a real roots girl".