Virgo and Interracial Relationship

A question to the Virgo men.

If the woman you are about to spend the rest of your life with was of a different race than you and her parents and family have different views on Interracial Relationships than you do,

Would you let that affect your relationship with her and maybe make you think twice about marrying her?

Would it hurt your feelings in any way?

Would you try for them to change their mind about you or would you just not care and go on with your lives?

I'm in a interracial relationship now,and her family is a lil racist ..but I'm not dealing with her family,she is,all I care about is how she* treats me..🙂 and she treats me like the stud I am,so I don't worry about her family,..for now..I guess when I meet them,I'll go from there...you know us virgos can pick up on people's hiding agendas ..so if her family don't like me,I guess they want see me that much...because I don't like being around fake ass people,that don't like me! Oh well..until we meet..🙂

Posted by virgostud
I'm in a interracial relationship now,and her family is a lil racist ..but I'm not dealing with her family,she is,all I care about is how she* treats me..🙂 and she treats me like the stud I am,so I don't worry about her family,..for now..I guess when I meet them,I'll go from there...you know us virgos can pick up on people's hiding agendas ..so if her family don't like me,I guess they want see me that much...because I don't like being around fake ass people,that don't like me! Oh well..until we meet..🙂

I agree with you Virgostud, I guess that is all that really matters, the love between you both. Thank you for your time😉 Oh and good luck with your relationship.😉

Tbg...your welcome,I'll tell you like this,if you like me,I'll like you,..etc...end of story..🙂

I've dated outside of my race. Haitian, Puerto Rican, Columbian, Dominican, Trinidadian...yeah, that's about it. Never dated a white guy though. If you consider that^^^ dating outside of the race because they were either the same complexion as me or darker so, IDK.

I've kissed a Jamaican white guy from Canada, lol. That sounds weird right? He said he was Jamaican but he was white. You remember the singer Snow? Well something like that. He was really cute, tanned skin, tall, muscular build. That's as far as it went though. I just love caramel & chocolate!!!!

Posted by virgostud
Tbg...your welcome,I'll tell you like this,if you like me,I'll like you,..etc...end of story..🙂

So Virgostud what would happen if your gf tells you she wants to go see her parents? Would you go with her or let her go alone?

Posted by RealTalk
I've dated outside of my race. Haitian, Puerto Rican, Columbian, Dominican, Trinidadian...yeah, that's about it. Never dated a white guy though. If you consider that^^^ dating outside of the race because they were either the same complexion as me or darker so, IDK.

I've kissed a Jamaican white guy from Canada, lol. That sounds weird right? He said he was Jamaican but he was white. You remember the singer Snow? Well something like that. He was really cute, tanned skin, tall, muscular build. That's as far as it went though. I just love caramel & chocolate!!!!

RT did your family or his have a problem with you dating out of your race?

Posted by TaurusBadGirl

Posted by virgostud
Tbg...your welcome,I'll tell you like this,if you like me,I'll like you,..etc...end of story..🙂

So Virgostud what would happen if your gf tells you she wants to go see her parents? Would you go with her or let her go alone?

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I'll go with her,but I'll stay outside..or go to wal mart somewhere..🙂

Posted by TaurusBadGirl

Posted by RealTalk
I've dated outside of my race. Haitian, Puerto Rican, Columbian, Dominican, Trinidadian...yeah, that's about it. Never dated a white guy though. If you consider that^^^ dating outside of the race because they were either the same complexion as me or darker so, IDK.

I've kissed a Jamaican white guy from Canada, lol. That sounds weird right? He said he was Jamaican but he was white. You remember the singer Snow? Well something like that. He was really cute, tanned skin, tall, muscular build. That's as far as it went though. I just love caramel & chocolate!!!!

RT did your family or his have a problem with you dating out of your race?

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No problems. I mean not that I'm aware of. Unfortunately if I introduced someone to my family that was white, they wouldn't be to happy about it, but if they knew I was happy with him they'd eventually come around.

Thats my point exactly RT..they know I have never been so happy than I am now, so why would they nt just wish me the best and let me go...I would just care if my daughter was marrying a delinquent or someone that would beat her or something, but because of their race? Its not right..She is my mom and I love her and I really dont want anyone disrespecting her but Im not blind, I dont agree with the way she is. I love him more than anything and leaving him is not an option.

Posted by 25thDecan
Btw...i'd go with her. Unless they sincerely don't want me in the home then I'm there. I'm a good reespectful person. If I'm disrespected, I make my exit. I'll occupy myself. And "stick it to 'em" when she gets back to the hotel...lol.

If we had children...different story. They must come to my home and be respectful or meet us ALL in public somewhere for a period of time.

LOL😛 Thats funny Decan, but I do agree with you..Its funny because my Virgo treats me better than any white man that I have ever had. He is like a gift from heaven and the fact that they can't see it makes me sad..😢

Oh yes I will...Alot of religions say different things but its always a double standart when it gets personal. I will run with it. Not letting go.

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
Thats my point exactly RT..they know I have never been so happy than I am now, so why would they nt just wish me the best and let me go...I would just care if my daughter was marrying a delinquent or someone that would beat her or something, but because of their race? Its not right..She is my mom and I love her and I really dont want anyone disrespecting her but Im not blind, I dont agree with the way she is. I love him more than anything and leaving him is not an option.

