OptimisticTaurus
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Virgo Guys Confuse Me!
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And he says YOU don't try hard enough? I think it's him who's not trying.
Don't worry this is typical behavior for a Virgo male! They like to disappear then reappear kind of like a Taurus male. Virgo men will some times initiate conversation first, and text you back quickly and want to hang out then they could go on to ignoring you for a few days. It honestly messes with people and they don't know what is going on!
Sometimes a Virgo will fall off the face of the earth because maybe they are putting more focus into their career, family, or just another personal situation. They don't realize they're neglecting people, and the effect is has on others. Or maybe they do they just don't care because a Virgo is going to do what they want to do regardless of what your opinion is or how you feel.
My advice is if you really like him be patient and let him come to you. Just give him space, do not ask to see him. If he wants to see you he will make the initiative. And just keep in mind Virgo men are very sexual they love physical attention. Most Virgo men can get any woman they lay eyes on. I just hope he isn't seeing someone else with you not knowing! They can be very sneaky... Just keep your guard up and let him come to you!
Sometimes a Virgo will fall off the face of the earth because maybe they are putting more focus into their career, family, or just another personal situation. They don't realize they're neglecting people, and the effect is has on others. Or maybe they do they just don't care because a Virgo is going to do what they want to do regardless of what your opinion is or how you feel.
My advice is if you really like him be patient and let him come to you. Just give him space, do not ask to see him. If he wants to see you he will make the initiative. And just keep in mind Virgo men are very sexual they love physical attention. Most Virgo men can get any woman they lay eyes on. I just hope he isn't seeing someone else with you not knowing! They can be very sneaky... Just keep your guard up and let him come to you!
This is typical Virgo male. How dare he blamed you? smh. What a gentleman? Not!
Taurus, you can do better!!! Much better!!!!
Taurus, you can do better!!! Much better!!!!
He's playing mind games he is use to women chasing him virgos fall for women who have they own agenda and is hard to reach live your life let him come to you.
Virgos are flaky when their unsure of you he is definitely playing the field and lay off the sexual gestures yes even kissing learn to be his friend! They disappear when they don't believe you are the one when you are the one they never disappear!! I would know bc I'm friends with a virgo and he never disappeared on me we hang out almost every day until I moved to another state we keep in touch here and there bc we both busy with our careers other then that he just smell emotional weakness on you dear toughen up bc if you want him you have to be ready to check him when he's wrong and keep your emotions in tact don't take everything personally!
Virgos are flaky when their unsure of you he is definitely playing the field and lay off the sexual gestures yes even kissing learn to be his friend! They disappear when they don't believe you are the one when you are the one they never disappear!! I would know bc I'm friends with a virgo and he never disappeared on me we hang out almost every day until I moved to another state we keep in touch here and there bc we both busy with our careers other then that he just smell emotional weakness on you dear toughen up bc if you want him you have to be ready to check him when he's wrong and keep your emotions in tact don't take everything personally!
Thanks everyone for your responses. I've said from the beginning that i feel like he plays mind games. When I back off and stop initiating conversations, he comes back. I like things to be really simple and I'm just confused and frustrated by the most part with him.
He voluntarily admitted to me that he's been so focused on work and traveling that he hasn't been seeing/sleeping with anyone else... I mean, I believe him I don't see why he'd lie when I didn't even ask him about it... I feel like this may be another mind game because I was honestly over him until he said that and offered to pick me up from the airport. After that I was like hmmm, maybe he IS interested. But still his actions just confuse me. I like him, but not enough to chase him and look stupid. I'll definitely take your advice xxbrittxxtay & Octoberbaby91 but if I don't see ANY effort on his part, I don't care if it is virgo nature, I'M OVER IT!
He voluntarily admitted to me that he's been so focused on work and traveling that he hasn't been seeing/sleeping with anyone else... I mean, I believe him I don't see why he'd lie when I didn't even ask him about it... I feel like this may be another mind game because I was honestly over him until he said that and offered to pick me up from the airport. After that I was like hmmm, maybe he IS interested. But still his actions just confuse me. I like him, but not enough to chase him and look stupid. I'll definitely take your advice xxbrittxxtay & Octoberbaby91 but if I don't see ANY effort on his part, I don't care if it is virgo nature, I'M OVER IT!
