Virgo guy sending conflicted signals

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by scorpioruby on Wednesday, December 27, 2017 and has 1 replies.

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@scorpioruby
9 Years

Hi everyone. I'm a Scorpio Sun Gemini Moon girl and I'm having a crush on a Virgo sun Scorpio Mooon man. We are co-workers for 8 months so we see each other every days for 5 days a week. I never confessed to him but he already knows I like him for a long time.

He told our mutual friends that he likes me just as a little sister and he's always scared to make me disappointed if he gives me hope (he told her not to tell me because he doesn't want me to be sad but she told me after all). But what he did is not really as he said. When he came back to his country for 5 days, he texted me every day, sent me pictures of where he went, his hometown, his relatives, his dogs,...He bought me a present of the brand and color I like which was only sold in his country and kept it for 1 month until my birthday to give me. When I invited him for dinner as a thank you for the gift, he didn't say yes or no , just smiled so I told him he can choose the date, and that dinner is still pending. After that I was away 5 days on travel and I did not text him during that time because I was still sad. And when I came back, he suddenly cared so much for me, talked to me, joked with me and even cooked me the food that I asked him a long time ago. When he was on business trip recently, he texted right when he get off the airplane and on the way to the hotel.

Honestly I already decided to give up on this man when I heard that he just thinks of me as a sister. But why he keeps sending me conflicted signals? I think he knows better that these signals are hope to me. Should I confess to him to make everything clear because I'm tired of guessing now?

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9 Years

Thank you for all your ideas and encouragement, I have decided to confess to him on New Year Eve. As you said, I really don't have much to lose lol

By the way, I just wonder of there's a possibility that although he has feelings for me, but because he feels that our relationship will not work out in the long term so he decides to turn it into brother-sister rls?