Virgo + Aquarius?

I have been dating a Virgo man for 3 years w/ a couple of breaks due to poor communications (he blew up and I didn't see him for months, so I dated someone else). I have Aquarius rising and Venus in Capricorn and Mars in Taurus, supposdedly very compatible w/ Virgo. He is very undemonstrative w/ his affections, especially in public. We live in a small town and if we run into each other like at lunchtime, he acts like I am just another "friend". No hug, no kiss, nothing, but a smile. We just recently had a row about this and now I haven't heard from him all week. He had invitied me home to MEET HIS PARENTS, a very big deal appaarently, but now, I don't know if he still is on go w/ it. I dont' want to ruin my own Christmas holidays waiting for him to call, but I can't stand the fact that he just IGNORES me when he has screwed up. Given enough time, he will come around, but not apologize, just assume everything is okay since he "came around." Any advice out there? We are best friends and live right down the street from each other, know many mutual friends and have talked of marriage, money, kids, etc. But I cant' stand the WAITING! help!

You know this is a bad situation. Listen to your higher Self who is screaming at you at the top of her lungs...GET OUT NOW!!! Keep in mind it's never going to get any better. Think about being married to this guy for 10 or 20 years...will he be acting any differently? Not! If you can't get along now, take the upper hand and get out while the only thing you have to divide up is friends, not a household and 4 kids!

my mom used to say..."anything worth having is worth waiting for"...If you care for him beyond friendship...explain these feelings...let him know that you would perfer he treated you as tho you were more than friends in public(at least a kiss on the cheek,when greeting)....If he cannot abide by these rules?...MOVE ON!

I am a virgo female and if he is like me then, he is affraid of any commitment
where he might get hurt. As for affection in public, well that would come only when
there is a definate relationship established. he will not be forth coming with
information, you must pull it out of him.
Good luck

hey does that sound good. now female virgo what if he says he loves you but hates you and wants to be friends and occationally calls to leave a msg on answering machinr= just me'. Would he respond to a card that says hello, where are you. Or does he really need his freedom

TO UNKNOWN Sat June 16
I think you have encountered an Aqua judging by what you wrote. Funny so have I and they said they same thing Love you hate you it would have been better if we had never met.Disappearing for a time then returning like nothing ever happened. On off on Off strange messages on the M/c and emails with months in between. Please confirm

Aquarius in general are just plain weird. You never know what they're going to do next. They also arent very affectionate or romantic. They always think they're right about everything.Then they turn around and can be so co-dependant in a relationship because they have a hard time being alone with themselves. So they want a partner to hang around without any affection and just be there when they need to tell you everything that's on their mind. What's with that?
Would you like a relationship like that? I dont know any Virgo's that would deal with that. Maybe a weak wishy-washy Pisces may deal with the aqua until they find themselves miserable but it would never last with a Virgo-sorry.

Virgo men are shy and reserved. This man was probably taught not to show feelings in public. Maybe his parents didn't show physical affection, either. Whatever the case, you need to have a serious talk with him. He may need counseling. As much as you love him, he may be wrong for you. Usually, Virgos and Aquarians DON'T connect.

Trust me: You get hurt when you don't listen to your "INNER VOICE". You have to be honest with yourself. Tell this man: "If I can't get love and respect from you, I'll get love and respect elsewhere!"