Virgos are not mysterious they act mysterious because they don't know what they want so there actions contridict themselves the best advice for any guy to take you seriously is to let them chase you til he's head over heels for you! My virgo came back before after the first time we fell out and you know what hooked him? I made him initiate everything til the point he got angry and told me "I always initiate text/phone calls you never call me" lmao they are walking talking hypocrites and they often want you the most when your over them but that's mean in general so yeah just stay busy and don't hang out with him every time he wants to hang out even if your home not doing anything act like your busy to remain a mystery 🙂
virgos are boring they act busy when they probably at home sleeping they are set in routines they just like to act like they are mysterious Scorpios are mysterious.
virgos are boring they act busy when they probably at home sleeping they are set in routines they just like to act like they are mysterious Scorpios are mysterious.
Posted by xxbrittxxtay
My advice is if you really like him be patient and let him come to you. Just give him space, do not ask to see him. If he wants to see you he will make the initiative.
Worst advice ever given for a Virgo.
In fact, Virgos are the complete opposite of this advice.
He could be in mad love with you and you still wouldn't get him if you followed this advice.
Oh well ... looks like you believe it ... so suffer as you wish.
The other party needs to make a move on the Virgo.
We're just there, glancing at you, spending time with you. In our minds that means we're accessible so if you want something to happen, make a move. We'll tag along in a heartbeat if we're into you. If not, we will excuse ourselves.
Either way, yeah, a Virgo will spend lots of time with you, be in your general vicinity but won't make a direct move.
We're just there, glancing at you, spending time with you. In our minds that means we're accessible so if you want something to happen, make a move. We'll tag along in a heartbeat if we're into you. If not, we will excuse ourselves.
Either way, yeah, a Virgo will spend lots of time with you, be in your general vicinity but won't make a direct move.
^Bullcrap^
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
^Bullcrap^
This isn't about you and me Shaka. It's general Virgo MO.
You can disagree but I see it with the Virgo Men and Women I know.
You and me however..we're fabulous.
Yes mysterious as in you can't read us meaning we are changeable we don't do things in routine too long. We get bored and learn/like/enjoy new things we're open minded. We call ourselves mysterious because we keep out trueselves hidden it takes months/years for people to know or get to know us.
lol typical cancer women 😉
lol typical cancer women 😉
Posted by CluelessCancer
lol at scorpios being mysterious. rolls eyes...playing world of warcraft mysterious.
HAHAHA! What the hell?
No CC get over yourself there is truth to your name Clueless Cancer yet most cancer women admire Scorpio women and we can have virgos obsess over us why they typically play with cancer hearts you want to know why? We are 2x more logical than you guys. Now you can say get over myself since I displayed my Leo Moon ego 🙂
Instead of being rude you can learn a few pointers on why your virgo is in and out of your life it's because your not the one when you are the one they never leave you. You are way too emotionally vulnerable learn to put your head over your heart and you're a little to old to let a man feel like he can come and go as they please but I'm sure people have told you this on dxpnet 10000000000 times yet you don't listen get some worth girl.
P.S my stinger
P.S my stinger
Ive never really cared that much for Scorpio women, never found anything remotely "mysterious" or fascinating in them. If anything I dont know why but I usually find myself feeling sorry for them (not in a condescending way though) I dont find them very feminine in general either, sorry. I find cap, cancer or Pisces girls more fascinating.
And if you have been around the Virgo board for long enough, you will see that most of the women being obsessed over Virgos are Scorpio, Taurus, Cancer and Aries.
hahah we can be assholes indeed, fair enough. Luckily all we have to do is show our sheepish grin or innocent smiles and you'll be right back under our spell 😄
If you go in check the zodiac sign marriage forum Scorpio is number 2-3 I believe with marrying virgos and virgos are number 3 on our list. Caps are actually the lowest with virgo men but different strokes for different folks I said my peace 🙂
I'm just stating facts I can get to the point really quickly sweetheart the point is we are art the top 3 I never said number one where wre you at the list? Oh okay discussion is over 😉
Posted by CluelessCancer
"yet most cancer women admire Scorpio women "
I think we are humorous twins 🙂 I love you CC 😉 lmmfao rotfl hahahaha best post EVER!!!
