@seadream
16 Years
Top priorities in a relationship
Key Relationship Priorities for Pisces and Other Signs
Pisces often prioritize emotional connection and compassion in relationships, while other signs may focus on communication, trust, or shared goals. Understanding these differences can improve compatibility and relationship satisfaction. Recognizing the unique priorities of each sign helps build stronger and more fulfilling connections.
honesty, transparency, communication, selflessness, consideration, civilised, integrity, responsible, patient - these are expected
clean, modest, calm, gentle, diligent, vigilant - these are desired
selfish, self centred, cunning, deceitful, malicious, spiteful, proud, uncooperative, rude, loud, opportunistic, arrogant, irresponsible, impatient, vindictive, controlling, dishonest - these mean you are going to be dumped AND chased down the street until you jump off a cliff haha
Posted by zeoblade
honesty, transparency, communication, selflessness, consideration, civilised, integrity, responsible, patient - these are expectedclean, modest, calm, gentle, diligent, vigilant - these are desired
selfish, self centred, cunning, deceitful, malicious, spiteful, proud, uncooperative, rude, loud, opportunistic, arrogant, irresponsible, impatient, vindictive, controlling, dishonest - these mean you are going to be dumped AND chased down the street until you jump off a cliff haha
Honesty, selflessness and consideration, absolutely. The gentle I like too, clean is a biggie for me and I think a sense of humour is a must. Would you give me a better understanding of how you would define transparancy please.
transparency means that whatever you do, whatever you are thinking, your partner can see clearly your intentions
Yes and lots of transparent clothes too! that will always keep my interest.
Ah but transparent clothes would leave nothing to the imagination.....Thanks zeo, do you mean by being open and upfront?
haha you guys are bad
transparent means hiding nothing
it doesnt mean transparent clothing haha, she might as well be naked for you guys. then everyone can get a look
i prefer my women fully clothed. what ever is covered makes me feel its forbidden and really makes me goal orientated at getting them off haha
yeah i love stockings
thats all my next gf needs to do to hint at me and i will sink my teeth into her haha
viagra
Ok another question, if you date are you looking for potential long term mostly, or a casual affair maybe just for sex or is friendship an important factor too?
at my age, i look for marriage outcome with kids. so friendship is critical. cannot be partners if you cant be friends
sex better be a given haha
seriously, i couldnt look myself in the mirror if there was no responsibility in it. if you look in my list, responsibility is expected. irresponsibility means i'll make you jump off a cliff haha
we have to show we are civilised and a higher class of person. otherwise these young kids will just imitate. we have to set a good example
casual sex is not love, you're just a free prostitute that doesnt get paid
Interesting and a good answer....Now what about friends with benefits? Or would feelings get in the way? I know, I'm nosy and curious
I believe a true union is the bond between two people and if strong enough will last forever the paperwork is secondary, maybe the concrete to the foundation....
very good insight, blade. I finally got a date with my slow moving virgo. I had to bring it up, but he said yes.
Posted by 25thDecan
Right now I feel sex is it for me. If that sometimes. I don't see love on the horizon-not really so frustrated about it anymore either.Were I to be in a relationship though....priority would be establishing intimate bonds through intimate moments(intimate=non sexual). What do we DO together that's not sex or dating. Totality. I AM that guy...well, I was...lol.
What went wrong, why aren't you that guy anymore? I would imagine you have a lot to give to the right person...just a thought!
I get what you saying about intimate bonds though, it's the mental closeness/understanding each other...just that feeling in your tummy (sorry girlie language!) The hug cos I feel you need one or the coffee you bring me because you want to, the drive out into the countryside to share the views because who else do I want to share this with, am I on track?
Posted by seadream
Interesting and a good answer....Now what about friends with benefits? Or would feelings get in the way? I know, I'm nosy and curious
friends with benefits? well you are both getting something without any cost to either of you haha. thats really a matter of convenience
i do admit that there are some friends that i imagine what they look like during the deed but its biased of me to answer you given my circumstances. if i was feeling in the mood i may give you a different answer
but trying to put myself in that situation, you are really getting free sex. when you start desiring to see your friend enjoying it, then you start to care about your friend and i feel there's a natural tendency to develop something because of that care
compared with someone that is not your friend, then friends with benefits is the better choice right? certainly better than watching porn and imagining yourself there when you are there
but for pisces, be careful of 'transference' that is banking of emotions and feelings inside your friend
Posted by everevolvingepithet
+1 on zeoblade's thoughts, although the marriage thing for me is a tough one.
lol@ free prozzy haha.
