@nancykju
8 Years
I need advice!!!
Posted by wiseblood
Kinda sounds like he could possibly be compromising his position.. His choice thus far was to be friendly toward you (not exactly sure what that entails) so his choice is to not compromise his job.. What makes you think it's a good idea to make a move on him? Does he know you're in love with him? :/Is she actually in love with him, though?
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Perhaps infatuation
Posted by nancykju
Hey everyone, I reallly want your help and advice with this... like I've been in love with a virgo guy for over 3 months, we treat each other nice and so friendly despite I am a student and he is a doctor. He works at the same college I'm attending.. but I am questioning if he feel the same way about me. I'm confused, like do I have to make the first move?? Please helpp meee 🙂
Virgos won't put their jobs at risk for some pussy. Graduate, get a job at the college, and then you can get some of that doctor peen.
How well do you know him tho? Very possible he has a wife and kids, gf, fiance. Most people don't talk about their personal lives at work.
He's prolly dealt with alot of infatuated students before you, and he'll deal with more after you.
Posted by wiseblood
Kinda sounds like he could possibly be compromising his position.. His choice thus far was to be friendly toward you (not exactly sure what that entails) so his choice is to not compromise his job.. What makes you think it's a good idea to make a move on him? Does he know you're in love with him? :/Is she actually in love with him, though?
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Like, he treats me different than the other girls. He gives me priority, we chat and see eachother almost on a daily basis. He's an amazing person too (for me) we talk for hours. Am left with 2 yeas to graduate and am 22 now. I truely in love with him. Now we've been knowing eachother for almost a year.
Posted by LadyNeptune
How well do you know him tho? Very possible he has a wife and kids, gf, fiance. Most people don't talk about their personal lives at work.He's prolly dealt with alot of infatuated students before you, and he'll deal with more after you.
Or a bf*
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He's single, I made sure if this before jumping into liking him. He doesn't have anyone rn in his life.
Posted by Toti
Good luck😃!
Thanks lol.
Posted by Toti
Virgos are confusing and have a tendency to disappear and reappear, to push and pull, to be hot and cold. Be yourself and don't fake anything. Be subtle. If you are too direct with a virgo, he will escape. I can't tell you if he feels something about you, that's something you should know. Virgos require lots of patience.
I have noticed this (his cold - hot attitudes). Thats why I came here for advice, cuz he has the tendency to escape if I faced him with my feelings.
Posted by LadyNeptune
How well do you know him tho? Very possible he has a wife and kids, gf, fiance. Most people don't talk about their personal lives at work.He's prolly dealt with alot of infatuated students before you, and he'll deal with more after you.
Or a bf*
He's single, I made sure if this before jumping into liking him. He doesn't have anyone rn in his life.
How are you sure?
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Through the long discussions with him, search, profiles... twas long project lol..
Am not gonno put my feelings at risk and find at the end he's married or have a gf, thats why I looked into this before any other moves
Posted by wiseblood
Kinda sounds like he could possibly be compromising his position.. His choice thus far was to be friendly toward you (not exactly sure what that entails) so his choice is to not compromise his job.. What makes you think it's a good idea to make a move on him? Does he know you're in love with him? :/
This is what makes the situation more complicated, if it truely compromising his job I won't even bother taking the move, but lately I knew two teachers at my college got married to students (he knows this too). What makes me think of making the move, is just to make everything clear for me and him. Probably he knows I'm in love with him because of some gestures I showed. Thu am not sure.
Posted by nancykju
Hey everyone, I reallly want your help and advice with this... like I've been in love with a virgo guy for over 3 months, we treat each other nice and so friendly despite I am a student and he is a doctor. He works at the same college I'm attending.. but I am questioning if he feel the same way about me. I'm confused, like do I have to make the first move?? Please helpp meee 🙂Virgos won't put their jobs at risk for some pussy. Graduate, get a job at the college, and then you can get some of that doctor peen.
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Am afraid this not gonna work lol. I myself won't put his job at risk. Am pretty cautious about this.
Posted by sierra_
what's your sun sign?
I'm an Aquarius.
Posted by wiseblood
Kinda sounds like he could possibly be compromising his position.. His choice thus far was to be friendly toward you (not exactly sure what that entails) so his choice is to not compromise his job.. What makes you think it's a good idea to make a move on him? Does he know you're in love with him? :/This is what makes the situation more complicated, if it truely compromising his job I won't even bother taking the move, but lately I knew two teachers at my college got married to students (he knows this too). What makes me think of making the move, is just to make everything clear for me and him. Probably he knows I'm in love with him because of some gestures I showed. Thu am not sure.
Maybe your school doesn't have a policy for students dating staff.. However that is a common thing. Maybe the other cases didn't make their relationship public until the student graduated? Either way, in a situation like this, leave it up to him to make the first move.
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Thanks alot wiseblood! Btw, the other cases made their relationship public after marriage, before graduation tho... things were smooth.
Posted by Cvurkoo
mind if i ask in which country is this happening?
Turkey
Posted by Cvurkoo
mind if i ask in which country is this happening?Turkey
komsu
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gerçekten mi!
Sounds like for some reason he doesn't make a move. You are a student and younger as I guess so you are possibly afraid of him, his position and potential rejection if you have misunderstood things. He on the other hand maybe is interested in you or maybe just flirts you. Three months are a good amount of time. I don't suggest making a move. You could actually ask him if he likes you for example or something to get to know what he's is feeling straightforward.Or keep up the waiting that doesn't really sound like going anywhere. Pretty much this.
Posted by Cvurkoo
mind if i ask in which country is this happening?Turkey
komsu
gerçekten mi!
Yeah but I'm your northern neighbor. 😄 i don't speak Turkish really
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Lol.. no worries, if u don't mind me asking where are u from?
Posted by Cvurkoo
mind if i ask in which country is this happening?Turkey
komsu
gerçekten mi!
Yeah but I'm your northern neighbor. 😄 i don't speak Turkish really
Lol.. no worries, if u don't mind me asking where are u from?
Bulgaria
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Oh nice!
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Hey everyone, I reallly want your help and advice with this... like I've been in love with a virgo guy for over 3 months, we treat each other nice and so friendly despite I am a student and he is a doctor. He works at the same college I'm attending.. but I am questioning if he feel the same way about me. I'm confused, like do I have to make the first move?? Please helpp meee 🙂