Virgo (Flip-Flopping)

I can't offer any reassurance only to say "uh, yeah, they get like that from time to time". VirGuys need physical reassurance. A hug, a kiss, your presence or more depending on the relationship. Sometimes, they just need you to be around where they can keep an eye on you. At least, that's been my experience.

Most of the time when they say they're busy, it's usually the case. They are big on sticking to commitments, promises and responsibilities.

Absolutely demand respect with actions. Never let a man disrespect you, and once he does don't forget it. Be classy, and act likes he's not there when ya'll bump into each other. I agree with virgogotmen....don't contact him.

He sounds insecure.

Sweetheart1969.. dont feel bad.. i can recall a few of the posts on your infamous escapades with Mr. Virgo.. i too have a bit of a saga i could clue u in on.. but thats besides the matter.. Virgos seem to tend to be a little more infectious with us fire signs..maybe its more us than them... who knows.. i think thats what makes everything so dramatic But..really.. all u can do is feel your way out of the situation.. If u think hes worth it.. ull figure out how to get on the same page with him.. Me.. im ridiculously in love with my virgo.. and ive done the Everybody Else's advice thing.. the only thing that works is doing what u feel.. Whatever happens.. youve got to know your heart will never steer u wrong.. even if its got to ache a bit.. Make Your decision and no one elses.. Honestly.. if he cant tell u why he does and is the way he is.. U will surely not find answers in people that share his sun sign.. his motivations may completely contradict the Virgo characteristics... so then what?! this is y i say step back and validate just how u feel and just wat u have with him.. time helps too..

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Ohhh myy.. Sweethearts.. i duno if its the Sagg thing but i just cant believe how close we sit in the same boat.. Both with the Virgoes.. and even our perceptions of everything.. n even the same games!!!1 lol.. the emo-mind games... the running and hiding.. then back.. then all over again.. lol.. i just d ont know what it is.. i dont know wat it is.. it just sux to be pulled out of our own personal little circles that weve made comfortable.. to be drawed in and sh*t on.. lol.. maybe its not necessarily on purpose but i dont know about yours but my Virgo.. about every blue moon takes something and puts it on him.. a lot of times id say its both of us but.. im convinced now that he cant want me.. thats y the things u say are so crazily the same.. lol.. i wont say ive given up cause i dont think we allow ourselves to (Sagg complex) lol.. but i definitely cant pursue him nemore.. i didnt realise i was so needy before him.. lol.. hes got his defenses up so tough sometimes its ridiculous.. with all these little tests proving himself right .. and wen i prove him wrong.. he never admits it.. he just doesnt say a thing.. one of his favorite stances to take.. last i talked to him.. i asked him just wat he wanted from me.. it was after a tiff like the week before.. we talked n everything since.. but he was still being short.. so days passed and i just put it out there.. wat u really want with me.. he aint say Sh**.. so i took no answer as my answer.. Nothing.. he dont want NOthing with me.. so ive got to leave him alone.. lol.. ive begun to ramble...hehe but seriously u and your virgo.. i think its mainly our communication differences that muck things up so much.. we communicate like night n day by nature.. i guess that creates a balance sometime but alota time it can be abrasive.. especially wen its other stuff going on.. and i duno about yours but my Virgo isnt mr.PourMyHeartOut by Ne means.. im definitely the more verbal of us.. but hey.. who knows.. have u tried talking to him about the BIg stuff. lol. u know.. emo and future.. intentions.. etc.. wats some of tha abracadabra he comes back with it??

yes.. since weve already let them again.. against protocol..lol..n they have proven to be sadly unworthy it must be ..back to scratch.. hehe funny but i definitely have been shown many things thru things with my virgo.. for instance.. and this is on the LO-LO.. i didnt realise i was as needy as i was before him.. funny but im serious.. kinda sad the way i had to find out but learning experience nonetheless.. back to scratch wouldnt be so bad if they came back with us 😉