Fadnav
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Posted by TomSawyerOk argument thing is it might not seems like a big deal to you since the thing which he said seems misappropriate in my culture.
Without knowing wtf is going on between the two of you, what the fight was about and what your relationship looks like, I'll assume this is what's happening:
He's most likely angry+frustrated.
In order to not do anything impulsive, he took a step back till he cools off.
Once he is cooled off, then everything should be back to normal, I guess.

Posted by TomSawyer+1Posted by FadnavOkay then.Posted by TomSawyerOk argument thing is it might not seems like a big deal to you since the thing which he said seems misappropriate in my culture.
Without knowing wtf is going on between the two of you, what the fight was about and what your relationship looks like, I'll assume this is what's happening:
He's most likely angry+frustrated.
In order to not do anything impulsive, he took a step back till he cools off.
Once he is cooled off, then everything should be back to normal, I guess.
nevertheless this guy is in the habit of sending a morning msg every day(apart from few days in past when he did not send me for one reason or the other)
after that argument the next morning he just reply to my last nite msg but no morning msg so I asked him whats wrong with him
he replied frustrated that i should not take stuff seriously which he says when he is drunk
i lost my temper as well and told him that he stay drunk 12 hours out of 24(which is not true and i know it) and that instead of leaving me an apology in the morning for his stupid massage last nite he told me not to take stuff serously
so i send him some angry msgs and then later on tried to call him but he did not pick up
next day i left a msg in the morning that his ego is so big he cant admit to his mistake
two days later i send him lots of msgs how he run away from responsiblities and stuff eventully i end up apologizing on massages aswell and tried ot send him some normal routine msg but he did not reply back
on sat two weeks back i send him couple of emotional audio msg n in response he said he is sorry and i asked him sorry for what and two hours later he said for that nite
he is sorry for that nite
nothing else
on sunday he send me a morning msg and i replied as well but he did not bother to check my msg all day long
n on monday he did not send me any msg so i end up sending him msg if he cant take me seriously then he should not contact me
he did not contact me so i send him a msg telling him that by serious i meant he should manage things in better way
i treid to keep in touch in this week with just a morning msg and today i send some jokes aswell and fianlly ends up calling him from another number
you have the boring long version
Now my reikie friend said i messed up things by calling him
and now its gonna take a long time for him to cool down and act normal
My question is How can i make him talk to me
I know once he talk to me he will be fine
we live 6 hours drive away
what should i do
three long stressful week and nothing so far
at nite i left him a msg how he is hurting me with his silent treatment and also send him a song he checked those msgs but did not reply
What i do
he is simply refusing to talk to me or comminucate with me in any form
I'll be as honest as I can, knowing you most likely won't listen to anything and will fight me on it.
#1) You seem impulsive as fuck.
Not only are you impulsive, you are entitled and egoistical.
By what you wrote, you basically "own him".
This is not a good trait to have if you want to have anything to do with men long term.
It's cute for a while but it gets old QUICK.
#2) You're most likely younger, I'd say 22 or something.
You can't Make a guy do anything.
If you constantly try to make people do something, they will tell you to go fuck yourself.
Worst case scenario they'll hurt you bad just to teach you a lesson.
Which instead of learning from it, you'll think "Why is this happening to meeeeeee——??"
#3 You're showing your colors even before you're officially together.
here's the math in his head : 1 girl + 1 impulse + me me me = Fuck this(Maybe not now, trust me it will happen).
Look in the mirror and think: "Would I date a person like myself?"
#5) Men want women that can calm their nerves.
Not bitchy girls acting like guys
This is reality.
It's your call whether you want to take your head out of your ass or leave it there and always wonder why you can't keep a single man that won't give you a black eye and tell you to shut the fuck up.
I won't tell you what to do since you won't listen to me anyways.
Good luck.click to expand
Posted by TomSawyerhmmPosted by FadnavOkay then.Posted by TomSawyerOk argument thing is it might not seems like a big deal to you since the thing which he said seems misappropriate in my culture.
Without knowing wtf is going on between the two of you, what the fight was about and what your relationship looks like, I'll assume this is what's happening:
He's most likely angry+frustrated.
In order to not do anything impulsive, he took a step back till he cools off.
Once he is cooled off, then everything should be back to normal, I guess.
nevertheless this guy is in the habit of sending a morning msg every day(apart from few days in past when he did not send me for one reason or the other)
after that argument the next morning he just reply to my last nite msg but no morning msg so I asked him whats wrong with him
he replied frustrated that i should not take stuff seriously which he says when he is drunk
i lost my temper as well and told him that he stay drunk 12 hours out of 24(which is not true and i know it) and that instead of leaving me an apology in the morning for his stupid massage last nite he told me not to take stuff serously
so i send him some angry msgs and then later on tried to call him but he did not pick up
next day i left a msg in the morning that his ego is so big he cant admit to his mistake
two days later i send him lots of msgs how he run away from responsiblities and stuff eventully i end up apologizing on massages aswell and tried ot send him some normal routine msg but he did not reply back
on sat two weeks back i send him couple of emotional audio msg n in response he said he is sorry and i asked him sorry for what and two hours later he said for that nite
he is sorry for that nite
nothing else
on sunday he send me a morning msg and i replied as well but he did not bother to check my msg all day long
n on monday he did not send me any msg so i end up sending him msg if he cant take me seriously then he should not contact me
he did not contact me so i send him a msg telling him that by serious i meant he should manage things in better way
i treid to keep in touch in this week with just a morning msg and today i send some jokes aswell and fianlly ends up calling him from another number
you have the boring long version
Now my reikie friend said i messed up things by calling him
and now its gonna take a long time for him to cool down and act normal
My question is How can i make him talk to me
I know once he talk to me he will be fine
we live 6 hours drive away
what should i do
three long stressful week and nothing so far
at nite i left him a msg how he is hurting me with his silent treatment and also send him a song he checked those msgs but did not reply
What i do
he is simply refusing to talk to me or comminucate with me in any form
I'll be as honest as I can, knowing you most likely won't listen to anything and will fight me on it.
#1) You seem impulsive as fuck.
Not only are you impulsive, you are entitled and egoistical.
By what you wrote, you basically "own him".
This is not a good trait to have if you want to have anything to do with men long term.
It's cute for a while but it gets old QUICK.
#2) You're most likely younger, I'd say 22 or something.
You can't Make a guy do anything.
If you constantly try to make people do something, they will tell you to go fuck yourself.
Worst case scenario they'll hurt you bad just to teach you a lesson.
Which instead of learning from it, you'll think "Why is this happening to meeeeeee——??"
#3 You're showing your colors even before you're officially together.
here's the math in his head : 1 girl + 1 impulse + me me me = Fuck this(Maybe not now, trust me it will happen).
Look in the mirror and think: "Would I date a person like myself?"
#5) Men want women that can calm their nerves.
Not bitchy girls acting like guys
This is reality.
It's your call whether you want to take your head out of your ass or leave it there and always wonder why you can't keep a single man that won't give you a black eye and tell you to shut the fuck up.
I won't tell you what to do since you won't listen to me anyways.
Good luck.click to expand

