Virgo Ex droppin' feelers??

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by nakae on Thursday, October 13, 2011 and has 12 replies.

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@nakae
16 Years

Soo my Virgo ex, sent me an email a week ago now after a year and a half of absolutely no contact. The email basically said that she's been meaning to drop me a note for some time and since she had had a dream about it that it was about time to stop holding it off. Anyway, she goes on to say that she was wondering if I'm okay and that she's sure I am, and that she didn't think I would mind if she contacted me and that in no way is she expecting a reply or that it was to anger me. Just so that I know someone in the world is thinking and wishing me well?

My question is what does she want after almost 2 years of nothing? I stopped all communication about 3 months of a rollercoaster. Break up, get back together, rinse repeat cycle. What gives? I thought Virgos walk away and never look back? She's even said those words to me herself.

I sent a reply back a few days later saying Thanks for the note, things are great. Glad to hear you're doing well.

Should I expect something back, or is this like the done deal now? So confusing. I don't want anything to do with her, not even on a friendship basis (we had a very unhealthy relationship that went past it' own expiry date) but I'm not to type to send people packing in a mean way either.

Any thoughts?

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@RealTalk
15 Years1,000+ Posts

She may be regretting her decision & wanting to mend the relationship. If it was an unhealthy one, I'd advise you to just let it go. It won't get any better.

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@nakae
16 Years

Real talk, that's some real talk!

Maybe it's me, I just don't get the whole 1.5 thing?? Did you really think I'd be waiting around for a second throw down? Delusional is the word that comes to mind. lol
She's the one that taught me how to hate a bitch! lol Obvi we weren't in the same relationship.

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@VulcanLass
15 Years500+ Posts

Someone might have dumped her on her butt hard .She might have been calling to see if you were either free or that she was sorry about what happened between you two.Immaturity you can work with,crazy you can't. The only thing comes to mind;run.

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@nakae
16 Years

@ let it be Trust me, I responded because I'm not mean spirited. I don't wish her any ill harm, but don't want anything to do with her either.
@ virgovixxen Aqua 🙂

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@RealTalk
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by nakae
Real talk, that's some real talk!

Maybe it's me, I just don't get the whole 1.5 thing?? Did you really think I'd be waiting around for a second throw down? Delusional is the word that comes to mind. lol
She's the one that taught me how to hate a bitch! lol Obvi we weren't in the same relationship.

LMAO!!! She could be thinking, hell, he responded to me so he must miss me too. SIKE!!!!! I think you should just be straight forward & ask her what she wants after all this time, & just inform her that you are NOT feeling it & you do not wish to keep in contact, if that's what you really want.

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@nakae
16 Years

lol Just to clarify for you wise peeps, I'm a lady and was involved with another lady. Not that it makes any difference -except maybe in the drama department. lol

@ VirgoVixxen I think we're only drama to Virgos, I get along with every other sign 🙂 Actually, I get on very well with September Virgos, just not the August variety.

Anyway, can't imagine she'll be contacting anytime soon given my less than friendly reply. But it was cool to get all your feedback regarding the situation.

If she does send another message out my way, I'll be sure to put it up here for you guys to decipher. 🙂

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@RealTalk
15 Years1,000+ Posts

^^^Whoops! My mistake 😛 Two of my besties are Aquas (guys), besides I am not as virgo-ee as I thought, lol. The majority of my birth chart is air, then fire, then the earth. Go figure. I am 8% water, hehehehe. That explains alot. I guess that's why I've tolerated my Aqua friends for so long. 😛