Posted by OptimisticTaurus
Thanks everyone for your responses. I've said from the beginning that i feel like he plays mind games. When I back off and stop initiating conversations, he comes back. I like things to be really simple and I'm just confused and frustrated by the most part with him.
He voluntarily admitted to me that he's been so focused on work and traveling that he hasn't been seeing/sleeping with anyone else... I mean, I believe him I don't see why he'd lie when I didn't even ask him about it... I feel like this may be another mind game because I was honestly over him until he said that and offered to pick me up from the airport. After that I was like hmmm, maybe he IS interested. But still his actions just confuse me. I like him, but not enough to chase him and look stupid. I'll definitely take your advice xxbrittxxtay & Octoberbaby91 but if I don't see ANY effort on his part, I don't care if it is virgo nature, I'M OVER IT!
If he's working and traveling so much, he doesn't have a chance in hell to answer to your demands and complaints of lack of action. How can he do what you expect if he's not around? You say earlier in your posts that he keeps blowing you off. Is it work related? Do you ask him WHY he can't see you? It sounds like he is interested because HE TOLD YOU HE WAS. He became available to pick you up at the airport. He didn't have to do that, but he did. If his work/travel is going to be a problem, don't blame him for your loneliness..the guy is trying to make a living. Find another guy will be around more would be my suggestion...OR be patient, communicate better with him (without assumptions) and get your answers. Then choose.
Thanks so much for all of the (relevant) responses here! I'm the OP but I couldn't remember that log in info!
A little update...
I'm still a little confused by this Virgo guy, but I've been playing it cool and just being patient. I'm a little more straight forward and I have a tendency to want to rush things, but from what I've read about Virgo men, his actions are so typical to them so the worst thing I can do is rush or add pressure to the situation. So far, I guess it's been working out.
We still remain in contact texting daily and we have seen each other a couple of times since he picked me up from the airport. He kinda sorta invited me to hang out with him on the night of his birthday. He was doing the "if you want to" thing and never just came out and ASKED, but that was cool. We had a good night. 😉
When we first started talking, we got tickets to go to a concert. I asked him back then if he wanted to go with me and he said yes, so we went. He told me before we went that I'd be meeting two of his close friends who would be there. We all went and had a great time together. He even showed a little affection out there putting his arm around me and holding my hand as we made our way through the crowds.
I guess my concern is not wanting to go two months without seeing each other like earlier this summer... It confuses me being the one to initiate things because I've been the one doing all the initiating. I don't wanna seem desperate or whatever. I just wonder if he'll ever just surprise me and ask me out. That would be so nice and make me feel really good.
A little update...
I'm still a little confused by this Virgo guy, but I've been playing it cool and just being patient. I'm a little more straight forward and I have a tendency to want to rush things, but from what I've read about Virgo men, his actions are so typical to them so the worst thing I can do is rush or add pressure to the situation. So far, I guess it's been working out.
We still remain in contact texting daily and we have seen each other a couple of times since he picked me up from the airport. He kinda sorta invited me to hang out with him on the night of his birthday. He was doing the "if you want to" thing and never just came out and ASKED, but that was cool. We had a good night. 😉
When we first started talking, we got tickets to go to a concert. I asked him back then if he wanted to go with me and he said yes, so we went. He told me before we went that I'd be meeting two of his close friends who would be there. We all went and had a great time together. He even showed a little affection out there putting his arm around me and holding my hand as we made our way through the crowds.
I guess my concern is not wanting to go two months without seeing each other like earlier this summer... It confuses me being the one to initiate things because I've been the one doing all the initiating. I don't wanna seem desperate or whatever. I just wonder if he'll ever just surprise me and ask me out. That would be so nice and make me feel really good.
How did he introduced you to his two close friends? Did he introduce you as his girlfriend or as his friend?
I'm curious.
I'm curious.
He just introduced me by my name. He didn't say friend or girlfriend. I definitely don't think we're at that level yet anyway. I think that's where a lot of my confusion comes from because I'm wondering when, if or how we'll ever shift into that territory.
I wonder if he called you his girlfriend to his friends when you weren't there though?
My virgo has never called me his gf in front of me, but when I met his family he told them he was bringing his girlfriend.
My virgo has never called me his gf in front of me, but when I met his family he told them he was bringing his girlfriend.