So you have to do what makes you happy. You have to live YOUR life the way YOU desire to live it. Family will always have a word in edgewise about the person you're in a relationship with, but ultimately it's your choice. If you're going to live according to other peoples preferences, then you're not really living your life & you won't be happy.

I was dating a younger guy & my mom was biased against that. I was happy with him so I stayed with him & that was just something she had to accept.

Yes I totaly agree, at the end of the day all that should matter is that Im happy and that he treats me good, and thats a yes to both..Im hoping that with time they will see how good he is to me and what a wonderful person he is. I know he will find a way to win their love.

i have never been interested in other races, but am good friends with people from dif races. however, if i fell for someone, whatever race they are, i would try my hardest to make it work. i do know that it is very very difficult dealing with family members who arent accepting.. def can be done, but may cause a lot of stress and heartache in the beginning. if you have a strong relationship, its totally doable. just dont let it seep into your own relationship and blame them for how their family feels. best of luck
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Posted by lindavi20
i have never been interested in other races, but am good friends with people from dif races. however, if i fell for someone, whatever race they are, i would try my hardest to make it work. i do know that it is very very difficult dealing with family members who arent accepting.. def can be done, but may cause a lot of stress and heartache in the beginning. if you have a strong relationship, its totally doable. just dont let it seep into your own relationship and blame them for how their family feels. best of luck
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Thank you Linda, When I was growing up my best friend was of another race and they never had a problem then, she would even stay over sometimes...My mother's husband is very I mean very racist and so
is his family, so my mother worries as to what they would say about me or think...Really mom? I told her I don't care,I think my mom is like that because of him.

We have a pretty strong relationship and know we can get through this..if they want to come to visit for the holidays they will be more than welcomed but that will be our home, his and mine and he will be the man of the house so they will need to respect him as the person he is and talk to him, so we shall see.

Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
I'd be uneasy around the father as I would not want to get shot...but I would try to debate with them on how rascim is so idiotic.....buttt I would probably fail miserably and blame my pisces ascendant for being on cloud 13...

Although they maybe rascist, that seems like a personal problem...

PHV22 that was funny...lol..But yes I know it is personal...I think she wants to make her husband happy and she doesnt want to hear them say anything negative towards me..I can't blame her as a mother trying to protect me, but im a grown woman and I know what Im doing and she should just wish me well and if by any chance things don't go well, she should be there for me as well. She knows Im all packed and leaving in a few days and she has not called me in 2 days..It will be very hard when I have to say goodbye knowing she feels that way..😢

When it comes to what other people think, I don't care at all. Parents or not, I choose my partner and no one else has a say in it. If they have a problem with it then I'll stop communicating with them. It's simple.

Not a virgo male, but I am a virgo female in an interracial relationship with a taurus man (he is white). My family, or at least my most immediate family, has no problem with our relationship. They just want me to be happy and taken care of. His family on the other hand, mostly his parents, are very wary of interracial relationships. They aren't truly aware the depth of our relationship and our love for each other. It's easy and hard to deal with. I know he is ashamed of how his parents feel and that he doesn't feel confident enough to fight their prejudices. I tell him all the time that nothing is going to break us, but it stings in a very deep part of me. Not because his parents could have a problem with me, but because I'm afraid he is going to end our relationship out of his fear that he can't take me home and fully introduce me to his family. Although, we're going pretty strong and have slowly spoken about how to introduce our relationship to his parents while waiting for the right moment.

It depends what you mean by "think twice": in the sense of "to decide not to do" I don't think that this would apply although I would find the situation discouraging. If I really loved her I think I would stay with the situation and try to work with it.

It is two people at the end of the day. Their relationship. If my family or his felt strongly about things I would be wary of them trying to undermine things. Good luck with that. They have the raising of me, molded me and set me free. Therefore, the decision made for ones owns heart is no longer their concern. Bit cold, but there you have it. Of course they care, but their perception and ill formed notions of whom is right for one and whom is not is unnecessary. I would hear their thoughts on the matter, then blatantly ignore anything that did not set well within my conscience. They already gave the tools and framework to be an adult making adult decisions. Well now, stand aside and let one make them. I would also absolutely know who had my happiness and well being at heart, and who did not. Certainly this can be someone within ones own familial construct, on either side of the fence.
Some peoples 'good opinion' can rot. They living your life? They in your bed? They having conversation in the night and raising your children? Nope. Changing someones views on some things? May as well piss in a windstorm.
Double edged sword innit. The people you'd like to please most in the world will not be. Oh well. That is their choice whether or not to accept. If they do not, well, life still needs living.

My prejudice is not for race, it is for attractiveness.

The only race I would hesitate to date is a Semite.

Not at all..

I love Human and I love to be with humans , the rest are political/religious and cultural bullshit....!

Keep it up at this rate Dec you'll need new manties. 😉

LMAO Mongs. Brofriend Cut. 😛

Sometimes it's the significant other who may have some hidden or not so hidden angst toward interracial dating. I have never considered my family's opinion, especially not after who they married/dated and never asked me for my opinion. I give them the same courtesy.

Manties & Mongs!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA...you guys are funny.