I'm not against the idea of marriage it's more the set up o it in whichever faith etc. The symbolism of union yes but outside of that it's a tough one imo.
everyone is at different stages of progression. different people have different stages of progression in their element. different elements have different tendencies for different things. thats normal and hopefully that means that there are some women around my age that havent chosen to settle down until now
who cares about what faith you are, marriage is social recognition. the most important being between you and your partner and your family. the rest dont matter because they arent related to you haha
Posted by 25thDecan
Right now I feel sex is it for me. If that sometimes. I don't see love on the horizon-not really so frustrated about it anymore either.Were I to be in a relationship though....priority would be establishing intimate bonds through intimate moments(intimate=non sexual). What do we DO together that's not sex or dating. Totality. I AM that guy...well, I was...lol.
thats really understandable if you dont see love on the horizon. maybe society has placed some expectations on me so i really control myself. at night time, there is the desire but i suppress it. i kind of use the marriage reason to cover it but then i really am killing two birds with one stone if i invest my efforts in chasing down wife potential. sometimes we have to be mirrors to ourselves to discover the reasons why we do things. maybe love isnt on the horizon but dont give up hope because you feel there's no opened doors - there's always an open door, you just have to find it
Posted by paranormalbadgirl
very good insight, blade. I finally got a date with my slow moving virgo. I had to bring it up, but he said yes.click to expand
at least you have a date, you're better off than me haha
when someone is banking their emotions inside you, when you have someone to protect, you really can become strong
when you bank your emotions inside someone else, when someone is trying their hardest to protect you, you feel injustice if others try to shut down your someone else when they're at their personal best. then you really can become incredibly strong
i re-read what i wrote and i found it was optimistic BS haha
just dont think that someone wouldnt love you, yeah its hope but probability wise unlikely. but dont give up hope. think of it as determining your destiny
My Top Priorities are
1. Communication
2. Attraction
3. Intellect
4. Trust
5. Honesty
6. Sense of humour
7. Open Minded
8. Transparency (as zeoblade mentioned)
9. Makes an effort to understand
10. NOT a Pisces, Scorpio or Libra
🙂
friendship is important
i dont know about casual sex, can only speak from experience
Posted by 25thDecan
@on track...yes you are. But to add...it's more of- the day where there was really nothing to do but wash the dishes, and clothes and clean the house together. Eating ice cream after washing the car.....together....
^^^ = simplistic loveliness and if we sit together in silence and it's not awkward, just comfortable maybe intune or not! that's good too...
Posted by Cajunspirit
My Top Priorities are1. Communication
2. Attraction
3. Intellect
4. Trust
5. Honesty
6. Sense of humour
7. Open Minded
8. Transparency (as zeoblade mentioned)
9. Makes an effort to understand
10. NOT a Pisces, Scorpio or Libra🙂
I'd like to think I could manage the majority of your list, but you make Pisceas sound like a dirty word (Scorp & Lib too!) You're judging by sign...now that is shallow would you agree?
Posted by zeoblade
when someone is banking their emotions inside you, when you have someone to protect, you really can become strongwhen you bank your emotions inside someone else, when someone is trying their hardest to protect you, you feel injustice if others try to shut down your someone else when they're at their personal best. then you really can become incredibly strong
zeo I feel like I'm talking to Data from Star Trek..(not a bad thing) but you need to put your logic into laymans for me. Well if you would please...
Posted by Cajunspirit
My Top Priorities are1. Communication
2. Attraction
3. Intellect
4. Trust
5. Honesty
6. Sense of humour
7. Open Minded
8. Transparency (as zeoblade mentioned)
9. Makes an effort to understand
10. NOT a Pisces, Scorpio or Libra🙂
Lol, oh Cajun are Pisces really that bad? Some of us can really be sweethearts. 🙂
Well my top priorities in relationships are:
1. Chemistry
2. Attraction
3. Maturity
4. Sense of Humor
5. Sexual Compatibility
6. Mental Compatibility
7. Communication
8. Affectionate
9. Open Minded
10.Common Sense
I'd like to think I could manage the majority of your list, but you make Pisceas sound like a dirty word (Scorp & Lib too!) You're judging by sign...now that is shallow would you agree?
Call it what you wish, I am very shallow/transparent.
I have the experience to back it up!
I look for those who can "break the mould" but that's extremely rare.
Lol, oh Cajun are Pisces really that bad? Some of us can really be sweethearts. 🙂
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Of course you all are sweethearts, it's when you stop being a sweetheart and let your negative emotions loose to bite people's heads off I have a problem with.
It happens at the drop of a hat and catches many off guard.
I'd like to think I could manage the majority of your list, but you make Pisceas sound like a dirty word (Scorp & Lib too!) You're judging by sign...now that is shallow would you agree?
Call it what you wish, I am very shallow/transparent.
I have the experience to back it up!I look for those who can "break the mould" but that's extremely rare.
Lol, oh Cajun are Pisces really that bad? Some of us can really be sweethearts. 🙂
Of course you all are sweethearts, it's when you stop being a sweetheart and let your negative emotions loose to bite people's heads off I have a problem with.
It happens at the drop of a hat and catches many off guard.