Haha I doubt it. We're still in this weird space. With the physical distance (he lives and works 2 hours away) and the minimal text convo with hours between responses I can't see him considering me to be his girlfriend or telling anyone that I am. I'm sitting here right now feeling sad that my text messages have now gone unanswered for 24 hours! This is the longest time. This is the kind of crap that leaves me so confused by him. It's so frustrating.
I ask him if he wants to hang out this weekend and he doesn't text back... Ignores my texts all day then I see where he's been logged into the dating app where we reconnected (we knew each other from school but never talked) and he's in town. THIS is the crap that I'm talking about. All of that other stuff I said up there will happen then stuff like this happens. I don't wanna be yanked around like this.
Posted by ArtsyTaurusChick
I ask him if he wants to hang out this weekend and he doesn't text back... Ignores my texts all day then I see where he's been logged into the dating app where we reconnected (we knew each other from school but never talked) and he's in town. THIS is the crap that I'm talking about. All of that other stuff I said up there will happen then stuff like this happens. I don't wanna be yanked around like this.
Clearly you aren't in a relationship with him. If he's logged into a dating site, this should be your clue. Your yanking yourself around. Don't blame him, do something about it...like move on.
This isn't about being in a relationship... It's just about courtesy and sending mixed signals. Obviously I know we aren't in a relationship. But when I say that I felt like he wasn't interested and he reassures me that he is, that's telling me one thing. When his actions are one way one week and he's ignoring me the next, it's sending mixed signals and yanking me around. I'm not seeing what I want here. I'm seeing what he's presenting and it's clearly confusing. Moving on is nothing. But it can be a little complicated when you like the person, then sense their bull sh*t, back off then get pulled back in just to be pushed away again. But whatevs.
Posted by ArtsyTaurusChick
It confuses me being the one to initiate things because I've been the one doing all the initiating.
I don't wanna seem desperate or whatever. I just wonder if he'll ever just surprise me and ask me out. That would be so nice and make me feel really good.
I have no clue why women always say they are "confused" and then proceed to describe that what they are actually feeling is desperately unloved.
You explained EXACTLY what is happening, there is nothing confusing about it.
Be real and say what it is or stfu .... you're not confused, you are just not getting what you want. Acting that way is what will make the Virgo run away from you as fast as he can.
Go ahead, tell him this and say it's confusing to you ... and watch how fast you're left in the dust. If you can't handle yourself, then you're not Virgo material.
If you want to be Virgo material ... then stop with your acting stupid.
Posted by ArtsyTaurusChick
I ask him if he wants to hang out this weekend and he doesn't text back... Ignores my texts all day then I see where he's been logged into the dating app
I don't wanna be yanked around like this.
Of course, you want to be yanked around like that .... you're here, aren't you? whining about it.
Wait, you said more to prove you do want to be yanked around .....
Posted by ArtsyTaurusChick
This isn't about being in a relationship... It's just about courtesy and sending mixed signals.
... I say that I felt like he wasn't interested and he reassures me that he is, that's telling me one thing. When his actions are one way one week and he's ignoring me the next, it's sending mixed signals and yanking me around.
I'm not seeing what I want here.
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In reality, you're getting exactly what you want.
You obviously want to give him credit, that's what you want because that's what you did. You made this thread, giving him creditability in being important to deserve your emotional energy ... while you acknowledge that his actions are literally proving to you that he doesn't respect you.
and here you are, knowing that ^^^^^^^^^ and still whining
If anyone is sending mixed signals to you ... it's you sending them to yourself.
You can type out the words here, but, have no common sense to realize that what you say is literally happening. You speak like a deluded female who thinks some magic is going to swoop down and give you what you want, which is obviously = to be loved.
It doesn't appear as though you actually care who this person is who is suppose to love you. I guess it could be anybody, and you wouldn't care, so long as he wants you. Afterall, here's this guy who proves to you it's not him but, you're too desperate to actually get that, and so you continue to throw yourself at him.
What a waste of life.
Posted by ArtsyTaurusChick
This isn't about being in a relationship... Obviously I know we aren't in a relationship.
Then stop wasting energy.. move on and find someone who doesn't confuse you.
Posted by ArtsyTaurusChick
..... then sense their bull sh*t, back off then get pulled back in just to be pushed away again.
