virgo male personality changes??

When a virgo goes from being timid, reserved and polite, to chatty and nonchalant/super confident in themselves, does that mean they dont like you anymore?

My virgo interest used to be rather reserved and sweet with me so I thought I had a chance, but the more we talked he got super comfortable, where it left me confused. And now where he even tells me dumb things that are kinda inappropriate in my view (like dude-bro humor stuff, nothing awful, but dumb), and he clearly knows its not the best thing to say, like he'll lower his voice volume and make sure no one else around can hear him say it.... but with me its ok? I feel thats disrespectful. Like you dont want anyone else to hear you use this language but with me its fine— It seems like he flipped overnight too, he used to be sweet and polite and thoughtful towards me and now is just soooo chill and seems unbothered and I'm like — wow.

I'm just really confused and IDK. It's really not at all what the descriptions of virgo I read online say lol.

Yeah, I think respect is a really key component for Virgos in relationships...

it’s been two years and mine still holds the door open for me or if his mates are watching something gory or gross on their phone and I’m there he’ll say to them quietly don’t show Wag - or babe, don’t watch this bit. And he’ll actively ignore it and sort of shut down whatever is getting out of hand - foul language or physical behaviour.

Like I don’t need Protecting, but it’s his way of showing he cares... if he started acting like you’re describing it would immediately signal things had changed 🤷🏽‍♀️

Every Virgo male I know is inappropriate. It shows he's getting comfortable with you. While they start off nice and respectful, that protective shell slowly fades as they get closer to you (there is a limit to this usually). Whether or not that works for you is a different story. However know that Virgo guys will sometimes opt to be friends first with the women they (eventually) date. This is their way of testing the waters.

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Every Virgo male I know is inappropriate. It shows he's getting comfortable with you. While they start off nice and respectful, that protective shell slowly fades as they get closer to you (there is a limit to this usually). Whether or not that works for you is a different story. However know that Virgo guys will sometimes opt to be friends first with the women they (eventually) date. This is their way of testing the waters.

So do I just act like a friend then?? How long does this last? lol. I dont flirt really cause Im not that type, I'm quite reserved, so our convos are basically friendship territory lol, but if I act like a friend wont he maybe overlook me in THAT way then?

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Every Virgo male I know is inappropriate. It shows he's getting comfortable with you. While they start off nice and respectful, that protective shell slowly fades as they get closer to you (there is a limit to this usually). Whether or not that works for you is a different story. However know that Virgo guys will sometimes opt to be friends first with the women they (eventually) date. This is their way of testing the waters.

So do I just act like a friend then?? How long does this last? lol. I dont flirt really cause Im not that type, I'm quite reserved, so our convos are basically friendship territory lol, but if I act like a friend wont he maybe overlook me in THAT way then?

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Only act like a friend if you wish to be treated as such. Virgo men tend to move slowly and aren't always the most affectionate. I won't lie, they can be tricky. The easiest thing you can do is be honest with him about your feelings. Don't be something you're not.

I was dating, kindof still am dating a Virgo. This is exactly what happened to me and it ended up being a huge turn off for me. He said and did so much inappropriate stuff that it was off putting. I ended up telling him that he was different than what I thought he was and he wasn’t my style . I told him he acted like a chauvinist male and I like more open minded men.

He left me alone for a couple of weeks then reached out again and went back to being super sweet saying he missed me, so I went to his house and it turned back into the same way of talking except him putting on love songs and singing he loves me.

He seems like he’s playing mind games and just trying anything to see a reaction. I don’t get it at all.

But I still don’t like his style of doing things. I’m not gonna be able to look past it.

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Every Virgo male I know is inappropriate. It shows he's getting comfortable with you. While they start off nice and respectful, that protective shell slowly fades as they get closer to you (there is a limit to this usually). Whether or not that works for you is a different story. However know that Virgo guys will sometimes opt to be friends first with the women they (eventually) date. This is their way of testing the waters.

So do I just act like a friend then?? How long does this last? lol. I dont flirt really cause Im not that type, I'm quite reserved, so our convos are basically friendship territory lol, but if I act like a friend wont he maybe overlook me in THAT way then?

Only act like a friend if you wish to be treated as such. Virgo men tend to move slowly and aren't always the most affectionate. I won't lie, they can be tricky. The easiest thing you can do is be honest with him about your feelings. Don't be something you're not.

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But hes the kinda guy who has a lot of friends who are girls/women....how do I not end up being just one of those? Lol. I dont know how to differentiate.... granted I'm pretty and I'm pretty sure he does think I'm attractive but he thinks most women are attractive so....

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Posted by Chuckcem

Every Virgo male I know is inappropriate. It shows he's getting comfortable with you. While they start off nice and respectful, that protective shell slowly fades as they get closer to you (there is a limit to this usually). Whether or not that works for you is a different story. However know that Virgo guys will sometimes opt to be friends first with the women they (eventually) date. This is their way of testing the waters.

So do I just act like a friend then?? How long does this last? lol. I dont flirt really cause Im not that type, I'm quite reserved, so our convos are basically friendship territory lol, but if I act like a friend wont he maybe overlook me in THAT way then?

Only act like a friend if you wish to be treated as such. Virgo men tend to move slowly and aren't always the most affectionate. I won't lie, they can be tricky. The easiest thing you can do is be honest with him about your feelings. Don't be something you're not.

But hes the kinda guy who has a lot of friends who are girls/women....how do I not end up being just one of those? Lol. I dont know how to differentiate.... granted I'm pretty and I'm pretty sure he does think I'm attractive but he thinks most women are attractive so....

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When in doubt, ask the person out. It's a very quick way of cutting through murky situations.