Turnin cold feet!

I have changed so much that i dont feel anything now, I was appreciated for putting in efforts, being patient and growin tolerance but now nohing feels right. I feeel a huge emotional gap between me and my virguy, probably because i have changed too much that now i feel cold. I feel manipulated. And living on his terms all the time just sucks.

Does everyone read "Diary Board" when they click on this board or it's just fixed signs?

@pierida - there comes a point in life when u feel you have done soooo much, and yet you feel lonely and misunderstood. I guess patience is the key ...

Like I said Leona, you want better relationship with Earth Sign then choose between Taurus or Capricorn. If Virgo Men and Leo Women can stay away from each other from getting into relationship, then both side are happy.


I wish I have telepathy power or massive size speaker that can able to transmit my voice around the globe. So I can to talk to my fellow Virgo Men what sign to get into relationship with or what sign to avoid lol.

Leo Women fare better with Taurus Men.

Actually fixed signs in general fare better with each other than any other modality.

@blackmamba - Yeah engaged for the past two yrs and waiting in hope to get married, his job and settlement issues taking too long...

@nathan - I m half turk, we are very traditional in terms of relationships / marriages. And i told you i dont get along with cap guys well. They are sweet but i dont feel anythin with them, taurean men however are a little close to virgo men in terms of nature. But yes not as aloof as virgos for sure.

And yet here some people say that we dont understand virgos haha when virgo themselves admit to that haha how v funny.... Anyway the thing is i have bewn tryin and this is all i can do, if i had a choice id have done soemthin ling back. But i guess with a little patience i can manage hopefully .

@nathan - its not with all virgo/ leos, yazlan had a sucvessful relationship with a leo, i think its probably somethin else, either ur fate or your ability to cope, like he said that he changed with his leo after realizin that she was great ... And if its fire vs earth than you wouldnt be happy with your sag, they are pretty much like leos in their behavior

@blackmamba - nothin changes even after engagement. Trust me ! Nature can never change! And yeh its same with me, morning texts and a long pauseeeee

Posted by leona

....... if i had a choice id have done soemthin ling

kudos to the Virgo for getting away ...

@blackmamba - No virgos dont have really high standards when it comes to beauty, atleast thats what my virgo told me. He says that a beautiful mind and a beautiful soul is more important than a pretty face, and he also said even if u bring miss world infront of me i ll turn her down if shes not intelligent and stimulate my mind. The one he dated befor me my ex was an average lookin girl and really fat ! Its not about the face its about the mind i guess...

@kalin - wow your sisters lucky, i have two taurean guys workin with me, one of them always tells me that i m v attractive and he wouldve married me in a heart beat if i wasnt engaged. I always ignore that, cause i dont even wanna let all the flattery distract my mind i m that into my virguy. But generally yeh they are great talkers! Haha i wish my fiance was a taurean 😄

Cant stimulate * sorry for typos...

@blackmamba - only if they remained single lol ...

@kalin - yeh one of my aries aunts is married to a virgo for the past 13 yrs, ups and downs but they dont whine about it , but yeh one thing for sure this aries aunt of mine is pretty much in his control...

@ksamcancer - hahah interesting, i like it.. i thought that picture of me represents my real emotions, how lonely and lost i am... 😢

@jupitersmagic - shed some light ...

Posted by jupitersmagic
Everything on on the inside. All your heartaches of the ill past so I can see where you come from. It lets me know what your made out of. Strength and desire to succeed.

Put me in Check Mate if you dare, I am yours? Virgo Captured he will be.

😭 very well written

So you are engaged already. How long you were dating till he finally popped the question?

Posted by BlackMamba

Posted by leona
@nathan - I m half turk, we are very traditional in terms of relationships / marriages. And i told you i dont get along with cap guys well. They are sweet but i dont feel anythin with them, taurean men however are a little close to virgo men in terms of nature. But yes not as aloof as virgos for sure.

don't listen to him. he's annoying.

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That's what people say.

@nathan912 - We dated hardly 6 months and he popped the qs, and you know those six months were heavenly,like instant connection, I couldnt say no to anythin. the first year was too good, but he slowly changed, he started changin some six months back!

Posted by Damnata
Leo Women fare better with Taurus Men.

Actually fixed signs in general fare better with each other than any other modality.