Nobody except you makes your decisions. Instead of deciding to make your life likeable for yourself, you give him the power to choose for you.
and then you come here to bitch about how you don't like the choices he makes for you.
How fucking weak. A Leo would probably like you, or a Scorpio .. since they like weak people who don't control their life.
Jeez you guys are HARSH! lol
Okay, I am confused and I'm not whining... I thought the point of this place was to get advice. Everybody just chill out and calm down. Please! Lol
Okay.
Ive been getting what I want for the most part... Slowly... but at the same time his actions are confusing because I don't know what he wants. He says that I don't try hard enough to hang out with him, yet when I ask if he wants to do something, he doesn't respond. That's confusing! When he finally does respond he's talking about something else. Confusing! I look at my phone like WTF?!
He's a nice guy. We have good chemistry when we're together, I think he's hot and he's a great kisser. If it's not meant for us to be together, that's cool... If we could remain friends that would be cool. I mean I knew him way back in middle school! I don't wanna turn this into a situation where I'm bitter with him. I just wanna know where he's coming from and where his virgo mind may be.
Someone said I was "desperate" and throwing myself at him... Yeah that's the source of my confusion. On one hand he says I don't try when I don't initiate and on the other people here are viewing me as desperate. What is a girl to do? Sheesh.
Okay, I am confused and I'm not whining... I thought the point of this place was to get advice. Everybody just chill out and calm down. Please! Lol
Okay.
Ive been getting what I want for the most part... Slowly... but at the same time his actions are confusing because I don't know what he wants. He says that I don't try hard enough to hang out with him, yet when I ask if he wants to do something, he doesn't respond. That's confusing! When he finally does respond he's talking about something else. Confusing! I look at my phone like WTF?!
He's a nice guy. We have good chemistry when we're together, I think he's hot and he's a great kisser. If it's not meant for us to be together, that's cool... If we could remain friends that would be cool. I mean I knew him way back in middle school! I don't wanna turn this into a situation where I'm bitter with him. I just wanna know where he's coming from and where his virgo mind may be.
Someone said I was "desperate" and throwing myself at him... Yeah that's the source of my confusion. On one hand he says I don't try when I don't initiate and on the other people here are viewing me as desperate. What is a girl to do? Sheesh.
And for the record my life is awesome. If I can add the element of his awesomeness to it that would be great. I'm confused not suicidal.
One thing though, I called him this morning. The text conversations may be what adds that level of confusion so I stopped being a punk and called. I told him we should hang out this weekend and he said "sounds like a plan" we'll see where this goes.
One thing though, I called him this morning. The text conversations may be what adds that level of confusion so I stopped being a punk and called. I told him we should hang out this weekend and he said "sounds like a plan" we'll see where this goes.
My Gemini bestie is currently head over hills for a Virgo male. He likes her back and shows her in more ways than I know how to count, yet she still says it's not enough. I'm to the max with hearing her complain about a guy that's pulling all the stops for her.
I constantly have to remind her that he's with her all the time, and when he's not with her he's texting and calling her.
He's very calm and silly, and he's always trying to think of ways to make her smile.
Yet the minute he's out of her sight she starts tripping, and wondering if he really likes her or is interested in her. Lol. Sheesh, I mean dude will have left about 20 minutes prior and she's trippin because he hasn't texted her yet. I'm like HE JUST LEFT! Lol.
Bottom line is, I??ve noticed with Virgos they don't play games when they want you for keeps. They are pretty dependable in that aspect. They crave an exciting partner, because they themselves tend to fall into routine, they like a person that can challenge them out of it. I also never had a Virgo disappear on me. I guess it all depends on how much you expect from a person you like. However keep in mind if you notice yourself giving too much, no matter the sign then you need to draw back. Especially if you are the woman. I have yet to meet a man that likes a woman running up behind him constantly asking to see him. I think all men love a woman that challenges them to a certain point to keep their interest, not to the point where you are playing games. When I dated a Virgo he was very busy too just like yours but somehow he made a way to see me every single day. The one that likes me now doesn't have a phone, but someone how I hear from him every day.