Posted by oxSunQueenxoPosted by FadnavGive him time. If he was done with you, he would've told you so. If he's over here leaving you on read, he's just angry with you and needs time to let things smooth out on its own. You're being super aggressive and pushy and Virgos will not react to that the way you want them to. They will take the time that they need to take to come back, given you let them have their space to process everything that's happened and to get over it. If you're over here contacting him over and over again without much response from them, him won't take that well. Let him breathe.
I have a Question
I am a leo and he is a virgo LDR
three week back he said something when he was drunk over fone and we had a fight.I end up saying some stuff about him being indecisive and running away from responsibilities kind a guy on massages
Now he would not talk to me no matter how much i tried.I gave gap of few days and then tried but no sucesss.
He would not even say if he is done with me or not.We are added on all social media but he is not talking to me.
He will check my msgs but thats it
Yes in first three weeks at the end of 1st week when i said sorry he did say sorry for his behaviour as well but then he backed out without any further talk.
I dont know if you guys have any trust on reikie but I have a friend who is a reikie master and he is very good since when ever he told me something it does turn out that way..
He told me he is not breaking up with you but he is really angry with you .
I tried to call him today from another number and he picked up and then kept saying he will talk to me on massging as he was out with friends but all i got was one word from him that i was 'Yes" and then i asked him again the same question is he done wtih me or just angry
but he did not reply to it at all.
so my question is
does virgo guys really take long time if they are mad at you or is his way of breaking up with me?click to expand

Posted by oxSunQueenxoyesPosted by MoonshineLeoHas it started?
mercury retrograde, dont even sweat lolclick to expand