I found something about modality relationship dynamics that's VERY interesting. I sought it out because of this thread/comment. lol

http://astrodeli.wikidot.com/love-styles-by-quadruplicities

Posted by KsamCancer

Posted by leona
@ksamcancer - hahah interesting, i like it.. i thought that picture of me represents my real emotions, how lonely and lost i am... 😢

Leona is a tank who rushes to the frontline and usually dies to assist her allies. She is usually a lone warrior in the front line so I guess she could be considered lonely when on the battlefield

http://pre03.deviantart.net/a885/th/pre/f/2014/336/4/4/leona___league_of_legends_by_yoshiyaki-d88gqgn.jpg

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Interesting analogy...as opposed to? I'd be interested in hearing what her opposite warrior archetype would be in your opinion?

Posted by MsTeeq1974

Posted by Damnata
Leo Women fare better with Taurus Men.

Actually fixed signs in general fare better with each other than any other modality.

I found something about modality relationship dynamics that's VERY interesting. I sought it out because of this thread/comment. lol

http://astrodeli.wikidot.com/love-styles-by-quadruplicities

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Oh..I dig what I'm reading.

I hold the same beliefs.

Would you make a topic in Astrology with this article?

I really think for mutables..when it comes to fixed and cardinal partners...

The cardinals have the edge.

Posted by BlackMamba

Posted by Damnata
I really think for mutables..when it comes to fixed and cardinal partners...

The cardinals have the edge.

wrong


scorpio and taurus have the edge over caps and cancers

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I disagree.

Maybe it depends on the mutable.

Leona. In those 6 months of dating did you discuss about marriage? But in end up putting pressure on him like when and what year to get married

Because as a Virgo I don't like being rush at all, I'll decide when unless I got impatient already or my heart tells me this is the right moment. But other than astrology I think it's bs if a woman put pressure on man like what or when to get married because some men's wants to get married too but not every single men in this world are gonna be ready to settle down on that certain date.

Like to my wife when we were dating back in high school i keep telling and promising her that one day I will marry her, But I didn't specify certain date. Then one year later after both of us got out in high school. I'm finally ready to fulfill my promise to her and asked her to marry me because I couldn't wait any longer and I know she's the one for me. Then she said the third magical "Yes" which makes me very happy.

@Nathan912 - No its like everything was so sudden that i didnt have to ask him to take further steps, like i wasnt even ready, i m 22 and hes 26 and two yrs back i wasnt even ready, i never wanned to rush into it but he insisted on engagement cause we were gettin closer by day and i didnt want to indluge into sex until we were officially comitted, so he suggested talkin to my parents, thats how we involved families and got engaged and now its been two yrs, never forced him to marry since both of us are busy at the moment , i m graduatin soon and hes lookin for employment, but yes we have discussed it a few times like how and when we should plan it, and since i really want it soon i often tell him to think about it but he doesnt really give an answer, the trouble isnt the delay in marraige or anythin, like m a leo and i want attention all the time even though i have conpletely stopped demandin it but i get it only when he wants to give it, and thats rare. Hes a workaholic .. I just want him to slightly change his behavior towards me, be a little considerate and stop being critical amd controlling. If he could change all that i ll be the happiest girl alive... And yeh one thing, he cant decide on.things, whatever job offers he gets, he keeps rejectin them cause he wants somethin big, nothin ordinary, he was goin to go into military and then he left to persue his career in law and now hes not happy with what he has, he s never happy with little...

That sounds like libra parts... maybe sag

Posted by leona
@Nathan912 - No its like everything was so sudden that i didnt have to ask him to take further steps, like i wasnt even ready, i m 22 and hes 26 and two yrs back i wasnt even ready, i never wanned to rush into it but he insisted on engagement cause we were gettin closer by day and i didnt want to indluge into sex until we were officially comitted, so he suggested talkin to my parents, thats how we involved families and got engaged and now its been two yrs, never forced him to marry since both of us are busy at the moment , i m graduatin soon and hes lookin for employment, but yes we have discussed it a few times like how and when we should plan it, and since i really want it soon i often tell him to think about it but he doesnt really give an answer, the trouble isnt the delay in marraige or anythin, like m a leo and i want attention all the time even though i have conpletely stopped demandin it but i get it only when he wants to give it, and thats rare. Hes a workaholic .. I just want him to slightly change his behavior towards me, be a little considerate and stop being critical amd controlling. If he could change all that i ll be the happiest girl alive... And yeh one thing, he cant decide on.things, whatever job offers he gets, he keeps rejectin them cause he wants somethin big, nothin ordinary, he was goin to go into military and then he left to persue his career in law and now hes not happy with what he has, he s never happy with little...

Well you said both of you are busy at the moment You're busy on school and He's busy on finding the right career, so i guess that's the reason why, because both of you probably don't realize you put each other on number 2 or 3 options now and focus all your energy on school and career but didn't concentrate on about your relationship.