He admitted that in the past his ex-girlfriends told him he doesn't spend time enough, and does not give enough compliments. I don't know how I feel about the spending time part. I grow restless with guys that —claim?? to be too busy to date me. If your too busy then come back when you can make time and MAYBE I??ll still be single. Shoot.
And girl if i were you, i'd get out there and start dating others. You can still like him
but he's not the only fish in the sea. He's not your man so he's not obligated to talk to you or see you,so if you dont feel the love or interest lol, then date others. Forget him.
I constantly have to remind her that he's with her all the time, and when he's not with her he's texting and calling her.
He's very calm and silly, and he's always trying to think of ways to make her smile.
Yet the minute he's out of her sight she starts tripping, and wondering if he really likes her or is interested in her. Lol. Sheesh, I mean dude will have left about 20 minutes prior and she's trippin because he hasn't texted her yet. I'm like HE JUST LEFT! Lol.
Bottom line is, I??ve noticed with Virgos they don't play games when they want you for keeps. They are pretty dependable in that aspect. They crave an exciting partner, because they themselves tend to fall into routine, they like a person that can challenge them out of it. I also never had a Virgo disappear on me. I guess it all depends on how much you expect from a person you like. However keep in mind if you notice yourself giving too much, no matter the sign then you need to draw back. Especially if you are the woman. I have yet to meet a man that likes a woman running up behind him constantly asking to see him. I think all men love a woman that challenges them to a certain point to keep their interest, not to the point where you are playing games. When I dated a Virgo he was very busy too just like yours but somehow he made a way to see me every single day. The one that likes me now doesn't have a phone, but someone how I hear from him every day.
He admitted that in the past his ex-girlfriends told him he doesn't spend time enough, and does not give enough compliments. I don't know how I feel about the spending time part. I grow restless with guys that —claim?? to be too busy to date me. If your too busy then come back when you can make time and MAYBE I??ll still be single. Shoot.
And girl if i were you, i'd get out there and start dating others. You can still like him
but he's not the only fish in the sea. He's not your man so he's not obligated to talk to you or see you,so if you dont feel the love or interest lol, then date others. Forget him.
Posted by ArtsyTaurusChick
Jeez you guys are HARSH! lol
Okay, I am confused and I'm not whining... I thought the point of this place was to get advice. Everybody just chill out and calm down. Please! Lol
Okay.
Ive been getting what I want for the most part... Slowly... but at the same time his actions are confusing because I don't know what he wants. He says that I don't try hard enough to hang out with him, yet when I ask if he wants to do something, he doesn't respond. That's confusing! When he finally does respond he's talking about something else. Confusing! I look at my phone like WTF?!
He's a nice guy. We have good chemistry when we're together, I think he's hot and he's a great kisser. If it's not meant for us to be together, that's cool... If we could remain friends that would be cool. I mean I knew him way back in middle school! I don't wanna turn this into a situation where I'm bitter with him. I just wanna know where he's coming from and where his virgo mind may be.
Someone said I was "desperate" and throwing myself at him... Yeah that's the source of my confusion. On one hand he says I don't try when I don't initiate and on the other people here are viewing me as desperate. What is a girl to do? Sheesh.
I know exactly what your going through. I am experiencing something very similar. Some of the comments your getting do seem to be a bit harsh. This is my first relationship with a Virgo but yet I'm supposed to understand just how they roll. LOL I had been married for 23 years so I am way out of the dating scene for sure but these Virgo's drive you crazy esp. after the initial interest. They will go hot and cold in an instant which is very bizarre to me. My friends don't understand how he is made up different than normal men so I have a hard time getting answers and support. Thought here would be good but I myself have gotten some harsh stuff too. Esp since I was like you just wanting to get some inside stuff on the sign, if it's normal etc.
JD, it's very difficult and I don't know what these other people mean when they're saying the harsh things they're saying. I experienced my first wave of hot and cold with him. Before the concert two weeks ago, he was hot. Showing so much interest saying how he couldn't wait to see me. Now he feels distant. It's confusing. And I'm not necessarily ready to just throw my hands up because I do like him! If he is interested and just doing some weird virgo-esque crap I'd hate to look nuts and just say I give up. I am hopeful that these are just weird virgo traits. He hasn't disappeared. Just been kind of distant and not very persistent.
