Virgo gal dating a Taurus Guy

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For all you Virgo's out there who worry like me maybe you can related. They say that 2003 is a great year for our love lives I still have yet to see this happen...but in any case..I have dated a few guys none of which I was terribly interested in... two of them happened to be Leo's ahhhh two Leo's in a row. Boy did they crave attention and were just too annoying for me. Anyways I just recently started talking to this guy who is a Taurus and he is great...he is sooo funny and I love his sarcasm and we just have great conversation....and he has really opened up to me...since he pursued me I am kinda scared that he may back off...I don't know why call it the paranoid worried virgo in me but...I know relationships can work as long as two people both work at it and want it to but are virgos and taurus' a good match?
PLEASE HELP
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Nixx
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I read my / our yearly forecast.. it seems things don't really heat up until August. It had said the first of the year would be rocky, and it was.. so >.. One can be hopeful.

Here are a few examples from the web.. Hopefully others can give true life experiences.

Virgo and Taurus
On their first meeting Taureans see Virgoans as sensible and precise, someone with a strong character like themselves. Virgoans see Taureans as relaxed and yet serious about life in a way they understand. These two are soul mates who will be immediately attracted to each other and become good friends from the outset. Taureans will see Virgoans as intellectual and practical, a useful combination for an ideal mate. Virgoans will find Taureans a bit too interested in the pleasures of life but still find them hard to resist.

Although the Taurean enjoys sex it has to be leading to something more permanent, pleasure attached to security with a long term future. The Virgoan is not passionate but is affectionate and not afraid of commitment which makes them well suited. Sexually they are not the same but are quite well matched as the Taurean is warm and loving although very physical and the Virgoan has expertise but is unemotional. Their sexual differences shouldn't cause any major problems in the relationship but the thing that will is the Taurean stubbornness which shows itself if the Virgoan gets over critical.

Taureans want to have and Virgoans need order in their lives. This combination can be one of the best especially if they both have planets like Venus (love) and Mars (desires) in compatible signs. If not it may be that the Taurean stubbornness becomes a bigger problem than it should be by causing the Virgoan to be more and more critical so creating a vicious circle. However, if they are prepared to work at it Taureans can learn to open up and communicate better and Virgoans can learn that being perfect doesn't just mean being tidy.

(so.."YES" )


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Hello Espernaut,

Thank you for your feedback. It is greatly appreciated. I too think that Taurus and Virgo can work just based on what I've seen developing in the relationship thus far. My only concern is that "YES" I really do like this guy and I am very interested in him...but I have to keep reminding myself not to get ahead of myself and just talk things one day at a time. I don't want to scare him off. I am already very busy and active in my life with work and outside activities so if I just keep remembering to stick to those things and not to focus all my attention on him then he will see that I am not a clingy person and that I can lead my own life too.
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Hi Espenaut,

I must say that yes this first part of the year has been very very rocky where relationships are concerned. I don't know about other virgo's but my social life is great, career is great, but as for being in a relationship with someone I just can't seem to get it right. This is so frustrating. I am still very interested in this Taurus guy but it seems like he is starting to distance himself and I found out from a friend the other day as to why he is doing this. Oh well. Maybe this is happening I hope because this is all in preperation for that special someone who is supposed to be entering my life in August. Cross your fingers
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Hi NixxNixx,
I'm socialable, but not socializing .. job's fine, career seems to be "putting in the time?".. very in the middle here. I'm looking forward to August as well.. (which reminds me, I should reread that 2003 yearly again..) Good luck with the Taurus.. I believe I'm up to date on your other posts regarding him, that you're currently re-evaluating.. Hoping the best for you.
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Hi Espernaut,

Actually the Taurus Guy and I are not talking anymore. I must say I found out it was all about a miscommunication over an e-mail. I am really feeling distraught about it but what can I do? Nothing really. The thing is I will most likely bump into him again b/c we have some mutual friends. The only thing I can do is be friendly and civil. I seem to place to much emphasis on having a relationship to define my happiness. So I am now really working at focusing my attention on other things and learning that being with someone doesn't define happiness.

Chat with you soon
NixxNixx