If both of you learn to balance each other out and dont waste your time on one thing then good for you. Otherwise I'm right that Virgo Man and Leo Woman are not going to work in a long run because both of you can't learn and wont change for each other because there's always something that stop both of you from getting into marriage part because you always find fault on each other, like you always find him critical whatever you supposed to mean about that and controlling and whatever something wrong he thinks about you.

@nathan - lol howcome youre happy with your sag ? They are fire signs too and i dont see any difference in our behavior. Leos and sag are pretty much alike.. same energy same mentality somehow .Its not always astrology - its more about intentions and the ability to cope with things. If you are willing to work on your relationship regardless of what your star signs are and if you can appreciate each other efforts then any couple can last. And i see virgos stressin almost all signs. Be it my pisces mom... my aries aunty or my libra frends and even cancers are not happy with them. So inshort only virgos know who they want and how they want if they are seriously in love they might put the person above anythin and if they genuinely care they should prove it through their actions and rest all GOd knows better

@blackmamba - well i have never found them to be any different .. but thats my understandin .. not sure how you see them.. they might not be the same but they have the same fire elements... but anyway i was just checkin some male virgo celebrities dayin history and i found out that mostly all of them has a long lists and they are either divorced or never married. Nas jones dated libra virgo taurus capricorn aries and a leo and out of all he married the leo...

Dating*

Happily married virgos are either luck or a delusion lol

Posted by leona
Happily married virgos are either luck or a delusion lol

You ever notice how dirt conforms to anything you put it in? Thats a virgo.
They can make ANY relationship work.. IF they want it to.

@leona Leos are fixed sign and Sags are mutable like Virgos

@nathan - well i m not sayin i doubt that cause i have already read a lot how virgos and leos are too different .. so i shouldve oixked my battle wisely but i didnt know all this back then and now when i m in.. i cant just give up for a fact that we cant worj out in the long run... so only future will tell... and i have seen the most compatible couples divorcin and the most incompatible lastin so it depends... and when i said i find leo and sagis are similar i meant that both these signs are extrovert v outgoing and very fun loving and generous. I usually hangout with sag girls cause i feel we have the same approach towards relationship but maybe when it comes to dealing with a virgo they react differently. As a leo my pride comes first and my constant need for attention and affection too and i think its pretty human.. any woman in the world would demand that from any man... be it virgo or any other sign ... and by askin howcome you are so happy with your wife i wanned to know what are those things that she does for you. How does she cope with your disappearin acts or lonely phases ( that is if it ever happens to u lol ) .. you can teach me a thing or two if you like

Picked my battles*

@weeds - yeah mutable but fire .. i get it ..

Pisces is also a mutable sign then why cant it work with virgo... juat wonderin..

Leona. What do you mean about disappearing act? Like thinking of leaving her? Because it will never happen.

The only time we're not together If I go to work and she go to work but pretty much every single day we go home on the same roof and spend together every night, unless she's off from her work then I'm gonna be off too, lol. I'm more flexible when it comes with my schedules from work because it's family business and I'm make the rules.

Posted by leona
Pisces is also a mutable sign then why cant it work with virgo... juat wonderin..

Because they are virgos complete opposite as far as astrology is concerned..
Understand though we are just talking sun sign things get far more complicated when you have all the other placements within one chart.
Some work some don't it varies greatly...
Probly why astrology isnt good for compatibility determination. ..

@Nathan912 she might mean virgo down/alone time?

Better yet @Nathan912 post you and your wifes birth dates since your not too astro savvy

@nathan - yeah whatever you call it when you guys are detached and act like loners. My virgo prefers being aloof so he can get back to his senses lol thats what he says...

My Birthday September 12 and she's December 1. Both 1988 if you need the year.

I'll be back later kinda busy at the moment.

Ah... Virgo moon libra moon......

His chart

18th sept 1988

Rising sign - Leo
sun - virgo
moon - sagitatius
mercury - libra
venus -leo
mars - aries
jupiter - gemini
saturn -sagitarius
uranus - sagitarius
neptune - capricorn
pluto -scorpio


Mine

August 21st 1993

Rising sign - cancer
sun - leo
moon - libra
mercury - leo
venus - cancer
mars - libra
jupiter - libra
Saturn - aquarius
uranus - capricorn
Neptune - capricorn
pluto - scorpio


If anyone can interpret my chart ?

@weeds - is that a good pairing ? My mom and dad are same.. libra virgo moon