Virgo and Scorpio dual saboteurs

Hi All. Im a scorpio woman in her mid 30's dating a Virgo man in his late 30's. You would assume by now both of us know what we want so why does it seem like were rushing to end things. We had a lovley whirlwind romance at first up until about 3 weeks ago we hadnt spent more a day apart since we met. Weve been together for just under two years and never had a real fight.

We moved in with eachother 4 months into the who deal and things were great with me relishing his unwavering attention him in love with the all the domestic TLC and both of us thrilled by our regular deep heady discoursce.Sex was great too. Then all of a sudden about 2 months ago he started wanting sex once a week-10 days opposed to the daily occurrence it had been.I noticed he qasnt as affectionate as usual in general and stopped wainting to be around me all the time. His explanation he was getting older and stressed with work. Also he began to complain about my lack of control of my 3 children from a previous relatonship admitting they are not bad kids but things arent as regimented as he thinks they should be ( one child is scholar student one child is ASD and one child is full of when are u and dad getting back syndrome i do the best I can ok) He also complains about my housework and while I expected that coming from a virgo I didnt expect it to be a issue every time the laundry wasnt folded right away. So I jokingly told him if he didnt like it to move. He moved the next week.?This was a month ago and we have seen eachother on a almost daily basis since but I feel him pulling away. He maintains I am wrong in my assumption that he dosent want to be bothered and he loves me and wants to marry me someday. I feel like he is strining me along. Any insight.