Virgo Girl Melodrama and Apology Question

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VirgoFromCo
@VirgoFromCo
12 Years

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Hello, everyone. 🙂

Been seeing a Virgo girl for a few weeks now. Built up slowly from caution, to friendship, to unbelievably passionate. But, it's complicated.

I can't really go into the reasons for one of the complications, but the other is that we are both very busy. She is in grad school 4 days a week, studying when not at school and then works 3 days a week. Our paths cross at work one night a week and then we usually try to find ways to get together, even for a quick drink, at least once a week outside of work.

Last night, in the midst of stress about a test, we had the following text exchange:

Her: I've wanted to see you every day. But I know that it's not the best thing to do.
Me: I would be lying if I didn't say the same about wanting to see you. What's your take on why it's not the best thing.
Her: Long story.
Me: Cryptic. But fair enough. I have a feeling there are a few long stories between us that we'll have to share.

Then, an hour or so later.

Her: I've come to sad conclusion about how I have to live my life. Sad for both of us.
Me: Tell me.
Her: Long story. I have to sleep. Good night.
Me: Ouch. Ok. I get the point.
Her: What's the point?
Me: Sounds to me like you are cutting us off without giving it a chance.
Her: Nope.
Me: What is the point then?
Her: I don't think I can build a relationship when I'm doing 7 days a week. Especially not one that's fair for you.
Me: I understand that feeling. But I'm busy as hell, as well. I believe that if we actually want to try, we should take baby steps and attempt to make it work for us.
Me: All I'm saying is that I think we could be great together and that we can figure it out.
Her: I can't form a deep connection with my mind always half somewhere else.
Me: I can understand that.
Her: Go make a million dollars and everything will be fine.
Me: How's that?
Her: Long story. Goodnight.
Me: Goodnight.

-- So...After that lovely exchange (the million dollars thing sorta pissed me off), I deleted her texts from my phone and kind of started the "break up process". It's been short, about three months from when we first went out until now, but it's been pretty deep and intense with us.

This morning, after resolving to just not contact her until I saw her Saturday, I get this:

Her: I might have been being a bit melodramatic last night. I really shouldn't let my stresses affect anyone else. I'm sorry. How are you today?

I responded later with:
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VirgoFromCo
@VirgoFromCo
12 Years

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I responded later with:

Me: I'm still here. Take a deep breath and rock your test. We'll talk later.

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I'm trying to wrap my head around what she is saying, behind the words. Is it fear? Is it vulnerability? And, what is with the apology. I'm still a bit pissed and definitely guarded at this point. She isn't the only woman in the world, but is amazing for me. I know that I am that for her, as well.

What are your opinions?