turned down a virgo - still there?!

Hey you virgos

I don't have any virgos in my life — but seem to attract them somehow, my ex had his venus in virgo, a leo I'm seeing has a virgo mars and I'm also talking to a virgo since 6 weeks.

The virgo guy is a year younger than me and has a cancer AC, taurus moon and leo venus rx.

However we got quite intimate and also shared hours of laughs etc — he told me he isn't ready for a relationship since he comes out of a 7yr long relationship in november. — I'm not interested in him per se as a partner since he told me that but I'm curious since I don't know shit about you guys.
Do you stick around even when there is no sex to get and you stated you aren't interested in a relationship?

I'm not like most girls who claim that there is no sex involved and the guy sticks around blab la and in the end they still give up the pussy 😆 haha no after the 2nd time in bed I told him that this isn't what I demand for myself since I only want something serious to build up to. No casual sexing etc.

What I don't understand is that he does stick around, he txt me EVERY day just lightly asking —how are you, what are you up to?? but without asking me out or whatever?! It's irritating me cause usually you don't just check out the other person on a daily basis and then nothing else happens, not asking out, nothing. He cheers me up when I'm upset.. and then tunes out??_ I don't write him a lot, mostly he initiates.

Are you virgos that way?! That's kinda weird.. nice but weird in my eyes.

do you virgos turn flings into friends or what?! so irritating 🙂