Posted by FadnavI used to act like that, then my capricorn put me in line.Posted by TomSawyerhmmPosted by FadnavOkay then.Posted by TomSawyerOk argument thing is it might not seems like a big deal to you since the thing which he said seems misappropriate in my culture.
Without knowing wtf is going on between the two of you, what the fight was about and what your relationship looks like, I'll assume this is what's happening:
He's most likely angry+frustrated.
In order to not do anything impulsive, he took a step back till he cools off.
Once he is cooled off, then everything should be back to normal, I guess.
nevertheless this guy is in the habit of sending a morning msg every day(apart from few days in past when he did not send me for one reason or the other)
after that argument the next morning he just reply to my last nite msg but no morning msg so I asked him whats wrong with him
he replied frustrated that i should not take stuff seriously which he says when he is drunk
i lost my temper as well and told him that he stay drunk 12 hours out of 24(which is not true and i know it) and that instead of leaving me an apology in the morning for his stupid massage last nite he told me not to take stuff serously
so i send him some angry msgs and then later on tried to call him but he did not pick up
next day i left a msg in the morning that his ego is so big he cant admit to his mistake
two days later i send him lots of msgs how he run away from responsiblities and stuff eventully i end up apologizing on massages aswell and tried ot send him some normal routine msg but he did not reply back
on sat two weeks back i send him couple of emotional audio msg n in response he said he is sorry and i asked him sorry for what and two hours later he said for that nite
he is sorry for that nite
nothing else
on sunday he send me a morning msg and i replied as well but he did not bother to check my msg all day long
n on monday he did not send me any msg so i end up sending him msg if he cant take me seriously then he should not contact me
he did not contact me so i send him a msg telling him that by serious i meant he should manage things in better way
i treid to keep in touch in this week with just a morning msg and today i send some jokes aswell and fianlly ends up calling him from another number
you have the boring long version
Now my reikie friend said i messed up things by calling him
and now its gonna take a long time for him to cool down and act normal
My question is How can i make him talk to me
I know once he talk to me he will be fine
we live 6 hours drive away
what should i do
three long stressful week and nothing so far
at nite i left him a msg how he is hurting me with his silent treatment and also send him a song he checked those msgs but did not reply
What i do
he is simply refusing to talk to me or comminucate with me in any form
I'll be as honest as I can, knowing you most likely won't listen to anything and will fight me on it.
#1) You seem impulsive as fuck.
Not only are you impulsive, you are entitled and egoistical.
By what you wrote, you basically "own him".
This is not a good trait to have if you want to have anything to do with men long term.
It's cute for a while but it gets old QUICK.
#2) You're most likely younger, I'd say 22 or something.
You can't Make a guy do anything.
If you constantly try to make people do something, they will tell you to go fuck yourself.
Worst case scenario they'll hurt you bad just to teach you a lesson.
Which instead of learning from it, you'll think "Why is this happening to meeeeeee——??"
#3 You're showing your colors even before you're officially together.
here's the math in his head : 1 girl + 1 impulse + me me me = Fuck this(Maybe not now, trust me it will happen).
Look in the mirror and think: "Would I date a person like myself?"
#5) Men want women that can calm their nerves.
Not bitchy girls acting like guys
This is reality.
It's your call whether you want to take your head out of your ass or leave it there and always wonder why you can't keep a single man that won't give you a black eye and tell you to shut the fuck up.
I won't tell you what to do since you won't listen to me anyways.
Good luck.
Where to start
younger hell no
add a decade to that number and you still gonna come short of my age
Yes i am short temper but i never was short temper with him in the past.Yes i do realised the stuff i said in my angar was touchy for him.
He is a decent man but samehow this decent man when we both said our sorry and later he again went quiet after my asking him to take me seriously went on tinder and change his pic and now is active on it
So my dear tell me who's the cold one here
If its a breakup then why don't he like a grown up(he is 37) decent man and tell me simply that we cant go along instead of refusing to talk to me at all.
All it will take is one single msg
but No apparently its just angar on his part and no matter what i have said so for apologized or what ever I am unable to get any response out of it.
Yes I want it to get back on track
but
I don't know how
if we been living near by it would had be easier but we don't
So he has his life going perfectly well he has just cut me out.
Today I asked a friend to call him on my behalf and talk to him but she instead of calling him left him a msg on whats app and he never replied to her aswell
So where is decency in it.Where is manner in it.Where is being nice to others in it.
and he is a guy who actually is loving and caring to all his friends and family and they all love and adore him.
I been trying all my patient to keep things on calm grounds and it was that way but one time criticism and he is cutting me off.
I did in the past get angry at him but that was for my own reason and he did respond in a day or two but this time since i pointed figure at him(btw he himself is the one who kept telling me how he cant decide and how alcoholic he is and how he find escape in drinking ) and when i said the exact same thing somehow i hurt his pride
So I am the one in pain and suffering and alone
and he is the one Fine and not giving a dam about me.
So instead of being total nasty in your remarks Give some workable advice
not just criticism
Thanks
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Posted by FadnavDont you think thats a message in itself?
@MoonshineLeo
No when you ignore some one you are not being nice you are insluting them this way
I clear cut ask him if he is done with me he should let me know so I stop bothering him but No response
nothing na..da

Posted by ufoi like the way you summed it up
two options:
a. give that guy space and wait for him to initiate
b. give up and move on
c. continue what you're doing and be stressed
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I am a leo and he is a virgo LDR
three week back he said something when he was drunk over fone and we had a fight.I end up saying some stuff about him being indecisive and running away from responsibilities kind a guy on massages
Now he would not talk to me no matter how much i tried.I gave gap of few days and then tried but no sucesss.
He would not even say if he is done with me or not.We are added on all social media but he is not talking to me.
He will check my msgs but thats it
Yes in first three weeks at the end of 1st week when i said sorry he did say sorry for his behaviour as well but then he backed out without any further talk.
I dont know if you guys have any trust on reikie but I have a friend who is a reikie master and he is very good since when ever he told me something it does turn out that way..
He told me he is not breaking up with you but he is really angry with you .
I tried to call him today from another number and he picked up and then kept saying he will talk to me on massging as he was out with friends but all i got was one word from him that i was 'Yes" and then i asked him again the same question is he done wtih me or just angry
but he did not reply to it at all.
so my question is
does virgo guys really take long time if they are mad at you or is his way of breaking up with me?