Posted by pinklibra
My Gemini bestie is currently head over hills for a Virgo male. He likes her back and shows her in more ways than I know how to count, yet she still says it's not enough. I'm to the max with hearing her complain about a guy that's pulling all the stops for her.
I constantly have to remind her that he's with her all the time, and when he's not with her he's texting and calling her.
He's very calm and silly, and he's always trying to think of ways to make her smile.
Yet the minute he's out of her sight she starts tripping, and wondering if he really likes her or is interested in her. Lol. Sheesh, I mean dude will have left about 20 minutes prior and she's trippin because he hasn't texted her yet. I'm like HE JUST LEFT! Lol.
Bottom line is, I??ve noticed with Virgos they don't play games when they want you for keeps. They are pretty dependable in that aspect. They crave an exciting partner, because they themselves tend to fall into routine, they like a person that can challenge them out of it. I also never had a Virgo disappear on me. I guess it all depends on how much you expect from a person you like. However keep in mind if you notice yourself giving too much, no matter the sign then you need to draw back. Especially if you are the woman. I have yet to meet a man that likes a woman running up behind him constantly asking to see him. I think all men love a woman that challenges them to a certain point to keep their interest, not to the point where you are playing games. When I dated a Virgo he was very busy too just like yours but somehow he made a way to see me every single day. The one that likes me now doesn't have a phone, but someone how I hear from him every day.
He admitted that in the past his ex-girlfriends told him he doesn't spend time enough, and does not give enough compliments. I don't know how I feel about the spending time part. I grow restless with guys that —claim?? to be too busy to date me. If your too busy then come back when you can make time and MAYBE I??ll still be single. Shoot.
And girl if i were you, i'd get out there and start dating others. You can still like him
but he's not the only fish in the sea. He's not your man so he's not obligated to talk to you or see you,so if you dont feel the love or interest lol, then date others. Forget him.
I feel the interest but it go
Posted by jdPosted by ArtsyTaurusChick
Jeez you guys are HARSH! lol
Okay, I am confused and I'm not whining... I thought the point of this place was to get advice. Everybody just chill out and calm down. Please! Lol
Okay.
Ive been getting what I want for the most part... Slowly... but at the same time his actions are confusing because I don't know what he wants. He says that I don't try hard enough to hang out with him, yet when I ask if he wants to do something, he doesn't respond. That's confusing! When he finally does respond he's talking about something else. Confusing! I look at my phone like WTF?!
He's a nice guy. We have good chemistry when we're together, I think he's hot and he's a great kisser. If it's not meant for us to be together, that's cool... If we could remain friends that would be cool. I mean I knew him way back in middle school! I don't wanna turn this into a situation where I'm bitter with him. I just wanna know where he's coming from and where his virgo mind may be.
Someone said I was "desperate" and throwing myself at him... Yeah that's the source of my confusion. On one hand he says I don't try when I don't initiate and on the other people here are viewing me as desperate. What is a girl to do? Sheesh.
I know exactly what your going through. I am experiencing something very similar. Some of the comments your getting do seem to be a bit harsh. This is my first relationship with a Virgo but yet I'm supposed to understand just how they roll. LOL I had been married for 23 years so I am way out of the dating scene for sure but these Virgo's drive you crazy esp. after the initial interest. They will go hot and cold in an instant which is very bizarre to me. My friends don't understand how he is made up different than normal men so I have a hard time getting answers and support. Thought here would be good but I myself have gotten some harsh stuff too. Esp since I was like you just wanting to get some inside stuff on the sign, if it's normal etc.click to expand
Get a damn divorce, let him get his divorce then we can have a conversation. Anything short of that, your living in a fantasy. What you both don't get is when the Virgo's you are dealing with get fed up with you..you may just understand what harsh is.. Your heads will spin.
Posted by KittenLaRougePosted by LetltBPosted by jdPosted by ArtsyTaurusChick
Jeez you guys are HARSH! lol
Okay, I am confused and I'm not whining... I thought the point of this place was to get advice. Everybody just chill out and calm down. Please! Lol
Okay.
Ive been getting what I want for the most part... Slowly... but at the same time his actions are confusing because I don't know what he wants. He says that I don't try hard enough to hang out with him, yet when I ask if he wants to do something, he doesn't respond. That's confusing! When he finally does respond he's talking about something else. Confusing! I look at my phone like WTF?!