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Actually Cajun I think you're far from shallow and transparent, I just thought your comment about Pisces was shallow but if you have the experience then fair play, I can't argue on that, but unlike DreamyEyes I'm no sweetheart well unless you strip me bare and accept me for what I am warts and all and still like me then I'm a sweetheart but only if you've seen the real me and still like what you see.....
I'd like to think I could manage the majority of your list, but you make Pisceas sound like a dirty word (Scorp & Lib too!) You're judging by sign...now that is shallow would you agree?
Call it what you wish, I am very shallow/transparent.
I have the experience to back it up!I look for those who can "break the mould" but that's extremely rare.
Lol, oh Cajun are Pisces really that bad? Some of us can really be sweethearts. 🙂
Of course you all are sweethearts, it's when you stop being a sweetheart and let your negative emotions loose to bite people's heads off I have a problem with.
It happens at the drop of a hat and catches many off guard.
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I cannot argue with that, you are absolutely right! I've noticed that about myself in the past. Now that I think about it, that was the ONLY thing about me that would piss my Virgo off....I'm glad I changed, lol.
Posted by 25thDecan
Did Caj just spell "old" as "mould"? Lol....damn west indians...
British English, it's what I was taught.
Mould-Mold
Colour-Color
Specialise-Specialize
I cannot argue with that, you are absolutely right! I've noticed that about myself in the past. Now that I think about it, that was the ONLY thing about me that would piss my Virgo off....I'm glad I changed, lol.
Happy you are aware.
Actually Cajun I think you're far from shallow and transparent, I just thought your comment about Pisces was shallow but if you have the experience then fair play, I can't argue on that, but unlike DreamyEyes I'm no sweetheart well unless you strip me bare and accept me for what I am warts and all and still like me then I'm a sweetheart but only if you've seen the real me and still like what you see.....
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Strip you bare? now now, let's not get ahead of ourselves! 😄
lol
Strip you bare? now now, let's not get ahead of ourselves!
lol
Hey, you're a bad boy! My mind and soul needs stripping 1st if you have the ability....if you can do that then the body follows, get what I mean? (Obviously not you personally)....
Posted by virg_goki
lol at cajun's list! If anything its a compilation of stereotype qualities of the signs you dislike
DISlike?
Posted by 25thDecan
Who's stripping? Caj...*throws middle fanger...sous n curry eating so'n so's...lol j/k
lol!
Who's the new trick in the game man?
Hey, you're a bad boy!
That's riiiight! lol
My mind and soul needs stripping 1st if you have the ability....if you can do that then the body follows, get what I mean? (Obviously not you personally)....
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That would be easier for a Virgo... if Pisces could tolerate our questioning and need to understand everything...
That would be easier for a Virgo... if Pisces could tolerate our questioning and need to understand everything...
I could tolerate that because I'm the same, but maybe go from a differrnt angle! you're looking for honesty are you prepared to do the same?
Posted by Cajunspirit
My Top Priorities are1. Communication
2. Attraction
3. Intellect
4. Trust
5. Honesty
6. Sense of humour
7. Open Minded
8. Transparency (as zeoblade mentioned)
9. Makes an effort to understand
10. NOT a Pisces, Scorpio or Libra🙂
WHY?? Obviously there's something not so good experienced from your past with these 3 signs....🙂 Cajun?
Posted by zeoblade
when someone is banking their emotions inside you, when you have someone to protect, you really can become strongwhen you bank your emotions inside someone else, when someone is trying their hardest to protect you, you feel injustice if others try to shut down your someone else when they're at their personal best. then you really can become incredibly strong
zeo I feel like I'm talking to Data from Star Trek..(not a bad thing) but you need to put your logic into laymans for me. Well if you would please...
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the bank is you
to bank your emotions inside someone means to invest your feelings in someone - to give them your feelings to hold
to infinity and beyond!
WHY?? Obviously there's something not so good experienced from your past with these 3 signs....🙂 Cajun?
Bad experiences indeed. I'm sure most Virgo guys can chip in on these as well.
I could tolerate that because I'm the same, but maybe go from a differrnt angle! you're looking for honesty are you prepared to do the same?
Of course!
I get in trouble for telling the truth.
Posted by THEKingofLibra
Where is the fun in dating sane people 😄click to expand
Would you date a Libran woman?
Hell no! Are you crazy.
*High Five*
Posted by THEKingofLibra
Where is the fun in dating sane people 😄Would you date a Libran woman?
Hell no! Are you crazy.
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ugh!! You guys makes my feelings regret to have a Libra Moon....Does your moon in your chart much stronger than your Sun...Because, having a moon in Libra i found out that we have a lots of common traits....But i don't argue all the time except if i am in the mood to argue and i get something that is productive from the argument...Even though, i don't get along well with Libra....
yeah!! its about your SUN Mr KingKong Bra!!
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Hi, wondered if you guys could give me some insight on what your priorities are in a relationship, I'm Pisces and curious to see how we differ on this or don't!