He's a nice guy. We have good chemistry when we're together, I think he's hot and he's a great kisser. If it's not meant for us to be together, that's cool... If we could remain friends that would be cool. I mean I knew him way back in middle school! I don't wanna turn this into a situation where I'm bitter with him. I just wanna know where he's coming from and where his virgo mind may be.
Someone said I was "desperate" and throwing myself at him... Yeah that's the source of my confusion. On one hand he says I don't try when I don't initiate and on the other people here are viewing me as desperate. What is a girl to do? Sheesh.
I know exactly what your going through. I am experiencing something very similar. Some of the comments your getting do seem to be a bit harsh. This is my first relationship with a Virgo but yet I'm supposed to understand just how they roll. LOL I had been married for 23 years so I am way out of the dating scene for sure but these Virgo's drive you crazy esp. after the initial interest. They will go hot and cold in an instant which is very bizarre to me. My friends don't understand how he is made up different than normal men so I have a hard time getting answers and support. Thought here would be good but I myself have gotten some harsh stuff too. Esp since I was like you just wanting to get some inside stuff on the sign, if it's normal etc.click to expand
Get a damn divorce, let him get his divorce then we can have a conversation. Anything sho
my post was cut off ! 😆 what i was saying is when a virgo is done, they are done, they don't mince words! lol
Well my mom is a virgo so I get it. Lol I've grown up with harsh words. Waaaayyy more harsh than here! Lmao!
From the way you wrote the post you only feel the interest when it's convenient for him, and that's a recipe for a one sided relationship in the making which not healthy for anyone. I'm trying to explain to you that you need to date others, and stop putting all your eggs in one basket until someone shows they are serious and worthy of you doing so. I can assure you no man is that damn busy that he doesn't make time for the one he truly wants. I don't care if he only makes time to come give you a hug and a kiss on the cheek. If he truly wants you he will make it happen, no doubt..
By the way, DXP can be harsh, thats why if i'm sensitve about a subject i get that shyt out my system before i post on here.
By the way, DXP can be harsh, thats why if i'm sensitve about a subject i get that shyt out my system before i post on here.
My father was a virgo. He's now in spirit. He chased the hell outta my mom. In fact she canceled several dates & even stood him up but he was head over heels. And he eventually won her heart and hand in marriage. They stayed together until the day he died. She's a taurus. I'm of the opinion that if you have to chase a man, he's not that into you and you're setting the tone for doing more of the work from word go. I think women are better off picking men who make their intentions clear and are willing to work for it. Clearly not all virgo men are shy and/or can't bust a move. My father was very manly and had no problems chasing after what he wanted. It doesn't sound like you have enough going on with this guy to make this kind of investment to be honest. Actions speak louder than words. I'm not buying that he's too shy.
Thanks again for all of the responses, especially the last two.
I decided that I'd just fall back from the situation and I actually realized that after not initiating any texts or getting any from him that my interest in him is just naturally fading. This was definitely setting up to be a one sided situation and I can definitely say that I only felt the interest on HIS time and that's definitely not a good feeling.
I decided that I'd just fall back from the situation and I actually realized that after not initiating any texts or getting any from him that my interest in him is just naturally fading. This was definitely setting up to be a one sided situation and I can definitely say that I only felt the interest on HIS time and that's definitely not a good feeling.
What I don't understand is, you've had two dates with him back in the summer. We are at mid-october. Why did you punish yourself for so long? When a man is interested in a woman and wants to be with that woman, they usually are real good at letting you know that. Why waste time on someone who gives you stale crumbs?
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What I don't understand is, you've had two dates with him back in the summer. We are at mid-october. Why did you punish yourself for so long? When a man is interested in a woman and wants to be with that woman, they usually are real good at letting you know that. Why waste time on someone who gives you stale crumbs?
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Posted by LetltB
What I don't understand is, you've had two dates with him back in the summer. We are at mid-october. Why did you punish yourself for so long? When a man is interested in a woman and wants to be with that woman, they usually are real good at letting you know that. Why waste time on someone who gives you stale crumbs?
You're so right! I guess I was just trying to be understanding and patient since at the time he was traveling and going on back to back trips and when he was back home, he worked 2 hours away. But I see now that was all kind of a red flag.
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